Welcome to ECCIE - Sign up today!

kittendd · 01-26-2010, 10:30 AM

But apparently according to her posts she had all the above. No I missed Randi post this morning. However I maitain my stance on this NO PROVIDER regardless of who and how are good they are have the right to accuse another provider of cyber pan handling in any manner. How would Girl feel if she was in some strange city her wallet with her id , credit cards, etc either lost or stolen and she posted a similar post and had made series of bad choices to make it worse and she was greeted with the same reaction ? Im betting she wouldnt apprecaite it not one bit. No one in their right mind would

Look I will give you that based on the history of Lynn then this could be scam but what if its not? What right did Girl have to accuse her of cyber pan handling without first talking ot her and getting all the facts? Lets face it none of us in the business really have the right to judge anybody on any level.

Lookin as far as my bleedin heart I will take it anyday because that means I have not turned completely cynical and that my friend is something in itsself. What it does end badly? What the worst thing can happen? Those of us who chose to help are out some hard earned cash? But hey it also says the hobbyist /providers arent all cold hearted which is good for pr for other providers who may be considering touring this state and that is a good thing for you hobbyist..

Guest022210 · 01-26-2010, 11:54 AM

Ya know Bluff that suggestion you make about discouraging her from Memphis isn't as humorous as it seems.The providers in town might do well to pass the hat lest she settle here.At 100$,unless she has a face like Ernest Borgnine, she would make some fierce competion.On her website her pics look like she is packing a serious set of speedbumps with nipples that could put an eye out.She could set the local talent a low stick to limbo under.Now,are you sure you wouldn't like her in Memphis.
Regardless, you are a kind soul and an erudite gentleman on
some future date when circumstances improve it would be my pleasure
to join you for an evening of beer and prostitutes.I'll bring the beer.

Girl Nexxxt Door · 01-26-2010, 12:01 PM

I'm not saying that I am above catastrophe. I, too, certainly could have had my wallet stolen, cash, credit cards, etc.

However, I have been an adult in this cold, harsh world long enough to realize that one shouldn't put all their eggs in one basket. I would never never never put myself in a situation where I don't have a backup plan. It's simple adult responsibility...and the knowledge that what can go wrong, usually will.

The whole situation seems a little fishy to me, period. Does she not have family to call on in emergency situations? No friends or good clients to ask a favor of in such a desperate time? No money in an account for an emergency situation?!? We providers make a lot of money...to have a little set back for an emergency is not an uncommon thing. Especially when one hits the road in uncharted territory.

It seems like a lot to ask of total strangers. Break out your dictionary, Kitten. This is textbook-definition panhandling.

My concern for our local friends and the possibility that they may be taken advantage of by a con-artist is what motivated me to speak up.

Call me harsh, but I call 'em like I see 'em. If the shoe fits...

Guest022210 · 01-26-2010, 12:11 PM

"Call me harsh, but if the shoe fits..."

Get a nice outfit to match!!

Texan1965 · 01-26-2010, 12:20 PM

The proper thing for Miss Lynn to do is to post a Provider ad, book some appts, make some money, at 250 an hour it wouldn't take much working. Then get her ticket and go. This IS NOT the place for the BS.

I have a provider friend of mine from Dallas that drove to Texarkana because she was broke. She did a couple of appts and went home. She got some good reviews posted and drove back the next day. She said she was able to get paid what she needed to. She NEVER asked me for a dime in hand outs.

IMHO this board should not let this happen.

Texan

Skilar Rayne · 01-26-2010, 01:17 PM

I agree with Girl.. There should be no reason why she shouldn't have money put up... Whether it be provider, business man/woman, EVERY body has a nest egg somewhere. It smells fishy to me....

Livonia · 01-26-2010, 01:58 PM

I just wonder this, if it were a hobbyist posting the same thing, would we even be replying to it?

I am a poor man on social security. As some providers can testify, my car is a death trap ready to happen. I need help getting a new used car (anyone want to be my sugar mommy??). Can some nice people her donate to me??

The above is all true, but I am sure that most will ignore it. See, if a man posts this, it goes ignored. When a lady posts it, we post pages of replies. Just an observation, and I will keep looking out my window for my new car

Texan1965 · 01-26-2010, 02:01 PM

Excellent observation Livonia!!!

bluffcityguy · 01-26-2010, 02:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Livonia

I just wonder this, if it were a hobbyist posting the same thing, would we even be replying to it?

I think we probably would, but only to ridicule him.

Cheers,

bcg

bluffcityguy · 01-26-2010, 02:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lookin4

Ya know Bluff that suggestion you make about discouraging her from Memphis isn't as humorous as it seems.The providers in town might do well to pass the hat lest she settle here.At 100$,unless she has a face like Ernest Borgnine, she would make some fierce competion.On her website her pics look like she is packing a serious set of speedbumps with nipples that could put an eye out.She could set the local talent a low stick to limbo under.Now,are you sure you wouldn't like her in Memphis.

I wouldn't say I wouldn't like her in Memphis. At this stage in my life, I'm totally single, with no SO, and I have very, very grave doubts that I'll ever acquire one. If she settled here... In a worst case scenario (she got my phone number somewhere), I have caller ID and I'm not afraid to use it. She can't get me in trouble calling or texting me, and if I don't feel like being interrupted, I'm not interrupted.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lookin4

Regardless, you are a kind soul and an erudite gentleman on some future date when circumstances improve it would be my pleasure to join you for an evening of beer and prostitutes.I'll bring the beer.

You're way too kind and generous, my friend. I shall forward that proposition to my lawyer for his counsel. If he advises me to agree to the terms of that contract, I'll find another lawyer.

Cheers,

bcg

Skilar Rayne · 01-26-2010, 02:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Livonia

I just wonder this, if it were a hobbyist posting the same thing, would we even be replying to it?

I am a poor man on social security. As some providers can testify, my car is a death trap ready to happen. I need help getting a new used car (anyone want to be my sugar mommy??). Can some nice people her donate to me??

The above is all true, but I am sure that most will ignore it. See, if a man posts this, it goes ignored. When a lady posts it, we post pages of replies. Just an observation, and I will keep looking out my window for my new car

I agree...

kittendd · 01-26-2010, 02:28 PM

Girl back up plans are good but unless you are the President and Vice President of the US no back up plan is fool proof. Accidents happen when we least expect them. I will point out that some providers may not have family and are close friends to call in a moment of trouble or maybe they feel like for whatever reasons they cant call.
NOw lets take this another step she mentioned that she lost her wallet, etc is it possible she lost her cell as well with all her numbers in it. Some providers do keep everything in their cell (not me but hey what can i say i spend a fortune on electronics to protect my clients) and if she did lose her cell as well then she would have no way to reach them. Maybe her bank doesnt have a local branch here.

IN any case whether or not she is panhandling or not and she may very well be its not our place to judge her. We are not God well at least Im not and IM sorry Rayne and Girl but you guys dont look like God either. Its not our place to say if she is panhandling or not without all the facts.. The key word is facts.[/B] No one so far has proven beyond any reasonable doubt that she is panhandling but then no one has proven she is in trouble either.

The cold hard facts which are as follows:

1. Lynn posted an ad on here for help
2. She has a questionable history(who doesnt from time to time?
3. No one thus far has heard from her again at least not that anyone has posted
4. There is been no solid evidence to prove she is actually in trouble
5. There has been no solid evidence to prove she is panhandling
6. Girl , Rayne you have both accused this provider of panhandling without having solid evidence to prove she is or isnt. [/I]

Those are the facts. Nothing more nothing less. It does seem like she made a mistake on posting here for help. Why step down off your pedistal to help someone who may be in trouble when its so much easier to judge them without solid evidence.

I agree Texan and for all we know she may have found a way out of here (if she was truly in trouble.I hope so

Im sorry Im all for protecting the guys if there is solid evidence to support the need but there just isnt at this point..

Lynn may very well be panhandling but there is no solid evidence to support it and there is no evidence to support she is in trouble. In any case no one needs to be judging any body else and or calling them out without the cold hard facts.If that makes me wrong so be it.
Kitten

Texan1965 · 01-26-2010, 02:50 PM

Kitten, Looks like you are by yourself on this one..Maybe you need to go help a sista out....

Texan

kittendd · 01-26-2010, 03:00 PM

I agree Texan but Im okay with that. I have made enough mistakes in my life to know when you judge someone without the hard factual facts then it equals to bad Karma and bad Karma has a way of coming back to bit you big time and when you least expect it. Sorry but I can do enough to encourage bad karma on my own without adding this to the list lol

I would help her out and have pm her but got no response...but I would help anybody out if they needed it. What goes around comes around...

Skilar Rayne · 01-26-2010, 03:38 PM

The cold hard facts which are as follows:

1. Lynn posted an ad on here for help
2. She has a questionable history(who doesnt from time to time?
3. No one thus far has heard from her again at least not that anyone has posted
4. There is been no solid evidence to prove she is actually in trouble
5. There has been no solid evidence to prove she is panhandling
6. Girl , Rayne you have both accused this provider of panhandling without having solid evidence to prove she is or isnt. [/I][/B]
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

I never once accused any body of panhandling, I was simply offering my opinion.... as was Girl. You have yours, but......