What? You Mean Providers Actually Have Relationships Outside The Hobby??

[Hogfan69]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

let's get some things straight:

1. when was the last time anyone has seen a white pimp?


People like to place stereotypes on things they can't understand.

What? I've seen plenty of accounts of white pimps. White female pimps are prevalent in Dallas. The Asians running massage parlors with human trafficking are straight up pimps. They're not all like the thugs hanging outside on the rail at Motel 6.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

The more important question to me if a lady is in a real world relationship is does he (I am assuming "he") know she is a provider? Unquestionably one of the finest providers I have ever seen (multiple times - but now sadly gone) is married with kids. He has his job - and it's not pimping - and she has (had) hers. He knew she provided and was OK with it under one condition, that she never lied to him about any aspect of it. Is that normal? It is certainly unusual but I have no damn idea what's normal anymore. It worked for them so who am I to judge? I don't see any of us here in any position to be judging anybody since we don't exactly fit in to society's definition of "normal" ourselves.

But a lady who provides behind her SO's back scares the crap out of me. There are so many ways to screw up here, especially if you are married, which I am. The last thing I need to get caught in is their drama if he finds out, especially if he trails her to an appointment with me. I have passed on several ladies, one in particular who tempted the hell out of me with her great looks, for this very reason.

[BabyDallass]

Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

The more important question to me if a lady is in a real world relationship is does he (I am assuming "he") know she is a provider? Unquestionably one of the finest providers I have ever seen (multiple times - but now sadly gone) is married with kids. He has his job - and it's not pimping - and she has (had) hers. He knew she provided and was OK with it under one condition, that she never lied to him about any aspect of it. Is that normal? It is certainly unusual but I have no damn idea what's normal anymore. It worked for them so who am I to judge? I don't see any of us here in any position to be judging anybody since we don't exactly fit in to society's definition of "normal" ourselves.

But a lady who provides behind her SO's back scares the crap out of me. There are so many ways to screw up here, especially if you are married, which I am. The last thing I need to get caught in is their drama if he finds out, especially if he trails her to an appointment with me. I have passed on several ladies, one in particular who tempted the hell out of me with her great looks, for this very reason.

I can see where it would set up for drama, and I don't see how a SO would allow it, unless its beneficial for him. I don't see any guy letting his woman go and fuck other men, unless he's getting some of the cut or she's paying all the bills....

To each their own, I just think a lady who does this alone has less drama at home and more money in her pocket...

Everyone is different here, that's what makes it fun. Then again her SO might just like to know other men can rent his woman, but not own her like him..

So who knows, or really who cares, as long as it's not hurting you or the provider..as long as she isn't forced or beat, do what tickles your fancy

[Issabella Monroe]

I've lived in arkansas and I am friends with several pimps that have whores on here. So please cut the crap.

[Lolahhhhh]

You're a peach issabella. Your attitude will be missed lol

[Issabella Monroe]

Lolahh yeah i am retiring . But when you are bb then out here fucking. Nasty.. And fyi. Ill be in Arkansas soon. You guys can talk shit all day but not me. And Ginger were you not just Dogging Danielles SO saying he isnt shit. And how dumb she is. See this is the fake stuff I hate

[Issabella Monroe]

maybe we should meet lolahhhh.

[Lolahhhhh]

BB is nasty. It's one of the reasons I stay away from Texas. But it happens in the hobby and you can't stop it.

You used to be sweet, or atleast not bitchy. What changed in the past few months? Are you just unhappy? I saw your original comment before you edited it. You're obviously salty. There's no need for that.

If you want to meet, I'm down to get some coffee. But I'm not coming if you're gonna start drama.

[Issabella Monroe]

Your right I'm not a favorite so I can't be honest. One thing about me is I am 100% On and off. I'm just saying if girls are so confident then why lie about who you are and with. I am not hating. I could careless. But forbid anyone being honest

[Issabella Monroe]

Let me get off the board before someone calls the police on me
not about that life

[Vannah]

I think it's great that we can discuss this and take a step towards ending the stigmatization of sex workers.

As for my situation (not that it's anyone's business), I met my SO here. After seeing him in several work related encounters, we decided that we wanted to be exclusive and he deleted his ECCIE account, P411, and even changed his phone number after getting an unwanted, out of the blue text from a desperate provider. He works long hours and his job keeps him away from home during the week. He wishes to know nothing about my business, and I don't want to discuss it with him. He has his own home, his own career, and pays his own bills. I'm sure he would rather I be in ANY other profession, but he understands that I couldn't make the kind of money I do and still have the time to care for a disabled relative with any other job. It just works out really well for us.

Unfortunately, some people will always try to make others look bad in a sad attempt to make themselves more desirable.

[Issabella Monroe]

I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!! congrats

[Vannah]

Originally Posted by Issabella Monroe

I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!! congrats

Aww! Thank you SO much!

[Issabella Monroe]

Lolahhh your right. I am being bitchy. I am not unhappy at all. Forgive me all. My bad

[BBWDeAnna]

So very true..a provider with an SO in the dark can potentially be more dangerous than one with a pimp..

Because she may not realize he found out then everyone is sorta hung out to dry if u will..

When I first started 2002..a well known local lady was married..kids..husband worked..they were swingers..but she escorted..everyone knew..no one cares..so I was like damn..its not so unusual..

And considering I wear rings..its bot really hidden..some guys get off on it and have eveb used it as dirty talk etc..others dont care and ignore it..and a rare few have even had me call him while they fucked me..

Its whatever floats your boat and makes you comfy..

Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

The more important question to me if a lady is in a real world relationship is does he (I am assuming "he") know she is a provider? Unquestionably one of the finest providers I have ever seen (multiple times - but now sadly gone) is married with kids. He has his job - and it's not pimping - and she has (had) hers. He knew she provided and was OK with it under one condition, that she never lied to him about any aspect of it. Is that normal? It is certainly unusual but I have no damn idea what's normal anymore. It worked for them so who am I to judge? I don't see any of us here in any position to be judging anybody since we don't exactly fit in to society's definition of "normal" ourselves.

But a lady who provides behind her SO's back scares the crap out of me. There are so many ways to screw up here, especially if you are married, which I am. The last thing I need to get caught in is their drama if he finds out, especially if he trails her to an appointment with me. I have passed on several ladies, one in particular who tempted the hell out of me with her great looks, for this very reason.