Pregnant providers

[lisa.lisa0302]

Well at least you were honest.

Originally Posted by coefficient1

See, and that's where this hobby can turn into a whole new monster. The money:sex relationship is fine and dandy and well established, but what about other equations?

money:no sex or no sex : paid time off

If it were my baby I wouldn't want her providing while pregnant. I would immediately cut off my hobby funds and give it towards her for assitance. I'd help with rent, bills, etc..but knowing some of these money grubbing ladies. Shit, you don't know 'em. They'll probably want more and provide anyways.

At the end of the day I'd rather have an abortion if I get a provider pregnant than to mother it out with her.

Keep in mind, not all these women are hobbying for the same reason as the other. While one provider can calmly bow out the hobby and live with her parents during pregnancy the other may move in with a pimp, and have that pimp raise your child.

[Naomi4u]

Well.. not a lot of people want to have a hobby baby.

[Shayla]

Well, I look around what society has created today and remember why I believe in abortion. Just sayin'.

[rogers]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Of course you have met a lot of them. You have been with them so you're being bias. Ok now so what if it was your baby? Would it be ok? Just asking.

For the record I don't have sex with them its a more limited engagement, designed to establish a relationship and line of communication with the ones that will eventually breastfeed, but that is my choice not theirs, cause in speaking with them they do have sex with practically all the other clients they see. However every single [pregnant]girl I have spoken to about this is adamant that they consulted with and were cleared by their doctor.

I m not exactly sure what it is that troubles you, is it the fact that they are having sex while pregnant or escorting while pregnant? If its the physical act of sex you are talking about, then as your research will show it is unanimous just about everyone has sex until their 7th if not 8th[pushing it] month with their wife's or girlfriends [me included, if that answers your question], and its absolutely safe [unless the woman has a unique condition], so that cant be it.

If its the escorting portion of it that troubles you then thats what I was implying may be hypocritical in a sense, as the dangers exist regardless.
I think your point may be that hypothetically its ok to risk harm to ones self [by escorting], but not potential harm to their unborn baby [by escorting]. As you very well know these dangers can be minimized if not virtually eliminated by proper screening and very objective discretion.

Anyway thanks for your input and good luck!

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by rogers

For the record I don't have sex with them its a more limited engagement, designed to establish a relationship and line of communication with the ones that will eventually breastfeed, but that is my choice not theirs, cause in speaking with them they do have sex with practically all the other clients they see. However every single [pregnant]girl I have spoken to about this is adamant that they consulted with and were cleared by their doctor.

I m not exactly sure what it is that troubles you, is it the fact that they are having sex while pregnant or escorting while pregnant? If its the physical act of sex you are talking about, then as your research will show it is unanimous just about everyone has sex until their 7th if not 8th[pushing it] month with their wife's or girlfriends [me included, if that answers your question], and its absolutely safe [unless the woman has a unique condition], so that cant be it.

If its the escorting portion of it that troubles you then thats what I was implying may be hypocritical in a sense, as the dangers exist regardless.
I think your point may be that hypothetically its ok to risk harm to ones self [by escorting], but not potential harm to their unborn baby [by escorting]. As you very well know these dangers can be minimized if not virtually eliminated by proper screening and very objective discretion.

Anyway thanks for your input and good luck!

What is your problem? Do you not understand what pregnant means? It means you're carrying another human being in you. That human being is not asking to be with strangers on a daily basis. That human being doesn't have any say so on such situation. How is that fair?

Am I going to stop them from providing? No. My problem is not that they are having sex while pregnant. It is that they're having sex with strangers and risking the child's life. Trust me I've done my research on this and you're wrong. Pregnant women are more prone to infections. I don't care if you disagree with me nor can you change the way I feel on the situation. You have your opinion and I have mine. You have no argument. I've been there and I sure as heck did not provide.

[Laz]

Originally Posted by Shayla

Well, I look around what society has created today and remember why I believe in abortion. Just sayin'.

I might have agreed with you until my sons were born. I know I was married and could afford them and other people are in a different place but having seen what that potential life can turn into I would have to take the idea of abortion very seriously and if possible choose life.

[coefficient3]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

You have no argument. I've been there and I sure as heck did not provide.

Wait! You've been pregnant before? While in the midst of providing?

Can you share with us how it happened? Definetly by your significant other right?

BTW, Tim Tebow was considered for an abortion before his birth.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by coefficient3

Wait! You've been pregnant before? While in the midst of providing?

Can you share with us how it happened? Definetly by your significant other right?

No. I was not. This was before the thought of escorting crossed my mind.
And why the hell would a provider have a baby by a hobbyist? I will not share anymore info on it.

[Randall Creed]

I wanna make a baby with Shayla.




Shayla, what's up?!!

[London Rayne]

Rogers, can you not see a cry for help when it's right in front of you? Is your d*ck the only thing leading your emotions and your brain to work? If not, any human with a heart could see the damn shame in a woman "having" to do that. I doubt anyone would do it just because, so it's usually a really desperate situation they are in to have to continue providing with an innocent human being inside them. This is AN ADULT LIFESTYLE...period, end of story!

Don't kid yourself about the effects either. I have taken more Psych classes than I wanted to, and it's been PROVEN that after a certain point a baby can hear and even process many things going on outside and INSIDE of the mother's body...including another voice, moan, and uhhhhh. When she is angry or sad...it knows. When she yells, listens to music, and cries it can hear that.

You don't think however many strangers a week getting off on her damn mother is fked up and that somehow that baby might not react to those things later in life? Think again. Go read some child psychology books then come back and talk to us about it "not being dangerous or any different." People wonder why their kids are so damn messed up...look closer to home! If you would not fk a guy in front of your baby, why do it with one IN your body with the exception of someone you are dating. Same with substances. If you would not hand your 3 year old a beer, why drink when pregnant?

Not judging or trying to condemn, but I did not start the thread either. If I get hurt or beat doing this, it's only me it affects...not another INNOCENT human being. I have helped 2 pregnant providers thus far with money so they would not have to do this, and I will continue to help more if I am able. I may even start a damn benefit, but I doubt many guys will be lining up to donate!

[Guest041413-2]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

I wanna make a baby with Shayla.




Shayla, what's up?!!

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

I wanna make a baby with Shayla.




Shayla, what's up?!!

We gotta get married first. I don't believe in sex before marriage.

[shorty]

Originally Posted by Shayla

We gotta get married first. I don't believe in sex before marriage.

Do you believe in Sport Fking before marriage? LOL

[Guest110516]

Side topics: my advice, make informed decisions and base personal/medical decisions on credible sources.

Original question: unless I am the father, a woman's pregnancy, and the circumstances surrounding it, are none of my business.

[coefficient4]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Rogers, can you not see a cry for help when it's right in front of you? Is your d*ck the only thing leading your emotions and your brain to work? If not, any human with a heart could see the damn shame in a woman "having" to do that. I doubt anyone would do it just because, so it's usually a really desperate situation they are in to have to continue providing with an innocent human being inside them. This is AN ADULT LIFESTYLE...period, end of story!

Don't kid yourself about the effects either. I have taken more Psych classes than I wanted to, and it's been PROVEN that after a certain point a baby can hear and even process many things going on outside and INSIDE of the mother's body...including another voice, moan, and uhhhhh. When she is angry or sad...it knows. When she yells, listens to music, and cries it can hear that.

You don't think however many strangers a week getting off on her damn mother is fked up and that somehow that baby might not react to those things later in life? Think again. Go read some child psychology books then come back and talk to us about it "not being dangerous or any different." People wonder why their kids are so damn messed up...look closer to home! If you would not fk a guy in front of your baby, why do it with one IN your body with the exception of someone you are dating. Same with substances. If you would not hand your 3 year old a beer, why drink when pregnant?

Not judging or trying to condemn, but I did not start the thread either. If I get hurt or beat doing this, it's only me it affects...not another INNOCENT human being. I have helped 2 pregnant providers thus far with money so they would not have to do this, and I will continue to help more if I am able. I may even start a damn benefit, but I doubt many guys will be lining up to donate!

LR, you're quite the class act. You're not bullshitting when you say you're going to try and start a charity or foundation. I was speaking to a provider one time and she said that you were her hero. that you give to like joyce myers ministry and other women related beneficial causes. you're one of the few here that I'm really grateful to come accross cause you're genuine with what you do and you honestly are a good person. That's really hard to come by in this industry cause so many of these women it's all about the money. As long as you're paying them they'll be friendly to you but they're in the end all about themselves.

I really hope one day you blow past this hobbying and become a really great person in this life b/c you honestly have the intangibles. It's been really great getting to know you these past few months.

Zarah, to answer you question - Yes, a provider can have a baby by a hobbyists. It's not the most disgusting thing in the world nor is the hobbyist reduced to sub-human life form b/c he's paying for sex. He can get a provider pregnant. Either she grows fond of him and lets him hit it bareback, the condom breaks or slides off while he's nailing it. And to top it off, she's "pro-life" for religious or ethical reasons. Some women can't live with themselves knowing they killed human life. Also, the hobbyists probably carries some attractive genes: I don't know. For a guy to have enough disposable income to fuck providers he probably has a good career that pays well. Ie he has brains and maybe charm and some other qualities that got him to be successful. To go "why would a pro have a baby with a hobbyist" - hell, why are these girls having baby's by all these losers?

Heck have a baby by some 6 figure or (>$50k) earning 'winner' in life or some loser future deadbeat. They're fucking and getting pregnant by losers all the time.

Ok. I'm going to get banned again after this message. So I'll hollar at you guys later.