Client stalker

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Leah Ireland

OK when I posted that I saw your post re. he found you on Facebook - but how could he do that without you giving him too much information? And still, can't you stop him contacting you there?

Best,

Leah. x

as i said i knew a provider in manhattan, very young HDH, who talks too much to too many people. quite naive. I assume that is how he got my name. my real name is quite unusual. so easy to remember too.

and of course i blocked him , but i don`t know how many other profiles he has. My FB is very private too, so he won`t get any info out of that..;-)

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I have my Facebook account set to where I'm unsearchable. My real name is the same as an actress, so that makes it even harder to search for me.

that is something i don`t want to do, because i don`t see that i have to hide because he is a creeper. I did it for a while though. Thanks for the suggestion. My FB is very private no one sees anything

[Naomi4u]

This goes back to what I read in Erin Myer's escort aristocracy program. Erin suggested that as escorts we should delete our personal facebook pages and create ones for our work persona because it simply takes up time. When I read this I thought it was a very silly idea. My personal facebook is how I stay in touch with my family in Nigeria. I see now that it wasn't so silly of an idea.

Nina, if you feel that your life is in danger then take down your website, your ads, delete everything and explain to your clients what is going on and start over. If he's not a threat just ignore him. I would even go as far as suggesting that you delete the facebook profile that you have now, tell your family and friends you have a new page, add them there and move on. This guy just sounds like he wants attention.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

My FB is very private no one sees anything

Don't delude yourself. FB has too many problems. It will never be safe.

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

When I read this I thought it was a very silly idea. My personal facebook is how I stay in touch with my family in Nigeria. I see now that it wasn't so silly of an idea.

I would suggest you try Skype over FB. You might eventually prefer FB, but Skype is real time video conversations.

[Camille]

Whatever course of action you take Nina, I hope this gets resolved for you.

Camille x

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

This goes back to what I read in Erin Myer's escort aristocracy program. Erin suggested that as escorts we should delete our personal facebook pages and create ones for our work persona because it simply takes up time. When I read this I thought it was a very silly idea. My personal facebook is how I stay in touch with my family in Nigeria. I see now that it wasn't so silly of an idea.

Nina, if you feel that your life is in danger then take down your website, your ads, delete everything and explain to your clients what is going on and start over. If he's not a threat just ignore him. I would even go as far as suggesting that you delete the facebook profile that you have now, tell your family and friends you have a new page, add them there and move on. This guy just sounds like he wants attention.

Oh i would never put down my webpage. I know escorts who invent themselves new every few months for that reason. Not a good idea. Gives the stalkers too much power. They know they got you intimidated. Plus, the escort advertisement options are limited and every new profile will be found again under the same circumstances the old one will be found. There is no anonymity as an escort anyway.
My life is of course not in danger. :-))) That would be a little too much to interprete. Its just annoying. That is all. I don`t understand why someone would contact me again, after i already was really and extremely unfriendly and rough to him (except he is a masochist).
He did not threaten me or anything, he just invaded my private sphere and thinks he is some kind of friend? :-)

[London Rayne]

Nina, I just noticed this thread and wanted to offer you my sympathies. I know what that is like from the female version of stalker, and it's not fun. You literally feel raped and violated even when that person is far away. My prayers are with you love, and I missed you so much when I was on my vacation.

If you really want to scare him, just tell him London Rayne is your new assistant. That should do it lol.

[NinaBrooke]

[QUOTE=London Rayne;1067908 I missed you so much when I was on my vacation.

If you really want to scare him, just tell him London Rayne is your new assistant. That should do it lol.[/QUOTE]


hahahahaha :-) will do. I missed you too ! Glad you are back!! big kiss

[safire_sweet]

Nina i have no good advice just wanted to say i hope things work out for you and he leaves you alone .

Safire Sweet

[NinaBrooke]

thanks Safire!

[Guest042611]

My friend had a problem with a guy doing something similar. He wrote her a long (like 8 page) email, addressed to her legal first name, and went on and on about how even though he had all of this power to blackmail her in ways that could permanently devastate her life, he wouldn't because he simply loved and cared about her so much. Creepy! She asked him to stop, and he wouldn't, so she eventually just said, "From now on, all our communication should go through my attorney." She happened to know a great sex-worker friendly lawyer who had helped her with her taxes in the past.

[NinaBrooke]

oh my god. Well mine is peanuts against that. He can hardly threaten me with anything. But i think its good that in the USA there are better laws against stalking than in europe. In europe such things are considered "gentlemen crimes" with devastating results. What the guy did to your friend can be considered as blackmailing and extortion. She could sue. I hope she did. Most escorts just don`t do that because they are scared of being outed. But in the USA the crime of extortion is worse than the crime you get extorted for and for "opinions" like this he could easily be sentenced to a fellony. Not a misdemeanor.

Years ago i had a guy trying to extort me ( i don`t want to go into details) and it got solved with an attorney. He backed off so quick i could not even spell "quick" :-).

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

oh my god. Well mine is peanuts against that. He can hardly threaten me with anything.

What a lucky man

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

What a lucky man

no what a lucky woman!! i am :-)