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Originally Posted by Rover14
Welcome to our secret playhouse, Jade. There is some good advice in this thread, and I'm sure Ginger has offered some as well. (Hi Ginger!) The only advice I would offer is be intentional about what you are doing and how you are doing it. Don't let others push you around into something you aren't ready for or a personality you don't want. You get to choose if you want to be the sweetheart or the rocker bitch.  |
I like this because when I started I felt I had to be everything and anything that gentlemen wanted me to be but.....I quickly learned when you do that you are not being real to yourself and men know that. I started being who I really was and then I could really start enjoying the hobby. Every man has his own taste it's not a competition by any means. Men will see who they want to see and that could mean blonde, brown, bbw, spinner, dom, sub, gfe, pse whatever
For instance if you are truly not "pse" and are more gfe and you try to be pse it will show that will show and neither one of you will be pleased. I also agree with Secret Encounters about seeing as many gents as you can. It will burn you out and it is not as much because you will be tired and well.....honestly it is a little gross for the man if you think about it
being a revolving door and all.
Be good to the guys and they will be good to you
Sounds like you have a great mentor though and for that you are lucky! Best of luck and LOTS of fun to you
Kudos Ginger for helping a fellow lady out.
brunette lol. But i have my blond moments at times. Don't we all?
