Provider suddenly sends a text

[Old-T]

Communicate, communicate, COMMUNICATE!!

Let every lady you see know if it is alright to call/text or not. Get a phone number only for this purpose--and password it. I use google voice and it works fine with lots of options. Before I give out my real phone number I have an established relationship of trust with the lady--and even then it remains locked--some folks I work with are liberal minded, some are not.

[Monica13]

I never never send texts to any client that I don't have permission to.

I know this can lead to a lot of trouble and personally I think it's unprofessional.

Everyone has a private life that should be respected.

[joesmo888]

block their number on the spot.

should never happen unless you say so.

[SneakyCancer]

Only okay if I initiate the text but don't reply 4/6 hours later saying hey baby I missed your call or text.....,

What they (SO) don't know is for their own good. I did have a regular at a strip club do that, scared the day lights out of me back in the day. But boy was she fun and hot to see.....

[ElleJ]

Originally Posted by Espada6

Hi guys, is it ok if provider just suddenly sends you a text?
Or it's not proffesional?

I received one yesterday, and I guess either it's just a good tone message either it's reminder "hey I don't have too much clients now and need some help" ? Might be anything right?

But what if you got wife or GF it can really give you some hard time. I would like to hear any thoughts about this.

I typically ask clients upfront if the number that they've used to contact me is safe for me to reach them. While I certainly agree that the nature of her text was certainly unprofessional, a few of my regulars will occasionally get a "Thinking of you xoxo" text.

[ck1942]

Years ago, 99 pct of providers were much more professional and very security conscious too. Both for themselves and for their clients, too.

In today's hobby world, standards range from the very professional to the very unprofessional.

It behooves all of us to recognize the issues and try to maintain our standards and try to educate and convince others to do the same.

[PrincessSlutFace]

I text my clients, but only because my schedule is not stable sometimes and i send out occasional updates if Im available... plus, the only people who have my google number are clients I have already booked with, and most of them are regulars. I dont mind the occasional conversation, but Ive talked to guys who tried to call me or text me every day... I understand them wanting to get to know a girl, but damn.. its not a dating site lol

As for the complaints, and whether or not its right or wrong, if you have specific needs or requests, then you need to speak up. Everyone 'runs their business' their own way, and while some may think its inappropriate to text clients, there is no HR department to outline these specific rules and regulations lol A closed mouth does not get fed, and if you cant be bothered to speak up to let a provider know what the situation is, then dont be upset.. there are many different ways to handle situations like this.. diff phones, phone apps, Ive even had guys who only wanted to have contact via web msngr or email account, because they had wives. Point is, you can tell alot about a person by the way they conduct themselves or the way they handle situations... and if a married man doesnt have enough sense to either let the provider know hes married, or to have a safe alternative means of contact, then thats on them. Like I said, I only give my number out to guys who I have already seen.. so to me, those are my clients, and if they have my number then I should be able to text them, unless otherwise requested not to.

[2dogs]

I don't get texts or emails from providers unless I contact them FIRST. That is the way it should be. If you reach out regularly to your clients without them making first contact, you lack situational awareness. As with everything, there are exceptions. Also ,I figured out providers are not interested in a lot of texting when not setting an appointment. I get and respect that. And then of course, there are the providers who do not text or email back as a reply to you. LOL, I guess they were comfortable financially for the week or month.

[Solitaire]

Originally Posted by Espada6

Hi guys, is it ok if provider just suddenly sends you a text?
Or it's not proffesional?

I received one yesterday, and I guess either it's just a good tone message either it's reminder "hey I don't have too much clients now and need some help" ? Might be anything right?

But what if you got wife or GF it can really give you some hard time. I would like to hear any thoughts about this.

Originally Posted by Espada6

Pt 2

When I answered to the girl who txted me with similar message, she replied in a day like "Who are you? What you want"

NO! NOT professional! No way! No how!

I don't even keep my own phone turned on unless its the day of a meeting. I've had gentlemen attempt to contact me via text, only for me to not see it until days later.

Discretion, safety, respect...

Besides, that's what email and "private" messaging is for.

[Hermosa]

First, I prefer to do inquiries through PM on eccie. If I'm not logged onto the site, There is no link to my personel life. That way, I don't have to answer any difficult questions. Secondly, nothing is a greater turn on than when I do sign on, a d I have a PM from a pretty lady claiming she wants me!!
I see nothing wrong with a lady who is traveling to a new town, checking out the guy responders from an area, checking out what they can, and putting out a PM to someone they think would make a mutually agreeable encounter. One of the very best encounters I've has was with a great lady who did that very thing.
Most of us guys are always looking and interested. A lot of us are really like puppies, scratch our ears alittle, and we're putty. Absolutely nothing unprofessional! So, comeon ladies, reach out and touch...😏
However, private phone messages, unannounced and uninvited sounds a little desperate to me.