Miss the good old days

[Zenovia]

Originally Posted by Flyboy182

There certainly is room for a few more girls who know how to keep a guy coming back.

The secret is....we aren't paying for sex, we're paying to feel like a girl like you actually wants sex with us.

Most guys are all about safety and all should respect that....but if you don't even want to kiss me (and that's your call totally), why do I wanna fuck you...much less pay to do so. The elite girls are able to see guys they feel some comfort and attraction toward....charge a fair rate and leave everyone happy. One thing the net has done that's bad is allow male slobs and girls who are only about the money a lot more access to the hobby. That puts everyone's guard up.

If I've offended you....male or female....I don't really care .

Unfortunately most of the younger generation and some of the older ones don't get that concept (kind of a cold feeling) from what I gather.
Every get together would be awesome if all would stop clock watching, relax, and enjoy that time with each other.
That applies to the fellas as well!

[TechOne]

Originally Posted by Nova Nwa

Unfortunately most of the younger generation and some of the older ones don't get that concept (kind of a cold feeling) from what I gather.
Every get together would be awesome if all would stop clock watching, relax, and enjoy that time with each other.
That applies to the fellas as well!

I promised not to make note of the time with you at all...no matter how short a time it takes to get me off...and no matter how long I can hold my breath or breathe out of my ears!

[Zenovia]

Originally Posted by TechOne

I promised not to make note of the time with you at all...no matter how short a time it takes to get me off...and no matter how long I can hold my breath or breathe out of my ears!

cheers to that one!!
Besides..it will never be a once done and out the door thing.
I actually enjoy interacting.. time to me is quality as well as precious ..not one minute should ever be wasted or cut short.

[bigdaddyar]

Quality time with Nova is precious, and we don't waste a second!

[notequiteatroll]

Originally Posted by Flyboy182

The secret is....we aren't paying for sex, we're paying to feel like a girl like you actually wants sex with us.

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that is the subtle trick/skill

[Zenovia]

Thank you Bigdaddyar.. you got that rite dahhlin!

Be Somebody
Who Makes
Everybody Feel
Like A Somebody

[Guest012617]

STARLA AND SHELBY SINFUL, HAD THEM BOTH CORNERED IN THE SAME ROOM ONE YIME

Originally Posted by nevercanhavetoomuch

I guess I'm showing my age but I am sitting here reading the posting, the offers by the ladies, the reviews by the guys, the constant asking for info about this person or that.. especially from BP.. nobody willing to TTFTT. It all makes me miss the old ASPD days here.. When there were only about 35 providers on the boards here. When there was no BP or Craigslist. Miss the good old days of Randi, Starla, Harley. I know that was years ago but it just seems to me that the atmosphere has changed. Seemed to be more relaxed before. Probably just me. I mean don't get me wrong there are some nice ladies here that I've met and had fun with but something, and I don't know what, is missing.. Anyway.. just rambling..

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by ccrider

STARLA AND SHELBY SINFUL, HAD THEM BOTH CORNERED IN THE SAME ROOM ONE YIME

I've done doubles with Shelby so I understand your elation. Haven't had the pleasure of meeting Starla!

[Rockydoc]

Jordan Michelle, Starla and.Cashmyr were my favorites. Doubles.with Shelby brings back memories. Then as those faded away I met Robyn who finished me up on ASPD and brought me here. Robyn flamed out but then I met Brittany. It has been quite a ride.

[Igoforit]

There certainly is room for a few more girls who know how to keep a guy coming back.

The secret is....we aren't paying for sex, we're paying to feel like a girl like you actually wants sex with us.
If you girls would do that you would find us coming back for more! If a guy gets great service it doesn't matter what your service is the man will be back! What ever happened to the Ali-cats of Arkansas Eccie! She made me feel like she was paying me! From the moment she walked in, it was all about me! Made me feel awesome! I miss her!

[willro]

I was around for the last couple years of ASPD. Tori Ashton and Jewels AR welcomed me to the upscale level of the hobby. Around the time I joined ASPD I discovered that they're is a big difference in escorting and turning tricks. I miss having those two and others around, but I feel that there are many great providers still in our community. That's what makes this site such a good resource. It allows hobby clients to figure out who is worth visiting, and it helps to keep both the providers and clients all safe. Those good old days you mention are gone, but the present and future don't look too bad to me. I'm still finding plenty of safe fun.

[Hogfan69]

Yep. There are a lot of good choices around here now and new talent to still explore. There have definitely been leaner times.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

I guess my take on it is that I compare when I was a newbie and just trying to get established with a good rep and really having to work hard to get ladies to see me - vs. now, with reviews here and oks on p411 and things so much easier. It's impossible for me to look back at my hobby history and long for "the good old days". There are many more ladies here that I want to see than I have hobby ops to see, and they will see me. I don't like that problem (other than that will see me) - but it beats the hell out of my hobby problems 2 1/2 years ago. I know this is not completely in tune with the original thought of this thread, but it's my hobby perspective.

[BBWDeAnna]

Careful..mention of the "good ol days" often gets met with sighs and eye rolls..yet anyone around aspd from its inception till 07 or so..with prime years being until 06..truly knows how good the hobby can be..guys were trusted professional hobbyiest..girls were professional...not that I know anything about those days..im new here.. but if I wasnt new..I would point out how great jordan was..I would talk about going out for lunch because we discovered we were at the same hotel..I would talk about cashmyr being a thing of legend..stories of guys walking in but crawling out..parker..randi..etc ..all the girls being truly professional..not ghetto. .not back stabbing..they were happy when other girls had success..I could talk about the days when it was IMPORTANT to be reviewed by the "who's who" of thr board..that ment u had made it..the girls toured to cities like dallas..houston etc to prove they werent just small town good..but big town great..those reviews. .that success led to excitement back home..guys werent looking for deals..and girls werent priced above their true worth..it wasnt unheard of to get the very best this area had to offer for $200..guys could get thr best and see the best more often because girls realized a guy seeing them 2 times a month for $200 a visit was better than 1 time for $300 and shitty service..guys appreciated the girls that actually seemed to wanna be here..who busted their ass to make thr guy feel like a king..and who understood it was about the guy..aka PAYING CUSTOMER in this littlr world we call a business..guys reviewed honestly..avoided bp and cl like the plague and any girl or guy caught frequenting those places were quickly blackballed..those days are gone..that is if I actually knew anything about them..and sadly in part the active members have themselves to blame..they stopped self policing their areas and have allowed the less than professional guys and girls make this their playground thus creating a product many would consider a far far place from the good ol days..sadly I dont know as its the guys or if its thr girls..the guys dont know what they are missing and the girls are simply operating the way they are allowed and enabled to.. $300+ for shitty service..non pro environment. .non pro attitude..drama etc..but once again..I wouldnt know anything about thr good ol days

[Ginger Doll]

EagerBeaver, your balls to the wall honest posts were definitely an integral part of the good old days.

99% a +1... We'll just have to agree to disagree on backpage.

I'm 100% glad to see you posting again!