Etiquette/Safety Observation

[John Q.]

Originally Posted by biglatinmale

Don't try to understand the hobby, there's everything for everyone, find your matches and be happy.

Agreed!

[LovingKayla]

You know what though.... the rules change around here like it's an anime convention. Yes we can post rates, no we can't. Yes we can post activities, ,no we can't. It's enough to make a girl say FUDGE IT. I have a website, and that's going to have to be good enough.

You are correct, talking rates in person is a no no, but you have to know how much to bring. I think if I were a guy, I'd bypass girls with no rates too. That includes me now, but damn I'm tired of not knowing the "rules" around this board. It's safer all the way around to talk one on one or just read reviews. Are yall really seeing girls you haven't researched?

[Randall Creed]

Yeah, if I gotta ask what your rates are, that's just....bullshit. We're not even supposed to be talking about that anyway. Everybody's supposed to know this.

Some even boldly state in their ads, 'PM me for rates'.

Another point about rates vs number of calls is a good one.

"Oh, I'm getting too many calls at $200, so let me raise my rates to $450!!

[can we get a 'child, please' emoji? Child please is similar to an eye roll. It's a smirk plus slow eye roll, and maybe even a psshhh sound...it's like saying, 'whatever' or 'getouttahere!']

When you're getting 'too many calls' ladies, after you meet your 'quota' for the day, here's an idea: TURN OFF YOUR HOBBY PHONE!

[You ladies ARE using hobby phones, right?]

Yeah. It works. Phone off = can't ring. I'm just saying, it's a flimsy excuse.

If you want more money (who doesn't), just own it as the reason for raising your rates. Of course, you gotta get on those treadmills and stair masters and shit. This is a whole 'nother topic, so, I don't want to dwell on it too much.

The OP has made two great points in this thread.

[latrep]

Originally Posted by LovingKayla

You know what though.... the rules change around here like it's an anime convention. Yes we can post rates, no we can't. Yes we can post activities, ,no we can't. It's enough to make a girl say FUDGE IT. I have a website, and that's going to have to be good enough.

You are correct, talking rates in person is a no no, but you have to know how much to bring. I think if I were a guy, I'd bypass girls with no rates too. That includes me now, but damn I'm tired of not knowing the "rules" around this board. It's safer all the way around to talk one on one or just read reviews. Are yall really seeing girls you haven't researched?

But your ad has a link to your website prominently displayed and pricing is easy to find there. Seems like a great way to do it!

[HoneyRose]

Originally Posted by John Q.

Generally I try to avoid anyone who even remotely seems like that. If I want a woman to play head games and nag me about money, I don't need to hire anyone.



Do you do this over the phone or by PM? I'd like to know how to confirm a price without incriminating oneself.

If you are asking rates for units of time, that's not incriminating. Escorting is legal (selling time for money).That's why escort agencies are allowed to exist and advertise~ even going way back to telephone yellow pages.

If you're talking about ladies who specify rates for sex acts, I can't help you with that.

Originally Posted by pmdelites

if i recall correctly, if a provider has a p411 acct, i believe the p411 "rules" are that she should have her lowest rate on p411, not the other way around.

Correctomundo!!