What if you diiscovered your offspring were hobbling or providing?

[cabletex7]

Originally Posted by In6ub9

So , this is a "what if" situation.

For the hobbyists.......

Say you log onto your favorite hobby site and discovered your little angel was providing ?

Say it was a niece... Or a friends kid... Would
You alert parents or bang her?

How would you feel about having Eskimo brothers banging your baby?

How would you approach and handle the situation?

Would you allow your child to participate in this hobby?

Don't have any kids so hard to relate to the first question but think that would be tough.

Niece or friends kid? I'd stay away and absolutely not alert the parents.
She's an adult. You are talking about an adult provider? Anyway, she is an adult and it is her life. Same holds true for the last question. How would you disallow her? You may not be happy about it. You may try to dissuade via threats or enticements to give up that life but disallow?

The more intriguing for me would be what if someone at work was moonlighting as a provider. If I recognized her in the ads, I would probably stay away. But what if I didn't recognize her? And didn't find out until I showed up. Depending on how she felt, I probably would continue with the session.

[cabletex7]

BTW, you know you're bored when you run out of drama on the Houston board and start wandering the Dallas one.

[Randall Creed]

Upon discovering a young offspring providing, perhaps it would be a good time to ask if you could be GRANDFATHERED in.




I keed, I keed!!!

[Torito]

I received a report about the "Eskimo Brother" thing and I didn't like the sound of it. After reading the entire thread I see what the intent is and I will leave it alone as it appears to be common slang. I still don't really like it.

Let's leave that terminology alone from here on out. It is not the subject of the thread. If the focus should continue on this issue, or if the term continues to be repeated, it may become necessary to close the thread.

Now, let's get back to the subject that the OP gave us.

Torito

[pmdelites]

[quick detour here then i'll return...

since i started the thread w/ the link to the George Washington University newspaper article about Eskimo Brothers, here's a link to the defn in the urban dictionary [kinda like the O.E.D. for the masses]
.... http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...skimo+brothers
see defn #3. there's even Eskimo Sisters in the U.D.

maybe i should watch more TV and read more college newspapers online.
.... http://muhlenbergadvocate.com/wordpress/?p=407
see the 2nd response to Dahlia Mayerson's very insightful article.

or do more research on "Eskimo hospitality sharing female companionship" - 19K web results]


now, to the issue at hand,

i think Amy411 wins the prize for best answer - if they really want to do it,
.... "I would give them all the info they need to be safe!"

i think this applies to relatives, friends, exes, co-workers, neighbors [remember there was one guy who thought a dallas provider lived next door to him cos she looked familiar, was on her patio on the phone a lot making appts, etc] and anyone else contemplating dipping their toes or diving head first.

and i think this applies to them whether they are providing or consuming.

and i think this applies to the physical, medical, legal, emotional, psychological, financial, etc. aspects of the kind of encounters one might participate in in this sub-culture.

i have considered telling a few of my close friends about this sub-culture, but i dont for a couple of reasons - a) i dont know how they'd deal w/ it [see aspect list above] and b) i dont know if they'd protect me or out me if they got caught ["it wasnt my idea, pm told me about it!!"]


and to some follow-ups...
* IaintLien, i kinda remember that thread and am sorry so many people gave you a hard time about it. if i posted a follow-up, hope i said "just be sure he understands what visiting escorts is all about and the deep abyss one can fall into."

* rambro, most Most MOST excellent humor!!!

[trynagetlaid]

Originally Posted by ExNYer

And I believe that another provider who was killed in a car or motorcycle accident a few years back was the mother of another provider.

Actually it was a motorcycle accident about 2 years ago. And I still see the daughter around town flashing her beautiful man-mades paid for by the hobby community. But as far as I know she has retired and settled down with her biker boyfriend.

[slider]

Close friend was dancing nude in Dallas in an enclosed room with cubicle windows accessed by doors from around the outside (this was ten years ago). Her older brother came in with friends, entered a booth and saw who was dancing. He immediately exited and went looking for his friends. Told them they had to get out, but not why. He was not happy with her. She continued to dance (and is still doing it).

A HJ-only provider recently asked "what if your wife did this?" and then "your daughter?" Told her my first wife used to work in a massage parlor, and though HJs weren’t on the menu, guys did JO. If wife/daughter wanted to, liked doing it, and it was a safe environment, I would be ok with it. If it was wife, I would want to hear stories (and they do have them). If they felt shame, I would not want it. If they were doing it for unhealthy reasons (e.g., money for drugs related to an addiction), I wouldn’t like it. Have thought a lot about the questions since then. Personally, I appreciate what providers offer and am thankful such services exist. Two of my closest friends are providers. They may have saved my life (when was going through a divorce).

At dinner table in daughter’s house we were talking about different jobs. My 10 year old grandson blurts out “mom sticks her finger up guys butts!” (She is a physician and does more than that, as you can imagine). I didn’t ask how he knew. Older sister rolled her eyes. There are differences and similarities, provider and physician.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by slider

At dinner table in daughter’s house we were talking about different jobs. My 10 year old grandson blurts out “mom sticks her finger up guys butts!” (She is a physician and does more than that, as you can imagine). I didn’t ask how he knew. Older sister rolled her eyes. There are differences and similarities, provider and physician.

art linklatter was correct - kids say the damnest things. because they havent had all the sensitivity/empathetic/considerate filters imposed.

btw, your sigline is exceptional!
may i quote it in selected places??

"From my experience to date, HAG must mean
Horny, Amorous and GOOD!, or
HOT, Amorous and G**dam
(where did she learn to do THAT!)"

[slider]

pmd: please do quote if you know too IT IS REALLY TRUE!

[Guest030911]

ExNYerThis is a supposition thread; not a tell all you think you know thread. Where is your discretion man? Would they want that info published?

[abdclub]

Matador, Torito .... I always thought the term was "step-husbands"!
It's also much more PC (not that I care)!

abdclub

Please do not bump threads over 30 days old.
Torito