Question? Defention of a BNG........the answer ..

[uniquemonique]

Oops I left 1 thing out. This is directed to Stanfeild.
Lower my rates. Wtf. My rates are where they should be.
If a guy can't afford my rates. I tell him to look online and find another provider thats in his budget. That simple.
There's somebody out their in his price range. The beauty of the Hobby..only in Dallas

[BLM69]

No need to lower the rates, that just eliminates us cheap guys from contacting you.

[TxTraveler]

UM, your point is well taken....15 min tops would be more appropriate.....I suspect it will average out in that range for most given your "reviewed" skills.
As far as a shower request...it's not me as I show up ready (clean). I guess for others it may depend on time of day, work routine, etc...get my drift? You may want to ask about that up front....don't know, you're choice. If it's 100 for bng, and shower is needed should not be a problem......@ $60 I could see your issue.....my 2 cents

[Nina the Dicknapper]

I'm Single & I LOVEEE To Cum. So if He Wants Daty During A BNG Then So Be it. Why Would I Upsell A Guy For Pleasuring Me? Its Awesome When The Guy Wants The Provider To Enjoy Herself As Much As He is. That Turns Me On Even More But Maybe That's Just Me..

[L.A.]

I've never sought out a BnG for a few reasons. I think the whole terminology is ambiguous and everybody has different ideas of what it means (obviously). With a BnG is there an expected time limit? Are activities strictly related to the B part of the BnG? I don't know. With a GFE provider and a 30 or 60 minute session you pay for the time and it's understood what can take place in the time paid for.

What bugs me the most about your initial post is the "10 minutes tops...tops"
Maybe I'm being pedantic but that leads me to believe that you would not be surprised and maybe even expect a BnG session to last LESS than 10 minutes at a rate of $100. You're obviously free to charge what you want but where is the value in that for the client?

[FunInDFW]

If you can make me cum in 10min then I'm seeing you 4 times a week.

That is all.

[uniquemonique]

First of all let me say this . I always offer a non rush experience. That's why for me I really don't do many BNGs. Let's face it. This is a Business a very fun business. It should be run as a business. My clients will always get what they pay for. Bng. Is just what that means. Blow n Go....if your going to incorporate daty and other activities. Well then thats going to be considered a fs session. I have always based my Rates on time spent not activities. I never upsell!

[Jules Jaguar]

I always thought bng was 15 or less... I like bngs they are fun!

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

well if the clock starts the instant i walk in the door then its going to be longer than 10 mins. I wouldn't take a full shower but at least let me wash off my goods for you! I need at least 15 mins to cum but if shes really good it won't take but like 8 lol. I havent done a BNG in a while mainly because the rates most ladies charge isn't really a value when for a little bit more I can get FS.

[Guest092216]

I offer a few regulars bngs bc I know they're busy. It takes 15-20min. No they don't ask to shower but they are clean and shaved when they arrive (sink wash maybe? Idk and idc).

10 Minutes seems rather rushed imho.

[Jules Jaguar]

Yeah if you are a guy that takes a while to get going then booking a 30min is probably a better choice.

I don't always offer them and my rate for it is a bit more than what I see a lot of ladies offering but this way I weed out the bargain hunters who try to get more for less and end up seeing the classier gents who just don't have a lot of time.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by uniquemonique

... It was my understanding that a bng. Means blow and go. 10 minutes Tops.....tops...

I'm curious how many "Are you almost ready yet" queries might a gent expect to be included in one of your typical Ten Minutes Tops! sessions? Or would that be considered "convo," an additional activity, and thus subject to surcharge?

[Alyssa Marie]

if its bothering you, take it off of your menu. its that simple. no one can force a grown adult to change how he/she thinks. if you feel its taking advantage or yourself learn healthier boundaries or choose to not have it exist.
xo

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

I'm Single & I LOVEEE To Cum. So if He Wants Daty During A BNG Then So Be it. Why Would I Upsell A Guy For Pleasuring Me? Its Awesome When The Guy Wants The Provider To Enjoy Herself As Much As He is. That Turns Me On Even More But Maybe That's Just Me..

Hot.. I'm not a BNG guy, nor much into fantasy, but I envision coming to you for a BNG, and you blowing me for a few minutes, then abruptly stopping and demanding I eat you.. realizing I'm stuck, I go along with your demand, go down for a bit.. thinking I'm done, I raise up, and you grab my hair and force me back down until you say I can stop.. which turns out to be 20 minutes later.. I moan that I only had 15 minutes to do a session, you bark at me, saying if I come see the Dicknapper, "expect to be kidnapped until I'm satisfied"..


whew.. I need a cigarette

[grean]

Where to start.....?

How BnGs have go down for me. (Rimshot!)

Really Really REALLY need to blow my load. I dont need assistance from the provider to get worked up; I am already pretty worked up. I could go home & jack off in no time flat, even quicker if I watched some porn. A BETTER OPTION? Have a sexy woman suck me off!

In these cases, a BnG is great! Now 10 minutes may be a little quick if thats from the time I walk in the door to when I leave. However 15 to 20 minutes total is pretty good.

If its a first time meeting, it's gonna take 5 or so to TCB & talk about how I want my dick sucked. Then I drop my pants and she starts to BLOW. 10 or so minutes later, Ive exploded, pulled my pants up & headed toward the door. (Guys, take note that I pull my pants up, meaning I didn't get undressed and in most cases don't even remove the shoes ) pretend your back in high school getting blown under the bleachers or in the girls bathroom.


I understand the service was to get my dick sucked with no IOP and only as much talking as needed. I'm not rude and will chat if the lady feels inclined, BUT I'm ready to GO out the door.

Now I'm easy. If a girl is sucking my dick, I'm feeling good. If she takes her shirt off, or is naked while doing it, that awesome. Some guys need more & BnGs arent for them. For some ladies, for different reasons, the BnG isn't a good menu option for them. I LOVE THE WOMEN THAT DO! (Jules, you & I need to meet!)

Ladies have some maintenance to do after. So that may add to your time and if that's gonna cut away too much time and you would another rather save it for hour session, you might not offer it. It does get into the paid for service vs. paid for time argument.

Now finally the dreaded, "but I haven't blown my load yet. "

Well that sucks, but evidently not enough! (Double Rimshot!)

Seriously though, if you can't get it done in the agreed time, fellas, you still have to GO. Otherwise your risking her taking it off the menu and or not seeing you again.

Speaking of agreed time, ladies be sure to state that so theres no suprise when you say " times up".

However, if she was doing more chatting than sucking, and all of a sudden looks at her watch and points to the door, well.....