Frustrations with the hobby!!!

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Originally Posted by Greek73

She called me 3 days before and left a message with the rate. After, the rate quoted was 30% higher.

Ok, well that does suck, and you are right about that. If she's going to raise her rates, she should let guys know before they show so that they walk in knowing what to expect - or have the opportunity to say 'no thanks' if they choose.

[ss4699]

G73 - there was a thread earlier about a HOT * READY section on the board or chat that might have helped you in this case - if ladies were hear lurking about, you could have posted and gotten a quick response. I tried to start something like that but it seemed like it was not something the ladies were interested in - seemed primarily to be a security issue I think. But like you, many of the clients had an interest in either a thread or chat situation.

[rharley]

just check next time to see who's posted recently on here, or on bp. if they haven't for awhile, they're probably not available. maybe you were just being too picky with what was available at the time. and i'd never classify a woman in the catagory "she'll do in a pinch". that's an insult and these women will gang up on you. besides, they're all beautiful in their own unique ways, and variety is the reason most of the guys are on here anyways. just go with the flow and you'll be fine. oh and.. i almost forgot, listen to everything malwoody and scopio say, they know EVERYTHING!!!

[Greek73]

Originally Posted by scorpio31

Something tells me she's fine with that! I suppose it's possible other ladies who read your selfish diatribe and complaint will do the same thing. Geez, I hope you like dating Rosie Palm and her five sisters!! I'm betting that even Rosie gives only a CBJ in Wichita!!

SG & FS nailed it!!

Scorpio, do you purposefully pick fights on here? I have read a lot of posts where you appear to be intentionally belligerent. Why is that? Is it just your way of getting attention? It seems pretty sad -- almost lonely.

[jayhawkrobbie]

Originally Posted by rharley

just check next time to see who's posted recently on here, or on bp. if they haven't for awhile, they're probably not available.

Good advice, this method can save a lot of time.

[4friedchickens]

Maybe I'm crazy but I guess I read the initial post differently than several of the esteemed ladies. I didn't here him blame the ladies, I heard him blame the nature of hobby.

I will admit that it is much easier when I travel. My territory is the North Eastern US and Eastern Canada (where legality isn't an issue). Worst case scenario in NJ, PA, NY, MA is you make a couple of calls and if something you want is not redily available, there is usually an AMP or a RMP within 30 minutes drive. While the talent and/or attitude may not be the same, $60 entry + $40 to $150 will eleviate the frustration.

Unfortunately that's not the case here in KC...If you can't get anyone on the phone your SOL. Certainly the ladies are entitled to lives, but it makes it more frustrating around here for sure.

Just my $0.02

[ElumEno]

@Greek73..
Your not the only one that couldn't get a date with a fist full of hundreds on a escort board.
Hell I've been on lock down account the SO takes the last 6 weeks of the year off.
when she got up yesterday and told me she was going out of town to visit family..
The minute that she left I started jumping for joy.
The day before I tried to sneak out to visit a lady but just couldn't do it but in talkin to her I know she was out for the day.
Called one lady that I have a date with next month to see she was able to move it up.. Nope out of pocket tell Monday I was told.
No big deal I thought so I called another.. Nope she was with family all week.
Ohh I know who I can call but alas I dont have her number. (I do now and it will never be forget. )
OK I have pretty much exhausted my list of ladies that I know.
but all is not over.. so off to the local showcases of girls and start looking for any that might see someone on short notice.
Lets see, Allie Kat, Aspenp, Bristol, Joe Joe, Lori and SillyGirl are all out account they do not do short notice unless you have seen them before..

So that left just a few but most of them do a lot of traveling.. so I shut them a PM to see if they are in town..
And I ask a couple how they perfer to do there screening account some like using P411..
That is the problem with an HOT N READY forum - you still need to be screened before any ready can happen.

So out of all the calling, texting and PMing and sending reference info there I sit doing just what SillyGirl said.
Holding my breath whating to see which lady would like to get my dick wet.
Hold it so long that things where even bluer then before but all to no avail.

But never in my wildest dreams did I think that they should all stop everything that they are doing just because I was in need.

Now its late into the evening and the SO calls to tell me she is on the way home.
and wouldn't you know it.. Now I start gettin the PMs saying they are available.

I don't think there is a Hobbyest out there that has not had one of those days.

(there where also quite a few ladies that for some reason I forgot - and believe me I don't know how)

[big country]

rharley "i almost forgot, listen to everything malwoody and scopio say, they know EVERYTHING!!!"

Is this going to be on every thread from now on?? Or is there an expiration date? You ruin anything you say by the bs.

[jframe2]

"Maybe I'm crazy but I guess I read the initial post differently than several of the esteemed ladies. I didn't here him blame the ladies, I heard him blame the nature of hobby."

I, too, read the Original Post as expressing frustration with the Hobby, not aiming at the ladies.
Happy Holidays,

[SpanishJewel]

Originally Posted by Greek73

I would think this time of the year, providers would need the money. I'm not irritated at any one provider just frustrated because I spent all that time trying to find someone and after 4 hours, I had to just go home!

I did finally get a call back from an UTR provider that is decent in a pinch, but it was very rushed (my fault) and after she told me she raised her rate and wanted more $ (her fault).

Anyway, frustrating hobby day!

I am astounded at your ignorant sentence regarding that we should just jump to someone's last minute needs because we need the money... For a provider to enjoy herself, give quality time to a gentleman it's NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY... You even admitted you waited until the last minute, did it not occur to you that perhaps you're an ass and no one wanted to take time out of their busy personal lives to see you?

EEGADS man! This mindset that "we" as providers, are in this for the money is complete bullshit. Yes, the money is good - however some of us really do love what we do and are not a fucking Domino's pizza that will be ready when you want it. THAT is what backpage is for...... or agencies....

Jazz

[SpanishJewel]

and yes, I should probably read the entire thread before posting reading the initial post.. I totally agree with Silly Girl..

(still rolling my eyes and shaking my head - Holy mother of Jezebel with this mindset)

xoxo
Jazz

[Greek73]

Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

I am astounded at your ignorant sentence regarding that we should just jump to someone's last minute needs because we need the money... For a provider to enjoy herself, give quality time to a gentleman it's NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY... You even admitted you waited until the last minute, did it not occur to you that perhaps you're an ass and no one wanted to take time out of their busy personal lives to see you?

EEGADS man! This mindset that "we" as providers, are in this for the money is complete bullshit. Yes, the money is good - however some of us really do love what we do and are not a fucking Domino's pizza that will be ready when you want it. THAT is what backpage is for...... or agencies....

Jazz

I did try backpage. In fact, 3/4 of the calls I made were to providers on backpage. AND, I only tried those that had posted that day. Sorry you feel so personally offended.

[Greek73]

Originally Posted by jframe2

"Maybe I'm crazy but I guess I read the initial post differently than several of the esteemed ladies. I didn't here him blame the ladies, I heard him blame the nature of hobby."

I, too, read the Original Post as expressing frustration with the Hobby, not aiming at the ladies.
Happy Holidays,

I'm glad someone understood what I was saying. I do get calls and texts from providers asking me to come see them or asking when I am available. I suppose I will keep the feedback to myself from now on especially considering the level of backlash I got regarding my opinion.

[JS42]

I'm also surprised at the backlash from this thread. The dude merely stated he was frustrated he wasn't able to see anyone. He didn't call out anyone, and it's not too far an assumption to think that people may need some extra money during the holidays. Gee, color us dumb for anyone that sees it that way. I think the people hammering him should take a chill pill, he was just looking for some holiday goodies.

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

I am astounded at your ignorant sentence regarding that we should just jump to someone's last minute needs because we need the money... For a provider to enjoy herself, give quality time to a gentleman it's NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY... You even admitted you waited until the last minute, did it not occur to you that perhaps you're an ass and no one wanted to take time out of their busy personal lives to see you?

EEGADS man! This mindset that "we" as providers, are in this for the money is complete bullshit. Yes, the money is good - however some of us really do love what we do and are not a fucking Domino's pizza that will be ready when you want it. THAT is what backpage is for...... or agencies....

Jazz

Bullshit, your not doing this because you love it, if you were you would being it for free, and while you may not be in need of money many are and his comment is accurate. This is the biggest crock of crap I have heard uttered on this board in a long time. Save the sales pitch for your ads