Weight Question????

[WestCoastWendii]

I always ask for a physical description and age.. not because I have an issue with seeing larger gentlemen but because I want to know who I am potentially going to meet. I don't see many gents under 35 because of discretion issues but if they can pass my screening, then I make exceptions.

If he is larger, I would suggest he just mention it in his initial pm. Describe himself, what nationality, hair and eye color is good, weight and age. Then the provider can decide. And yes, ask him to shower thoroughly. The only times I've ever had issues with larger men is when they don't properly clean themselves. Nothing to me is more embarrasing than having to go grab a warm, wet, washcloth because it's not clean down there.

[ERWhyNot]

Originally Posted by scooter

is it true obese guys dicks are shorter...or is it an optical allusion...Im thin btw but white... i would tell if the guy is really fat...i mean does his belly hang over the little guy..hell now days most people are golden arches fat...scoot

I used to weight 250. I dropped down to 180 for a while and have maintained 200-205 lbs for the last 5 years. My S/O swears I gained an inch after losing the weight. It was there the entire time, just couldn't get full benefit of it with the extra "material" in the area. LOL.

The entire 50 lbs over weight should be up for debate anyway. I'm 5'9" with a large frame. My doctor told me that I should weight 150 lbs. I would look sick at that weight. Technically speaking, I am obese but doubt many people would think so. I tell ladies that I am in good shape with love handles. The height-weight proportional idea makes most since.

Like any other potential issue; tell the provider up front and maintain good hygiene and most ladies will treat you as good as the other guys.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by HoneyRose

"Are you circumcised?"
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I'm surprised this is virtually never mentioned on ECCIE.. if I was a provider, I would not see uncircumsized guys..period..

I think fat guys should say upfront, and I think black guys should.. not because there is something "wrong", but because you are setting yourself up for a potential problem, if you don't.. it's looking after yourself, and not suggesting you're a flawed individual. while I'm at it, older guys should say it... I don't know what age, but certainly over 65.. younger guys too, say, under 30..

[midgetwrestler]

and g**k g**ks should tell providers they are g**k up front Edit VS

[FatMexicanCowboy]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

if I was a provider, I would not see uncircumsized guys..period..

Just curious , why ?

Originally Posted by midgetwrestler

and g**k g**ks should tell providers they are g**k up front

Just curious , why ?

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by FatMexicanCowboy

Just curious , why ?

http://healthland.time.com/2013/04/1...s-risk-of-hiv/

[Mojojo]

Originally Posted by midgetwrestler

and gook gooks should tell providers they are gook up front

This type of crap aint gonna fly here....keep this off the board.

[houmadude]

I'm 6'0 and 295 and I've never had an issue. I played college football and I have a very physical job. I scale 200 foot distillation towers and climb 12 story furnace structures daily in Saudi. I think it may depend on what type of big you are. Are you the Golden Arches big or as my mom would say corn fed and big boned.

[nothingbuttfun69]

LOL, well I'm back and it ended up being a non issue. I like that question "why are you pimping out your friend" I guess I looked at it as an awesome present for a good friend. Seems odd that that's odd... I set everything up with two providers and at the last minute he decided not to go so I ended up with doubles and that was fine with me. Had so much fun, I saw them both again before I left town.

[Jonnyparsons]

I am over weight and have never been turned away.
Of course I arive clean smelling good don't haggle am extremely polite.
I was rocking it with a young lady recently and her canopy bed broke ( it was kind of old and rickety)
We had a good laugh and finished.
Befor I left I gave her money to buy a new bed she reluctantly took it at my insistence.

[dallasfan]

Always disclose it up front. Saves him the embarrassment of getting the door slammed in his face. Or surprising the girl in a bad way when she opens the door.

Some people will say you shouldn't have to do that but i disagree if you are that big.

[BLM69]

What has this hobby come to, where a overweight 300lbs guy is looking to fork out hundreds of dollars and some providers have a issue with it? I say F them and take the $ where it's appreciated. That's my opinion on this topic.

[ftango4]

BLM that's nuts. No lil lady wants to gets squashed to death for 2bills. maybe if she rides on top. lol

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by biglatinmale

What has this hobby come to, where a overweight 300lbs guy is looking to fork out hundreds of dollars and some providers have a issue with it? I say F them and take the $ where it's appreciated. That's my opinion on this topic.

Amen!

[cheatercheater]

I tell them I am the guy with the little dick and they know I'm fat.....