Ugly Sex....Why is it Hot Sometimes!??!!

[Carrie Hillcrest]

I've definitely had great sex with people whose physical features I wouldn't normally be taken with -- however they all had serious skills to make up for it. And during sex my eyes are rolled back in my head most of the time anyway, so what he looks like when we're intimate? Not as important as knowing what to do with his hands/mouth/etc.

However, I've never had sex with someone I hated or despised. I really don't see that working for me. How do you make the transition from wanting to shiv someone to ripping his clothes off?

[PoppyToyota]

Carrie you are so funny! Your edited reason: aliens LOL!

[Carrie Hillcrest]

Originally Posted by PoppyToyota

Carrie you are so funny! Your edited reason: aliens LOL!

Better than the real reason, which is that I forgot to type a word. I think the original draft was something like, "I've definitely had great sex people". Which isn't false, but wasn't the meaning I'd intended.

[Bob Soldios]

The "angry" part reminds me of an old quote from Night Court :

"So, are you into angry sex?"
"Is there some other type?"

[Bubblesdfw]

I find that the more handsome the Player is the less attentive he is in bed.
I prefer older gentlemen as they seem to be much more attentive towards me. I do realize it is really all about the Player and it is with me, but sometimes us girls justs got to have some fun too!
I get email all the time saying "You might not like cause I am fat and ugly"
well they usually are the more fun appointment's.
I guess you could say the topic here is a valid one but I would have trouble labeling it "Ugly Sex "
ME

[Bubba]

Bubbles.....your post made my day....make that my year. As a confirmed ugly, fat and balding old guy your post is a ray of sunshine!! I am going to have to catch up with you on my next trip to Dallas. I have little doubt we would have a blast.

Now.....back on topic.....

Many years ago I found out the girl I was dating had been lying to me about several things. I was pretty mad about about the situation. The night before I was going to confront her and break things off she came over to my house.....to this day I think she knew something was up.....anyway...we wound up in bed. I was so angry about what had been going on I was determined to make her pay for her transgressions. Basically it was what is called a "Grudge F***". As it turned out, it was the best sex I had ever had. As for her......she sure seemed to enjoy it!! LOL!!

[Gonzo DFW]

Of course, if he's hung like a donkey it helps. G

[vnurse]

I learned at a very young age (teenager time) that looks SO totally don't matter. What happened was I met a guy at a function of some sort...anyways, he was (to put it bluntly) UGLY and tall, skinny, lanky and awkward. After we got to know one another, not only was he one of the best guys I ever knew personality and intelligence-wise, he was a MOST excellent lover!

I never, never ever have judged a person based upon looks since then...NEVER!