Damn you Eccie girls!

[Stanfeld]

I never met a civilian woman who experianced an orgasm... until I came along.

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by Stanfeld

I never met a civilian woman who experianced an orgasm... until I came along.

Lols, sir.

[LuckOfTheOrient]

Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Not to interject so seriously here, but I personally think it is because a lot of "normal" aka "civvy" women can just be really weird and shamed over sex.

Unfortunately, bc of the society we live in. Sex is constantly in the media yet when it comes down to real life, a lot of women feel ashamed of their own bodies, sexuality and sexual desires. Like it is wrong to want to "fuck like slut" etc etc.

Like, I was reading this study the other day that said something like 15% of the women who had participated in the study still had never experienced an orgasm through sex at the age of 40. Jesus, how sad!

And I've dated a few chicas (in civvy life, not the hobby) that were perfectly happy to pleasure me until the cows came home, but would never want me to go anywhere near their coochies.

Women who are providers obviously do not have these hang ups about sex; we are more liberated in that way and can therefore enjoy and give sexual pleasure more freely. Not saying that there are NO civvy women who aren't like this; but it does seem to be a conundrum. Do all provider ladies inevitably end up becoming providers because of our non-issues over sex? Maybe.

Jesus.
Joseph.
Mary.
And God,
How many fucking soapboxs are you standing on?

[ktrouble22]

Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Not to interject so seriously here, but I personally think it is because a lot of "normal" aka "civvy" women can just be really weird and shamed over sex.

Unfortunately, bc of the society we live in. Sex is constantly in the media yet when it comes down to real life, a lot of women feel ashamed of their own bodies, sexuality and sexual desires. Like it is wrong to want to "fuck like slut" etc etc.

Like, I was reading this study the other day that said something like 15% of the women who had participated in the study still had never experienced an orgasm through sex at the age of 40. Jesus, how sad!

And I've dated a few chicas (in civvy life, not the hobby) that were perfectly happy to pleasure me until the cows came home, but would never want me to go anywhere near their coochies.

Women who are providers obviously do not have these hang ups about sex; we are more liberated in that way and can therefore enjoy and give sexual pleasure more freely. Not saying that there are NO civvy women who aren't like this; but it does seem to be a conundrum. Do all provider ladies inevitably end up becoming providers because of our non-issues over sex? Maybe.

Thanks Victoria. I think you pretty much captured the conundrum! My post is posing a serious question, so I appreciate your answer.

[bigbadbill969]

I think providers fill a role that is missing in today's society. When I was a kid women were supposed to make the man and home a happy place and the man supported the family.

[Caligula1]

I have had the pleasure of accustomed to civilan ladies and providers. These are two different groups with different mindset.

The civilan ladies are and were well endowed with decent income and looking for companionship and if the chemistry was correct there was great sex and variety over time. The only issue I have encountered you may not be able to have it when you want it. Some lack of flexibility.

In the hobby I have had the pleasure of meeting some of the finest. Hobby provides an opportunity to variety always and flexibility of time. ladies provide the client 110 percent attention for mutual pleasure. Men get what they want almost most of the time and ladies if they feel comfortable with the client provides great interaction which is also becomes a source of guaranteed income. It's becomes a consensual business relationship if respect and trust is built.

Lastly for either type intercourse is not mechanical always.

[Guest020719]

Originally Posted by bigbadbill969

I think providers fill a role that is missing in today's society. When I was a kid women were supposed to make the man and home a happy place and the man supported the family.

It all went downhill when we let them vote.... stupid gender equality. How was burning a bra a bad thing? Just hose down her shirt. Men of that era were dumb! Going to go inside my bomb shelter now. Mkay, bye.

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by LuckOfTheOrient

Jesus.
Joseph.
Mary.
And God,
How many fucking soapboxs are you standing on?

You're new here honey, so I am only going to say this once.

You can keep coming after me in every single post I make, if you want; I've been around this hobby long enough to not let insecure, misogynists like you, get to me. So, have your fun, and keep digging your own grave on this board by posting stuff like this.

Legit gents here won't take what you say for shit, and ladies will start to decline visits with you (if in fact, you are genuinely seeking comfort, which I seriously doubt.)

I've seen gents like you come and go throughout the years, so enjoy your time here, while you have it.

Sorry to the OP for de-railing, I had to speak up for a second.

[Guest020719]

..and shoes... who's big idea was it to give them shoes! Barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen!!!

[Guest020719]

Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

You can keep coming after me in every single post I make

VoH, ignore those kind of humans. They just want attention, even negative attention. They are lonely sad creatures! Just ignore.

Be happy

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by ktrouble22

Thanks Victoria. I think you pretty much captured the conundrum! My post is posing a serious question, so I appreciate your answer.

Thank you.

To get back on point...at one point, before I ever started providing, I worked in a shop that sold lingerie, corsets, cool clothing and also toys, etc.

I can't tell you how many times a lady would come in wanting to buy something, but would be so embarrassed about it. And I was another woman, it's not like there was some creeper hanging out trying to sell her a dildo.

I just find that a lot of civvy women's attitudes towards sex, are sadly, very ashamed. I have to reel myself in big time around most of my civvy lady friends. And even amongst civvy women, there is this prevalent mindset that if a woman fucks a lot she is a "whore", and they look down on you.

If they found out even half of things I've done (personal and hobby), I think some of their heads might explode, lols.

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by Mythos

VoH, ignore those kind of humans. They just want attention, even negative attention. They are lonely sad creatures! Just ignore.

Be happy

Oh, I know hun. Trust me, as said, I've been in this hobby long enough, not to let these types bring me down. I am happy, I feel great today, actually. And the weather is nice.

But, I will usually speak up, at least once, to these types, lols.

[ktrouble22]

To expand on my original post: I've had some pretty good sex with my civilian partners over the years, on occasion, really good - most of that was early life and early marriage. But now I'm single again later in life, it's proving very hard to find "the one" - the one you've got a good social affinity with, who's attractive AND has a high libido AND free of inhibitions. It's like looking for fucking unicorn, and quite time consuming. With the Eccie review process, it is so easy to find a lady that fits one's needs. Sure, it's pay for play, and sure, sometimes the IOP really is an illusion, but most of my Eccie liaisons have been pretty goddam awesome and if those ladies were faking it, it sure was convincing enough for me.

Guess I'll take it easy and enjoy my professional girl friends. I thanks babes!

[Victoria of Houston]

Originally Posted by ktrouble22

But now I'm single again later in life, it's proving very hard to find "the one" - the one you've got a good social affinity with, who's attractive AND has a high libido AND free of inhibitions. It's like looking for fucking unicorn....

Hehehe, why do you think I am also single and providing once again? Trying to find "Mr Right" just turned out to be oh so wrong.

When I get lonely, I have friends; when I get horny, I have the hobby; no muss, no fuss! It's turning out to be a pretty nice way of life.

[LuckOfTheOrient]

Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Hehehe, why do you think I am also single and providing once again?.

Your personality maybe.