New screening process

[Buying a *Way to Heaven]

I suppose this method of "screening" works because Piggs do not show up in photos or mirrors and therefore can't send pics of themselves. It would be simpler for the lady to wear one of those cross necklaces, though, and just as effective.

[joesmo888]

Originally Posted by thecooldude

I found her on p411 and I have more than 10 oakys so I'm like...why can't you just check my references.

I'm sorry but for a service like that which charges as much as they do then if that is how it is going to be then no reason to have that service anymore.

I cut the cord on P411 because the discounts weren't that good anyway. providers would offer cheaper rates on other sites, so you pay for a service and pay more anyway. makes no sense.

[thecooldude]

Originally Posted by jaydalee

I agree with Mocha asking for a photo especially with a P411 acct is not the norm.
Every lady has the right to ask for whatever she needs to feel comfortable but I have never asked anyone for a photo to be sent especially if they are on P411.

Just my ,02

This is the point I was trying to make with her; be apart of the p411 network and trust your fellow reputable providers. I believe that she was new to the site and was using old screening methods.

[thecooldude]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

I have a shit-load of references and a dozen P411 okays before my subscription expired but, I recently had a lady insist on knowing my real name for screening - needless to say, we won't be enjoying each other's company.

I guess this is the point I'm trying to make, if my references are not good enough on a site like p411 then I'm not willing to give my PII. The annual fee, oakys, and keeping references updated should be good enough. I have shown part of my DR once on a first meet but that is as far as it goes.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by thecooldude

This is the point I was trying to make with her; be apart of the p411 network and trust your fellow reputable providers. I believe that she was new to the site and was using old screening methods.

P411 is great but you can't tell someone how to screen.
Asking for refs are great too .... I only trust refs to an extent.
The weight of the reference also depends on who it's coming from...some girls screen like shit and some ladies refs I trust more than others. I've had a girl give me a handle and a partial # because that was all he gave her for a guy who claimed to see me (I screen much better than that) and THAT WAS IT. My mind was blown that so little was okay with her. I asked her for more info and she was like 'lol nevermind'. And she was another lady from this site.

Some things like asking for a full name is no big deal to some guys .... RS2K for example it's require to verify the membership but for some you might as well me asking for his SSN and blood sample. Sucks you won't be meeting Ms. Selfie but there's a lot of other hot chicks out there lol. Just lust that one from afar . And selfies for screening meh ... could be anyone's picture.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

P411 is great but you can't tell someone how to screen.
Asking for refs are great too .... I only trust refs to an extent.
The weight of the reference also depends on who it's coming from...some girls screen like shit and some ladies refs I trust more than others. I've had a girl give me a handle and a partial # because that was all he gave her for a guy who claimed to see me (I screen much better than that) and THAT WAS IT. My mind was blown that so little was okay with her. I asked her for more info and she was like 'lol nevermind'. And she was another lady from this site.

Some things like asking for a full name is no big deal to some guys .... RS2K for example it's require to verify the membership but for some you might as well me asking for his SSN and blood sample. Sucks you won't be meeting Ms. Selfie but there's a lot of other hot chicks out there lol. Just lust that one from afar . And selfies for screening meh ... could be anyone's picture.

Escort trying to knock out the competition by bashing.Why don't you show escort how to screen pro instead bashing on board?

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Fancy I often share and offer screening tips and will continue to do so if they want it. You seem to have missed where I asked for add'l info and all I got was an 'lol nevermind'. I can't comfortably provide a reference on almost zero info.
There is no competition with other escorts from my end. I'm only in competition with myself.
Interesting all you got from reply was something that isn't there which you seem to do a lot on here and TER (and NR before it went down). You tried it though.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by jaydalee

I agree with Mocha asking for a photo especially with a P411 acct is not the norm.
Every lady has the right to ask for whatever she needs to feel comfortable but I have never asked anyone for a photo to be sent especially if they are on P411.

Just my ,02

Booyah.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Fancylady

Escort trying to knock out the competition by bashing.Why don't you show escort how to screen pro instead bashing on board?

I am surprised at that kind of comment directed towards Mocha. I have found her posts to generally be some of the most spot-on advice to both ladies and men on here.

[i'va biggen]

Reason I had a p411 account was to eliminate the BS. when providers on 411 started asking for my last name I figured they were leo or working with him, so I dropped it.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by Old-T

I am surprised at that kind of comment directed towards Mocha. I have found her posts to generally be some of the most spot-on advice to both ladies and men on here.

I'm not being rude.Mocha hooker like rest of hookers.Escorts Want to knock out competition to get money.Since Mocha pro at screening why doesn't she help escort on screening? Everybody has right to opinion on boards.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by Old-T

I am surprised at that kind of comment directed towards Mocha. I have found her posts to generally be some of the most spot-on advice to both ladies and men on here.

In the middle of her frequent board gibberish it seems my posts went way over her head clearly....it's okay though. Thanks Old-T.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

In the middle of her frequent board gibberish it seems my posts went way over her head clearly....it's okay though. Thanks Old-T.

Get back on topic instead of talking about me.Have a good day!

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by thecooldude

I don't hobby much these days, so I'm trying to figure out if there is a new screening process that providers use. Today I had a provider ask me to send a photo of myself before we met. She said that it was part of her screening process. Needlessly to say, it was a deal breaker for me. Ladies, is this what providers are doing now? Guys has this happen to you?

Deal breaker

[RedLeg505]

Bottom Line is this. Escorts can ASK for whatever they want to screen. However, the hobbyist holds the final say so on if they will comply or move on to the next lady. Wonderful lady on ECCIE, know a number of providers that I trust that know and vouch for her. However, she demands that you go to HER web site and fill out her request form and provide your real life data, name, address, phone, etc. And its REGISTERED on HER database... that anyone can hack. And don't tell me that never happens.. I think Ashley Madison folks claimed the same. So, much as I'd love to see her and would be willing to pony up the upper end donation amount she asks.. I simply can not and will not put my real life data in an electronic database on some Provider's web site.

But I wish the best of luck to the guys willing to take that risk. Hope it never comes back to bite you.