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[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Pamelatoo

Point..Match. I have a menu on P411. Some don't. I dont have a website. Some do. Geez. C your question is legit. Some ladies have a solid menu.. Some venture. The only way to solve this is in Communication. Surf the web. If you visualy like what you see. Make the First step. Call, Email, PM, IM. This is not as hard as we as a community are trying to make it. It really is simple. If you are looking for someone that likes CIM Or COF. Offers Greek. Wants to Frolick in the moon light hours wearring nuthin but her Grandmas Panties while eating a nectarine. Google it. You will find.
Point is ..If there is a Menu. and your choice isnt there. Move on or take the other road and ask if its a possibility. Balls in your court.(so to speak)

Conversation after screening:

HIM: So is Greek extra?

HER: [Click.]

End of conversation.

[urhuckleberry]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Conversation after screening:

HIM: So is Greek extra?

HER: [Click.]

End of conversation.

Precisely, and would be expected... a CATCH-22. Another reason why a menu (somehwere) would be helpful.


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[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

Precisely, and would be expected... a CATCH-22. Another reason why a menu (somehwere) would be helpful.

I consider myself very fortunate; I've pretty much chosen the ladies I've seen via reviews, and the reviews I've read have been pretty accurate as far as telling me what would be on the menu. That's why I get irritated at reviews which simply say something like "GFE" without further specifying what that entails. But I won't get started on that rant again.

Cheers,

bcg

[Guest032112]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I consider myself very fortunate; I've pretty much chosen the ladies I've seen via reviews, and the reviews I've read have been pretty accurate as far as telling me what would be on the menu. That's why I get irritated at reviews which simply say something like "GFE" without further specifying what that entails. But I won't get started on that rant again.

As our former and apparently absent colleague, BD would say, "Research, Research, Research"

There have been threads about the need for accurate and thorough reviews that provide necessary data to make an informed decision on who to see. Plus there's always back channel pm's to contact a reviewer and ask specific questions that may not be published in a review.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by arklookn4lovn

As our former and apparently absent colleague, BD would say, "Research, Research, Research"

Yeah, well this only works when there is a database to research. Right now the database is pretty bare, except for those ladies who are reviewed, and reviewed, and reviewed, etc., thanks to their WKs.

If you're not looking for one of these, good luck, because the data ain't there.

[Pamelatoo]

Out of pure curiosity.. Who you been callin lately? Is Greek Extra? Gimmie a break.
Him: Would you consider Greek?
Her : No
Him: Click

[charlestudor2005]

I'm not a big fan of greek...just using it as an example. It could have been any menu item. Fact is, if I ask the specific question, I get "click."

[HSP]

I can see from a providers standpoint about not answering such questions. There is such a thing called a verbal contract and saying about yes about certain things to the wrong person can get one in trouble. With that said, it is hard for the hobbyist to know. So it is Catch-22. I think we have all learned the lessons the hard way about what can and can't be done! Just part of the hobby!

[Lily Blair]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Yeah, well this only works when there is a database to research. Right now the database is pretty bare, except for those ladies who are reviewed, and reviewed, and reviewed, etc., thanks to their WKs.

If you're not looking for one of these, good luck, because the data ain't there.

Ouch, that stung. And here I thought that I'd received so many good reviews because I made a conscious effort to provide a good service and take my job seriously.

[MrGiz]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Yeah, well this only works when there is a database to research. Right now the database is pretty bare, except for those ladies who are reviewed, and reviewed, and reviewed, etc., thanks to their WKs.

If you're not looking for one of these, good luck, because the data ain't there.

I disagree... BIGTIME!! I could provide a long-long list of well reviewed Arkansas girls with extensive amounts of "data" provided within their reviews! Research may take you beyond the first couple of pages.... or the last few months which have been taken over by your acknowledged WK club. Also.... try checking TER , using 501 & 479 area codes.... LOTS of data!! Keep looking.... the data is there!!

Anyone interested in Giz's candid list of preferred playmates.... send PM!! The list is a nice one! We are blessed with several AAA+ girls!!

Giz's $.02

[Guest032514-1]

Originally Posted by hspaperman

I can see from a providers standpoint about not answering such questions. There is such a thing called a verbal contract and saying about yes about certain things to the wrong person can get one in trouble. With that said, it is hard for the hobbyist to know. So it is Catch-22. I think we have all learned the lessons the hard way about what can and can't be done! Just part of the hobby!

Bingo. I get the hobbyists' catch. I do. But there really isn't anything I'm willing to do about it. Call me and ask the 'rates and services' question and you will hear Click or laughter Click. I'm sure some of (many of) these calls/emails are nervous real clients. I'm sure I have passed on a lot of legitimate money. Oh well. I've also laughed at cops and banned City Of Mem, Shelby and Desoto Counties from accessing my website. I've not been outted, robbed, raped, arrested or beaten.

And a "How to ask and get answers." ought to be a BCD thread - not on a public forum. I aint in to teaching Mickey Metro how to do his job. FWIW, in all my readings, I have seen a few good hobbyists primers too. And some real stupid ones. But some good how-to's are out there.

What you might think about: Let the pro's steer the convo? I have "my way" of getting 98-99% of the info I need. Just let me do it. A hobbyist asking lots of specific questions via phone, text, email or pm throws red flags all over the place for me. A "provider" asking a lot of p4p specific questions ought to be red flags for clients too, btw.

[HSP]

Originally Posted by babee

Bingo. I get the hobbyists' catch. I do. But there really isn't anything I'm willing to do about it. Call me and ask the 'rates and services' question and you will hear Click or laughter Click. I'm sure some of (many of) these calls/emails are nervous real clients. I'm sure I have passed on a lot of legitimate money. Oh well. I've also laughed at cops and banned City Of Mem, Shelby and Desoto Counties from accessing my website. I've not been outted, robbed, raped, arrested or beaten.

And a "How to ask and get answers." ought to be a BCD thread - not on a public forum. I aint in to teaching Mickey Metro how to do his job. FWIW, in all my readings, I have seen a few good hobbyists primers too. And some real stupid ones. But some good how-to's are out there.

What you might think about: Let the pro's steer the convo? I have "my way" of getting 98-99% of the info I need. Just let me do it. A hobbyist asking lots of specific questions via phone, text, email or pm throws red flags all over the place for me. A "provider" asking a lot of p4p specific questions ought to be red flags for clients too, btw.

It is always better to play safe than sorry for both parties. Sometimes one gets burned but learns (no more venturing off the reservation into BP land for me ) and as MrGiz says they are plenty of providers that you more than know what they provide and what they don't. You may have to shuffle through a few badly written and uninformative reviews to get there but when you get there .... Oh baby!! Is it soooo worth it

[Sonoman]

Originally Posted by Pamelatoo

Seriously.. You could call this a rant or a rave. Call It what you like. We are all people here. duh.. Half of us are grown up Half of us are still tryin. Some of us like it in the rear...Some dont. Some dig DATY... Some dont. If i was grown up enough I would do that whole quoatation thing.. Since I am not.. I wont. Look..research...see what is right for you. Thats what reviews are for.
Get along or go away. Controversy on the menu have no place here. Flame away..
That Pam Chick

No flame here Pam. Very well said.

Did not realize your comment would turn into "how to find a compatible date 101".

[Guest022210-4]

Himo you swallow and facials?
Me: Yeah can't tell you that, legal reasons, sorry.
Him: Ok. Do you like birds?
Me: As much as it despairs me to tell you this I can't have you as a client now. Sorry.
Him: Ok. Since you cant see me you can tell if u swallow and allow facials.
Me:Nope. And I don't exchange sex for money.
Him: If I was your boyfriend would you?
Me: Yes.
Him: Do you want me 2 be your boyfriend?
Me: Do you have a provider reference?
Him: Is that all it would take 4 u 2 do?
Me: I need a provider reference.
Him: If I give you one will you do what I asked?
Me: I need a provider reference.
CLICK

What do you think?

[Guest022210-4]

So I posted this on ECCIE:
[ame="http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=19724"]KyLa- NEw MenU - ECCIE - Your source for escort reviews[/ame]
And since it's on ECCIE, it's visible to everyone but it's not "out there" floating around like on bp. I feel moderately safe doing this, especially since I am incall only. Also this resolved my DATY issue quite seamlessly!!!