I hope it gets busier here but the OP was 2 years ago... Not very active in the time that has passed. My suggestion for gaining momentum and popularity would be:
- to clean up the site and put all the rules in one place instead at the top of each folder area
- organize the sponsor links in a way that looks clean and efficient (when I first came her the site looked like a fake website or something with all the ads and links and the fact that it loads so slowly)
- offer deals or promotions for ladies who bring in new members
- have the moderators begin discussions to keep things active if the members aren't posting
- have incentives for people who are active users
- basically make the site easier to manage and understand (took me a while to learn everything and there seems to be rules here and there that have been missed or not posted clearly)
Anyway - just suggestions
I love a lot of things here but it's too quiet here on the west coast! Let's make some noise!!!!