Why do we do this???

[hobbyistinomaha]

my wife hates to give blow jobs, and even if she did she isn't very good. Yes, I've tried giving her pointers. She doesn't even like me to go down on her. And I think I'm pretty damn good at that. Don't get me wrong, we enjoy sex with each other, though infrequently, but she likes missionary and that's it. Mostly she is always too tired. So I do it for the oral sex and positional variety.

[Galvbay14]

I am in the hobby because I am always traveling, always gone for weeks, and with 2 failed marriages, I am getting the idea that my lifestyle isn't suited for a family. But as I am a man, I still have needs. And so far, the hobby has been good. I look forward to more pleasant encounters.

[Marcus Aurelius]

"I Wouldn't Join Any Club that Would Have Me as a Member." Groucho Max.

Translated for this topic, "I wouldn't date any woman that would have me for a boyfriend."

[Blaze]

I had a brief intermission after being pretty much an L-1 only LMT. I went through a rough break-up then I hit the ground running in 02 and haven't looked back. I'll be honest, I was grudge fucking at first, but dammit if it hasn't set me free. Free to know what I want and how I want it. When I decide to go into another RL relationship, he will have some big shoes to fill. My expectations are high and I,,, give great blow jobs!

[Bigh1955]

Okay, I joked around with this one because...well, because the question demanded it.

Seriously, I hobby because I don't, won't, and will never again get the quality or quantity of sex I desire at home - with the woman I cherish. What was once is no longer. But for that, she is perfection!