ASP/Client age spread

[sdawg]

One thing I've noticed is a real prevalence of younger women who have a DISTINCT preference for older clients--as in that is part of their screening. I suspect it's because they feel safer; there is less chance of getting ripped off, less chance of violence and drama, etc. Of course, I could be wrong

[Karyn Lovely]

I prefer older men because, well, they're just sexy! Lol. Im mid 20's but will take a 45 or 50 year old gentleman over a guy my age any day. I'm the baby in my family, my oldest brother is 46 and I'm used to always being around his older friends and such who I think are all so hot lol. My first "relations" were with a man significantly older than me and I loved every minute of it. Really though I don't feel weird at all seeing older clients I'm actually happy that many hobbyists are older. I feel like I can have better and more deep conversations plus older guys know how to treat a lady and are just plain sexy imo.

I am one of those ladies who have an age minimum (30) and gladly so. A lot of my friends call me old or grandma because I would rather listen to soul over rap or stay in on the weekends instead of partying. I want to talk about religion and psychology and philosophy not cosmo and goddamn justin beiber. I just can't get what I want, no need, from younger guys. The better sex isn't too bad either what can I say I like what I like and older men are it.

I mean seriously, I was in a restaurant yesterday with my family and this 20 something year old douchbag comes up and interrupts my conversation with my mother and starts asking me what my name is then actually starts RAPPING to me in the middle of the restaurant, and then asks for my number. Are you kidding me?! I was so embarassed. I never get treated like that by older gentlemen I really do dislike my generation...

[Liliana Vess]

Originally Posted by Karyn Lovely

I am one of those ladies who have an age minimum (30) and gladly so.

This is to you, or any provider that cares to answer.

How do you come up with the minimum age limit number? Is it your age +/- some, or a perceived idea of a certain age being 'mature', or is it just pulling something that sounds good out of a hat? Any research based on clients here or in your business?

[Pink Floyd]

Originally Posted by sdawg

One thing I've noticed is a real prevalence of younger women who have a DISTINCT preference for older clients--as in that is part of their screening. I suspect it's because they feel safer; there is less chance of getting ripped off, less chance of violence and drama, etc. Of course, I could be wrong

I think most men get more laid back as they age, and lose the wham bam thank you ma'am attitude. I know I certainly have. Except for seeing a provider at 18 in Toledo, and 21 in Tijuana, I didn't see another provider until I was 60. I was very apprehensive with the girls at first, telling them my age, and expecting rejection. I soon developed a good reputation, and the girls loved to see me schedule. I treat the women with respect, and I actually listen when they speak. Like I said I have seen 2 girls that were 18, and we had a great time. The first one was a little shaky for me at first, but once we started talking everything flowed smoothly. I don't delude myself that I can satisfy ever woman, but I have had success with my ATFs, and we became friends.

[Cpalmson]

Just to put this out there; it might be a bit of a stereotype. Maybe the ladies like older men b/c they are less likely to be demanding. Face it, older guys are less likely to want or be able to do multi pops. Older guys are more likely to be less physical-- i.e. turn a session into the limber olypmics BTW, I think we need to define older. I know the 20 somethings I see think I'm old at 47, but I'll be honest, I'm just as active as I was in my early 20s. Heck, I'm probably more active.

[oglfp12]

I'm 65, and although most of my regulars are in their forties, one is 32--that's a 33 year age spread. I have seen a few 20-somethings, but very few. This is because I feel like a pedophile when I see someone under 30. There are a number of teens and early 20-somethings that I fantasize about seeing, but I am just reluctant to pull the trigger.

[Guest030824]

I am a little older and I have found the younger ladies all though they have energy and try hard they don't have the experience. I try to find intelligent ladies in their 30s and up. Several ladies in their 50s have managed to give me the ride of my life. The last younger lady I was with knew we were going out and postponing the date an hour she still hadn't put on her makeup until she got in the car. The date started out bad and went down hill from there.

[Karyn Lovely]

Originally Posted by Liliana Vess

This is to you, or any provider that cares to answer.

How do you come up with the minimum age limit number? Is it your age +/- some, or a perceived idea of a certain age being 'mature', or is it just pulling something that sounds good out of a hat? Any research based on clients here or in your business?

The average cut of for decline of deviant behaviour is about 32. So I bumped it down to 30 to be nice lol. That's still kinda young for me as I prefer men in theirearly 40's and above. Idk, it just seems like all of these men still in their 20's are just not ripe enough for me yet lol.

I didn't have a minimum initially *in hopes* that all men in this hobby would treat me respectfully regardless of age. It sucks but I have had the most problems with young men under 30. They have wasted my time, do not want to adhere to my rules, have been ncns and so forth. This just turns me off so much more and makes me that much more eager to run into the arms of that nice 40something year old man.

And if it came down to two gentlemen who both treated me well, passed my screening, and booked the same amount of time and the only difference was their age, I would pick the older one because then it just boils down to my own personal preference and I prefer to be sensual with older men.

[Karyn Lovely]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Just to put this out there; it might be a bit of a stereotype. Maybe the ladies like older men b/c they are less likely to be demanding. Face it, older guys are less likely to want or be able to do multi pops. Older guys are more likely to be less physical-- i.e. turn a session into the limber olypmics BTW, I think we need to define older. I know the 20 somethings I see think I'm old at 47, but I'll be honest, I'm just as active as I was in my early 20s. Heck, I'm probably more active.

Younger men may be sex olympions in but stamina only, and even then not necessarily. Younger men don't know wtf they are doing! And if I try to share my preferences like, oh I like this I don't like that etc. they are more likely to get offended because for some reason they think they are sex gods. I do not fake it, if something is uncomfortable for me I will share it. Communication is very important for me but these young men don't want to listen.

I remember this one civvie guy who was daty. I asked him to move a bit over ( to guide him to my lady spot because he was nowhere close) and he actually had the audacity to come up and say " No, I think I know what I'm doing." That was an instant turn off and I got up and left.

Older gentlemen are more gentle and I prefer and appreciate it. If I wanted young dudes dry humping all of my holes all day I would have become a porn star. And like you stated, there are more older men who are just as active if not more so. I think men in their middle ages are in their sexual prime because they know how to successfully connect sexually with another human being. And if they don't, they are more open and eager to learn imo so they are still so enjoyable, I'm just sayin....

[sdawg]

Originally Posted by Karyn Lovely

The average cut of for decline of deviant behaviour is about 32. So I bumped it down to 30 to be nice lol.

Sounds like someone's been doing her homework. 32 is the age when people with antisocial personality disorder (i.e., near-psychopaths) seem to "grow out of it" according to the clinical literature.

[Pink Floyd]

Originally Posted by oglfp12

I'm 65, and although most of my regulars are in their forties, one is 32--that's a 33 year age spread. I have seen a few 20-somethings, but very few. This is because I feel like a pedophile when I see someone under 30. There are a number of teens and early 20-somethings that I fantasize about seeing, but I am just reluctant to pull the trigger.

Don't be reluctant to pull the trigger. Remember this is FantasyLand

Originally Posted by sdawg

Sounds like someone's been doing her homework. 32 is the age when people with antisocial personality disorder (i.e., near-psychopaths) seem to "grow out of it" according to the clinical literature.

God does that mean there is still hope for my 34 year old blonde?

[Karyn Lovely]

Originally Posted by sdawg

Sounds like someone's been doing her homework. 32 is the age when people with antisocial personality disorder (i.e., near-psychopaths) seem to "grow out of it" according to the clinical literature.

Yes sir, my university education does me a world of good. One of my double majors is psychology. A lot of people "age out" of a multitude of other behaviours as well at around that age. My personal age preference just happens to coincide with it and I'm not complaining Although when people ask what I want to do with my life and I reply " I want to fuck old men for money," they never seem to take me literally lol. Hmmmm I wonder why....