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Originally Posted by Gabrielle
So tell me something, how many days did you make it as a whore?
Unless you're a whore...like as in that's your career...please refrain from your unwanted advice on how to be a whore.
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Gabrielle,
I notice you have used the W word several times not only in this post but a few others. By no means do I object to the word but most ladies take great offense if a man uses the word yet when a man uses it ' off to the guillotine.' I do not have a dog in this fight in the back and forth you are having but do wonder when the general gist of your post has an underlying theme calling out disrespectful men/rude men/stalkers/trolls etc. so I kind of wonder why you choose to use to include this word so much. Like I say I have no objection to the word in fact I have respect for you that you use it as I do not object to the word one bit and have always felt it not a derogatory word in and of itself rather only derogatory in how the word is used in the context of it's usage.
I do however think your use of it is counter productive to the messages you are trying to get across here. Cuff does not really match the collar...
If you do feel this thread is full of trolls IMHO you are only encouraging their behavior. On another note I am sorry you feel stalked, cyber bullied etc. and hope that one way or another you can resolve the situation.
Hopefully the situation you are experiencing will rectify itself and calm down for you and maybe it will in time stop. My only suggestion to you is ignore posters you feel are on the attack etc.; they will go away in time. Your call, all up to you and I wish you luck.
But please do keep in mind that the posters ( board wide and generically speaking) make up a tiny % at best of the men you and other ladies see and it might be a little over the top as Chung Tran mentioned in his post ( I agree with him, usually do) to lump all of us guys in to a ' men will be men.' There are many good guys out there. I see ladies abroad for the most part, at most 5% of my sessions are in the USA and the guys I have met at least in the international section are some very good guys, highly educated, treat the women they see with respect and post very intelligently as well. Several of these guys I have met and a few have met some of the girls over here in Germany on my payroll and these ladies find them to be extremely respectful; good guys really are out there
Don't let the bad apples be the barometer for all of us, at least a few good guys are left
Not judging you nor the other guys in this thread, just pointing out some observations.
Best of luck to you and have a wonderful day...
FYI you share the name of the girl in my avatar, a bombshell Brazilian working in Barcelona