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Originally Posted by WTF
Bubbles burst on their own. . .
Kris wrote it and Janis immortalized it
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to loose''
I hope people are starting to understand about that the only thing different from a open relationship and a closed one is who is fooling who. . .or is that whom?
irena , where are ya when I need ya?
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Agreed, this is what I was alluding to in my earlier post. Again, this is just from my observances, one side is always more open than the other side. One partner gradually gets more into the open concept than the us concept. And eventually the union becomes functional in that you have a financial entanglement and a person living in your house you don’t have to court to sleep with. I have never had an open marriage, but I’ve see two marriages (of people I am very close to) self-destruct.
But like Sisyphus, my approval certainly isn’t sought let alone necessary. Actually, I neither approve nor disapprove; I have no judgments whatsoever as long as someone’s open marriage doesn’t interfere with my marriage (If, God forbid, I ever get married again. Lol) Like Lauren said, it’s none of my business what other people do. And since I’m not much of a gossip, I don’t feed on things that are outside the norm anyway.
