The Art of DATY

[hookem69horns]

Some ladies like a guy (or girl) to lick them like a little kitten drinking water from a bowl.
Some ladies like a guy (or girl) to lick them like a bloodhound drinking water from a bowl.

Gosh knows I've watched more than my fair share of girl-on-girl porn, and I have had many GF's that enjoy having their kitty licked, and the two most important things to do ... listen, and pay attention to her every little movement!!!

Aside from that, the real question begs how many providers actually enjoy DATY enough to really let go, have fun, and provide you with verbal and non-verbal communications?

[Guest081013-1]

Wow... very good ideas from all...
PERSONALLY... I like a nice soft lipped mouth... nothing hard.. nothing too rough... the slower the better... long slow licks.. top to bottom.. side to side.. there's only a small area to cover.. so make sure you get it all

As far as the suction goes.. softly.. is better for me.. act like you're are enjoying it.. breath a little harder.. I like to reach down with my hands.. and feel your head moving nice and slow.. allowing me to lie back and enjoy it.

Maybe slide a finger in just to the knuckle.. and hold it there..

But, that's just me!!!

I came up with my own acronym.. for the guys... NO FTFL... which means.. fast tongue flicker lickers... lmao
slow and easy is best for ME

Everyone play safe.. and have fun!!!
Amber Rain

[Sexy Roxanne]

I like soft and firm licks, flicks, sucking, not hard sucking (lord knows I want to keep my clit attached) I like fingering as well. Mmmm I really L-O-V-E me some DATY!

[Stealthguy]

Lots of sage advice here. If you're between her legs for the first time and don't know, why not ask? The fact that you even asked the question here proves you want her to enjoy the session so why waste time trying to find out the answer? I know no woman, pro or civilian, that does not appreciate attention to her pleasure; in any situation; under any circumstance.

Personal experience - if you're already down there and all of the sudden the moans get louder/heavier and you find her pelvis pushing down and moving around harder on your face, "follow the leader!"

[Hillbilly]

It takes a lot of practice. However, you either know how to do it right or you don't. You are either good at it or you suck (in not a good way!)!!

From what I've been told, I get A's!

[fawn]

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=3586
Clitoral Stimulation
Clitoral Stimulation Techniques
Yes, No, or Maybe So?!?!?!

Stimulating the clitoris is a bit like giving someone a massage; it may feel fantastic at first, but if you don’t vary your technique the result can lead to numbness or pain, neither of which are conducive to driving your woman wild with ecstasy. When it comes to oral sex, many men believe a simple flick of the tongue will suffice -- and it might, in the teasing phase. But, if you really want to rock her world, you should go above and beyond the standard clitoral stimulation techniques. The following clitoral stimulation techniques are tried and true; they’ll have your woman begging for mercy and so much more.

Oral stimulation
The clitoral hood is there to protect the clitoris and prevent over-stimulation, a sensation that can be extremely uncomfortable and sometimes painful. But that doesn't mean a little direct teasing is not appreciated once in awhile. Using your best foreplay techniques, get her as turned on as you possibly can. When she starts moaning, slide between her thighs and tease her unexposed clitoris with your tongue until it’s fully erect. Gently retract the hood until the clitoris is partially exposed, and dart your tongue across it. You’ll want to repeat this move gently and quickly, varying the direction each time and pausing between each flick of the tongue. When she starts begging for more attention, release the hood and increase the degree of applied pressure until she reaches orgasm -- which should be right around the corner.

Clit tip: Don’t blow directly on the clitoris -- that will only dry the glans out, and nothing is more painful than having attention lavished on a non-lubricated clitoris.

Clit tip: The first strokes should be individual. In other words, you’ll want to momentarily break physical contact between each one. As she nears orgasm, you’ll want to alter your technique and begin sliding your tongue back to the starting point without breaking contact. This will ensure maximum clitoral stimulation.

Multiple manual stimulation
This is a fantastic method of stimulating the clitoris, but the execution can be somewhat tricky. The best position for this is with her lying on her back, and you lying beside her. Start with the gentle massaging method we just discussed, and continue until she’s very, very wet. At that point, you’ll want to slide a finger or two inside of her. Take your time. You don’t want to inflict pain, as that would kill the mood. When she’s ready for more, place your thumb on her clitoris and start to massage it. The combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation will double her pleasure, not to mention lead to a very unique orgasm.

Clit tip: If your fingers aren't long enough to simulate intercourse while keeping your thumb on her clitoris, don’t worry about it. The main stimulation here should be clitoral, and it’s perfectly fine if your other fingers don’t move very much; some women actually prefer this.

[TGF]

I love teasing first and then slowly build up the focus and tempo in all cases listening to the vocal and bodily responses I get. I start with licking the inner thighs and move slowly inward, the outer parts of the kitty, bottom to top, then the outer labia, again from bottom to top, but never quite reaching the end goal of my oral ministrations, then parting the labia with my tongue and moving slowly upward - eventually reaching the prize and beginning my various techniques very softly and increasing the techniques from light butterfly kisses and flicks to swirls, light flutters, gentle sucking to increasing flutters, suckings all in a wide set of varieties etc as the bodily and vocal responses dictate. I love it all

[Autumnkc]

Starting out slow, kissing and licking around near the crease of the legs and ass... then going in slooooow.... mmm... thats hot! After you start of slow, you can speed it up if you like, you just dont want to move tooo fast, you WANT us to WANT more, so teasing is GREAT!

[Kaci Snow]

This is an awesome Thread I was thinking about this very thing the other day after I came out of an apt. For me I like slow soft sensual licking on my clit no fingers or just at the opening a little tiger but not much. I like lite sucking. I hate when they kiss beside it it does nothing for me at all. Stay on the clit as much as possible.

[Surge]

I just like eating pussy...

Ass up face down...

[Stealthguy]

DAMN, Bestman! How did you keep your webbrowser from timing out while uploading that one?

faun, GREAT advice! But like all rules, there must be exceptions. Do you know if any? No names, please on this Thread, but if you would like to name names in a P.M. ....

[Sexy Roxanne]

All I can say is.....

[ItalianaPrincess]

Surge - I agree, great position! Mmmmm....I like-eee!

Hookemhorns - YES!!!! "Some ladies like a guy (or girl) to lick them like a little kitten drinking water from a bowl."

Much like the above mentioned. I prefer soft. Very soft. Fast little licks, or as much vibration-type style as possible. NOT hard...just soft.

My clit is very high up, so you don't have to go diggin' around or diving in very far. If you are face planted in it, snorkeling it in, or digging for treasure...plz lighten it up...come up for air...and just think "GENTLE". Sometimes these guys work too hard at something that can happen so easy (for me), they just need to know to tread SOFTLY.

We can save the "rough" stuff for other activities!! he he he...wink!

XOXO,
ItalianaPrincess

[TGF]

Mmmmmmmm - so many wonderful clits and so little time/money - sigh! And soft and slow and long is my speciality!

Your enchanted TGF

[daty/o]

DATY, one of life's nicest pleasures, but I usually tire out after about 45 minutes. I like to think I am good at it, but with the academy award providers we have, who knows. One point that is well made; let her body do the moaning. Hard to fake that.