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Originally Posted by RebeccaHillcroft
thank you for this I do not mind the endings at all I am sweet and nice the whole time I am in session I do not work in a spa because they pay barely 40/60 cut I do not mind providing services if I am paid for them I am not being spoiled I have been in this for quite some time I am just posting this to have dialogue to see if A) some one else has the same problems B) to see if there are ways to improve my business
and I agree a tip is a extra gift but when your working how much do you charge ...do you want to provide fs for 120 probably not
and I am not telling anyone I do or do not need them I am just discussing rates and hygiene But maybe since you have it all figured out maybe you should write it down such wisdom should be shared  |
I get that you're just frustrated, but one of the best and hardest lessons I ever learned was to take good advice when given, no matter who from or how it was presented. I didn't say what I said to be mean, I just didn't sugar coat it for you. You're a grown woman who came here with complaints and problems and I offered you advice. You're a professional, not my friend, and you can take or leave anything I say, but that's entirely dependent on how smart you are and how much you're willing to let your pride get in the way of your money.
I DO have a lot figured out. I DO share that information with other ladies. I DON'T come here complaining about how my clients expect too much for too little. That's on you. If you're letting them "expect" FS for $120, that's entirely your fault. Something in your marketing or demeanor lets them know that you will let them get away with this behavior. Figure out what it is and change it.
Learn to put your foot down about anything he doesn't do correctly. If he comes out of the shower and didn't use soap and smells just as bad or worse, then back into the shower he goes until he learns to bathe properly. All on his time. He knew he was coming to have someone touch all over his body. It's not too much to ask him to be clean. Same for bad breath. Either he cleans it up, or no kisses. If he starts trying to reach for activities not offered at what he paid, you take a literal step back and with an enthusiastic smile let him know that you'd love upgrade his service for $X. Get the money before performing the activities. If he doesn't want to pay, he doesn't get to play. So sad.
YOU are in charge in that room. Don't you forget that, and don't ever let them forget it, either. Your clients WANT to be good clients, so help them understand how to achieve that. If they don't WANT to be good clients, then they shouldn't be YOUR clients.
Hope it gets better.
