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kerwil62 · 09-01-2011, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by rachel raquel

i just feel like we all should be treated the same way. i feel like if you can't commit to an appointment don't make it. but please be respectful enough to let the other person know that your not going to be able to make it. or let them know the next day. so that way that person doesn't feel like they did something wrong.

I made damn sure I didn't NCNS this woman and had a great time!

Sarunga · 09-01-2011, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by BrittneyGolden

I had a ncns with a guy named a*ex. He lives on 290 and Huffmeister. He was a bp client. I do outcalls only so I made the trip to his apartment and was on the phone with him all the way to his front door. I told him I was at his door and he never answered. Ladies, you can pm me for the name of the apartments and more info.

This might have been a prank. The outcall nature of your business unfortunately opens you up for these incidences. Perhaps, better screening might help.

Guest021824 · 09-02-2011, 04:35 AM

If guys can post NC/NS in open forum. So can the ladies that are stood up by it as well. Board names included.

Capt. Lincoln F. Stern · 09-02-2011, 06:55 AM

The biggest problem with NCNS is time management.. give yourself enough time to get there, (plan for traffic) and do not expect a lady to see you immediately.. it happens but rarely... time frames can be negotiated.. you can ask for a time frame, she can either agree or offer a different time knowing how long it takes for her.. so if she tells you it will take 1 hour more than what you wanted, you can say Yes or no. if you agree.. then get the area of town she is in so you can be read to appear at her door either 5 minutes early or on time..

However, if you call her and she does not answer and you are on time.. give her a few minutes but if she does not call back etc.... go home, try to contact her about it, and wait 24 hours before you post an NCNS

MilianaSeduction · 09-02-2011, 09:35 AM

NCNS is something doctors offices charge for....wish there was a way to do the same in this.

BananaRepublican · 09-02-2011, 09:44 AM

Ms. Miliana, here's how I fought that battle. Back in 99 I had 2 strokes. I had a final dr's apt at 12, being a working guy, I scheduled at my lunch time. The dr. had been off a week, vacation. My 12 turned into 1, I asked, well, he's busy just off vacation. Translation, he over booked. I finally saw him at 1:30. He took my bp, it was sky rocketing. Asked me if I was tense, and I unloaded on him about waiting hour and a half, not for medical emergency, but for over booking. Rest of the story. 3 weeks later I get a bill for $75 office visit. Didn't pay it. Next month, another bill, didn't pay it. 2 weeks later office manager calls about the bill. I tell her, "lady, I am a sales professional. I make $125 an hour. Your doctor cost me an hour and a half of my time, meaning my bill to you is 185, so you actually owe me $110. I expect it in the mail today." There was silence, then she said, you're kidding, right. Nope I say. She called back and said the dr thinks I'd be happy elsewhere, and I told her I already had. Doctor's think they're god.
Billy
The Wildflower Group

Jack Flash · 09-02-2011, 10:03 AM

I have never NCNS a lady and think all you ladies should post the handles of all those guys that NCNS you. If they get enough bad press, they will either stop or fall off the board all together.

MilianaSeduction · 09-02-2011, 10:08 AM

Lol well you sure told them...I was always told you can get a billion dollars in a minute but you can't buy back a minute with a trillion so I understand completely

tbone77494 · 09-02-2011, 10:10 AM

Banana - good for you dude - me and family specifically pic docs that don't pull that crap. As far as NC/NS - i think it may be some hobbyists get off a bit to the chase, kinda like phone sex. They like the calls, txts, PMs, etc, but chicken out or don't have the cash or SO interferes and they blow off the provider without another thought. I don't think handle posting will help - they can just sign up again. Screening and building a solid book of regulars will help. I have one or two that I wouldn't dare NCNS cause we click - and the appreciation goes both ways.

WetVelvetSAT · 09-02-2011, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by tbone77494

Banana - good for you dude - me and family specifically pic docs that don't pull that crap. As far as NC/NS - i think it may be some hobbyists get off a bit to the chase, kinda like phone sex. They like the calls, txts, PMs, etc, but chicken out or don't have the cash or SO interferes and they blow off the provider without another thought. I don't think handle posting will help - they can just sign up again. Screening and building a solid book of regulars will help. I have one or two that I wouldn't dare NCNS cause we click - and the appreciation goes both ways.

Hi,

Sorry to hear the guys are taking the fun out of the game! It's happening everywhere....especially the Corpus & SA area.....

I started calling them fantasy bookings! What they don't understand is they are truly being selfish....someone mentioned "cock-blockin'" ....which is what happens when we have to tell someone else that time is booked and they say will I will have to get back with you....which is months later....so we lose out all types of ways...especially touring....

I don't use the chat forum so I'm not sure, if they guys are posting under the influence of a "stiff" one....

Good Luck Sweetheart!

Sincerely,
Wet

Capt. Lincoln F. Stern · 09-02-2011, 11:06 AM

What gets me is this: Just about every cell phone can text. Even the Jitterbug phone.

If you are running late, or you find out you have to cancel.. call and leave a VM or send a TEXT message.. Any provider that says they do not TEXT, should in my opinion might want to augment that statement... state, no appointments or activities are discussed on TEXT but you should accept a text message from me if I have to cancel, and that would only happen if I could not leave a voice mail.

so in this age of instant communications, there is really no excuse other than the SO finding out and punishing you or some emergency and your phone is not working.

Jack Flash · 09-02-2011, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Spirit13

If you are running late, or you find out you have to cancel.. call and leave a VM or send a TEXT message..

Problem with some guys is this:

1. They call or text a girl for an appt. No answer/reply. So they move on to a different girl and so on. Til the find one that replies or answers. They make the appt with her. Then all the sudden the first girl that they actually wanted to see replies and so he ends up seeing her instead of the girl he had to settle for. And he is too chicken shit to tell that girl he isn't coming.

2. They are sitting there in chat or whatever and they are horny. So they start bulk texting or emailing looking for a girl to play with. First one to respond gets the date. Then he gets a reply from someone he likes better and "forgets" to cancel with the first.

3. Just an asshole and does it on purpose.

Capt. Lincoln F. Stern · 09-02-2011, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack Flash

Problem with some guys is this:

1. They call or text a girl for an appt. No answer/reply. So they move on to a different girl and so on. Til the find one that replies or answers. They make the appt with her. Then all the sudden the first girl that they actually wanted to see replies and so he ends up seeing her instead of the girl he had to settle for. And he is too chicken shit to tell that girl he isn't coming.

2. They are sitting there in chat or whatever and they are horny. So they start bulk texting or emailing looking for a girl to play with. First one to respond gets the date. Then he gets a reply from someone he likes better and "forgets" to cancel with the first.

3. Just an asshole and does it on purpose.

had that happened a few times.. called one lady.. gave her 1 hour to respond... no response... called another.. set up some fun... then the 1st called 10 minutes later.. told her my plans had changed...

since I never got a reply saying she was available I did not feel I needed to call back and leave another message things have changed.

IE, no appointment made so no appointment broken.

Guest052912 · 09-02-2011, 02:44 PM

NCNS is just something we all have to deal with. Yes it sucks, time and money will be lost but what can you do. No sense in raising your blood pressure by getting angry. It's never going to stop. There will always be NCNS. What I do is give them a few days to get back to me. If they don't I let their references know and move on. If they book and cxl more then 2 times I just give a heads up to the other girls he was a time waster with me. I also block them here and block their number. Then I go f**k the shit out of the next person. Lol

carkido45 · 09-02-2011, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Audrina Monroe

NCNS is just something we all have to deal with. Yes it sucks, time and money will be lost but what can you do. No sense in raising your blood pressure by getting angry. It's never going to stop. There will always be NCNS. What I do is give them a few days to get back to me. If they don't I let their references know and move on. If they book and cxl more then 2 times I just give a heads up to the other girls he was a time waster with me. I also block them here and block their number. Then I go f**k the shit out of the next person. Lol

Same here if a provider NCNS;s me I hold on to my coin until I see someone else.
I rarely get NCNS's