Married Clients

[Raquel Ryder]

Yes he knows, and we hobby together. He's fine with it. I'm pretty sure he's happy because I luv to watch him play with the ladies. �� QUOTE=DistinguishedGent2014;10 57390482]Wow really?! How does your husband feel about your profession? Does he know? Your response was pretty sexy by the way lol.[/QUOTE]

[cr76]

Originally Posted by Raquel Ryder

Yes he knows, and we hobby together. He's fine with it. No he's not my pimp lol he has nothing to do with Eccie or p411. I picked the girls out. And I'm sure likes playing with me with other girls. �� QUOTE=DistinguishedGent2014;10 57390482]Wow really?! How does your husband feel about your profession? Does he know? Your response was pretty sexy by the way lol.

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More power to ya.

[RickyGshots]

The one thing though ladies, is unless the guy initiates it, don't talk about families or topics that would inevitably involve conversation about "home."

New providers make this mistake often and is a dead giveaway you're not a refined escort. Keep it singular i.e. Talk about music, hobbies, etc.

Basically, talk to him like he's single. In a way that's an ego booster and a turn on coz you're making him (us) feel like he's available and young.

I can only count in one hand the few providers who have this conversational skill down pat. Surprise, they're not the young ones.

[citizen44]

Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

So you're stupid enough to tell a hooker that you're married?

It's ok to admit your status, you just have to throw in some false details so that they appear like a lying blackmailer if they ever try to out you. Married 5 years? Tell her ten. Have 1 or three kids, tell her two. Wife is blonde, tell her brunette. Kids are into football, tell her soccer.

Questions about your personal life come up in almost every appointment. You just need to make up an alternate life and get your story down pat. What industry are you in? Just say oil, everyone in this town expects that. Accounting, engineering, and programming are all amazingly common jobs. If they start to dig too deep, just tell them you don't like to give away too much.

It is important to do this. I recently had a provider confirm that someone was passing some of my info. I was grinning the whole time I was reading the PM.

[DistinguishedGent2014]

Originally Posted by RickyGshots

This thread is dumb. How old are you? Safe to assume men go to strip clubs and see hookers because they are exactly that, married. It's the expectation, not the exception.

This topic is akin to 11-year olds talking about how their first kiss went. Grow the fuck up...

I think you are misunderstanding the intentions of my post. I was having a conversation with a provider who was talking about how a client's wife found her number and called her asking who she was. She said she responded by telling the wife that she was selling something on craigslist and the husband was interested in buying it and that was it. The wife believed her and on the next visit she got a huge tip from the guy because she got him out of trouble.

I started this post out of curiosity of how the ladies feel about the subject that's all bro. I'm in my mid 30s by the way.

[DistinguishedGent2014]

Originally Posted by Raquel Ryder

Yes he knows, and we hobby together. He's fine with it. I'm pretty sure he's happy because I luv to watch him play with the ladies. �� QUOTE=DistinguishedGent2014;10 57390482]Wow really?! How does your husband feel about your profession? Does he know? Your response was pretty sexy by the way lol.

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Cool stuff. It's cool you guys have so much trust in your relationship. Nice to see that now a days.

[RickyGshots]

You're right. The impression I got from the post was different. But this background story gives it context and makes more sense now. Thanks

[DistinguishedGent2014]

Originally Posted by RickyGshots

You're right. The impression I got from the post was different. But this background story gives it context and makes more sense now. Thanks

Hahaha no worries. I prob should have included the backstory in my original post. I wonder how many providers offer "get you out of hot water" in their menu?

[Prime Time]

It ain't matrimony it's macaroni.

[Asianhobbyist]

Originally Posted by DistinguishedGent2014

So,
I have always been curious about how providers feel about seeing married clients. Ladies what are your thoughts on if your client is married or not?

It's not their role to judge, just like they probably don't want us to judge on why they became whores. Its a simple business transaction, that's all.

[Jackie S]

I would bet that 85 percent of the men who see ladies as represented on sites such as this are married.

[Wakeup]

...and 99% of them are scared, selfish little bitches who aren't worthy to be called men...

[eccieuser9500]

Originally Posted by Asianhobbyist

It's not their role to judge, just like they probably don't want us to judge on why they became whores. Its a simple business transaction, that's all.

Oh ohh!
Crossthreading: Do you think it's time to get off Papi's ass?

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by DistinguishedGent2014

How is it stupid if a guy tells a provider of he is married or not.? Some clients might want a deeper connection with their provider....to each his own. I'm not asking this for personal experience in just generating some cool discussion. I always wondered how girls feel about being the "other woman" and if it affected how they approach a session.

"Deeper connection with a provider" .... "how providers feel about being "the other woman" ... Yes, you are that fucking stupid.

All Providers really want is for you to arrive clean, be respectful, pay, fuck and leave ... once you're out the door, you're pretty much forgotten until the next session.

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by citizen44

It's ok to admit your status, you just have to throw in some false details so that they appear like a lying blackmailer if they ever try to out you. Married 5 years? Tell her ten. Have 1 or three kids, tell her two. Wife is blonde, tell her brunette. Kids are into football, tell her soccer.

Questions about your personal life come up in almost every appointment. You just need to make up an alternate life and get your story down pat. What industry are you in? Just say oil, everyone in this town expects that. Accounting, engineering, and programming are all amazingly common jobs. If they start to dig too deep, just tell them you don't like to give away too much.

It is important to do this. I recently had a provider confirm that someone was passing some of my info. I was grinning the whole time I was reading the PM.

Not one bit of the information you propose sharing is necessary, in any way. You clearly don't understand the attraction of being mysterious.