Gimme, you're seriously old school and I remember you and I had corresponded many years ago.
You need to out yourself in an established womans shoes babydoll.
A reference is a biased opinion of her experience with you.
Not another's potential.
References are not solid.
Reference could get pissed off because her business isnt up to par and one of her regs is going elsewhere and said reference then undercuts the one asking for reference, causing your interest to simmer and take that cut.
Reference could take her slow ass time getting back, if she even does.
Reference gives a half ass reference, such as yes, I've seen so and so.
That doesnt say squat for your character, your hygiene or anything.
Some men fail to give account information.
Not like we can easily do a search on here anyway, anymore.
The full proof way a woman is going to feel safe is to have the MAN allow the woman to get to know the MAN, not the hobbyist.
I have seen some sketchy shit in my days, and the stalking, blacklisting, lies and conundrum is retarded.
I dont care who has an issue with how I run my show, it works for me and I never have an issue.
I have been stalked. I have been harrassed. I have been outed. We all have had visual proof of that on here.
But I'll be damned if I'll accept an indecent pic as part of a screening protocol lmfao.
That's as bad as being asked "are you real" or "are you affiliated with LE"!
Learn your laws and learn how to google
Learn that we are not out to harm yall.
Learn that discretion goes both ways but so does trust
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