Providers reaching out to you

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by jp26lilac

I had one provider reached out to me to inform she is available but I told her respectably this is too risky for me to communicate and she stops doing that.

Ever since no

Am I interpreting this comment correctly that she reached out to you at a number or email address that you use in real life? I hope you don’t mix the two; if you do, stop.

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by Grace Preston

I will frequently either email or PM gents when I'm going to be available-- since I seldom am anymore... but I never---- ever ever ever-- call or text. Not everyone in this hobby has a burner phone and I never want to be responsible for someone getting caught.

Very Smart Grace

[suiram77]

If you Tip or pay a lot over the donation or you are really great in bed I’m sure they will reach out to you. I have serval in Florida and Texas, that will text me when they are in Dallas or Houston or Austin, I have homes in all 3 city’s and I hobby in all 3. I always tip $300-$500 over the donation for a few of my ATF, so as you can imagine that’s why I get a text from my favorite ladies.

[EJ Dfw]

I have it happen sometimes. I’m single and don’t have to worry about somebody checking my phone or hiding anything so I don’t mind.

[jp26lilac]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Am I interpreting this comment correctly that she reached out to you at a number or email address that you use in real life? I hope you don’t mix the two; if you do, stop.

I have separate burner for the hobby, and she did reach out the number I used to text her when we met

[hrlee]

PM on eccie is totally acceptable

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by hrlee

PM on eccie is totally acceptable

That used to be (and may still be) a controversial take, I guess because there is a risk the lady is not someone you want to see.

My opinion is if you don’t want to see the lady, politely defer and put the lady on ignore. Personally, I like to get those PMs because I am always looking for new friends and sometimes someone will come to my attention that I hadn’t previously considered. Oftentimes it’s someone I was willing to see, but for some other reason didn’t seek her out (usually because I didn’t think she was conveniently located).

[gapedcrusader]

thanks to everyone who commented.

[Dallasdarch]

Different girls will after we get along well, the only one that i put a stop to was the girl that was texting every month with panic that she had to pay her rent in the next three days and needed to setup a meet soon to pay her bills. Big turn off, (hidden name) in Dallas middle eastern girl that no longer works. she finished nursing school so she might have just stopped i don’t see her ads anymore.

[dormGE]

Originally Posted by Dallasdarch

Different girls will after we get along well, the only one that i put a stop to was the girl that was texting every month with panic that she had to pay her rent in the next three days and needed to setup a meet soon to pay her bills. Big turn off, (hidden name) in Dallas middle eastern girl that no longer works. she finished nursing school so she might have just stopped i don’t see her ads anymore.

I wonder if her name starts with the letter "M." I tried to see her multiple times and it never happened. She was Sri Lankan I heard she moved to L.A. to become successful.

[Dallasdarch]

Originally Posted by dormGE

I wonder if her name starts with the letter "M." I tried to see her multiple times and it never happened. She was Sri Lankan I heard she moved to L.A. to become successful.

No sir, Persian girl from Iran. high on the pretty/crazy matrix. funny how that always works

[Sir Lancehernot]

Of course, as soon as I write my first post in this thread ....


Someone whom I knew around 10 years ago reached out to me by email this week. She's done so maybe two or three times in the intervening years, only to say hi and then go silent again. Now, she's suggesting catching up over "dinner or something." Ten years ago, even after a couple of kids, she was one of the most beautiful women I'd ever seen. She definitely lives in a different world from me, but I'm intrigued enough to at least reply that I'd love to catch up over dinner.

[Laura Lynn]

I'm of the opinion that a lady shouldn't reach out first, especially by text. That's just a no-no in my book.

However, if a lady travels, I dont see anything wrong with her sending an email/dm to someone that she's seen before to let them know she's coming to town. "Newsletters" might be a better option for this type of communication though.

[dormGE]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

I'm of the opinion that a lady shouldn't reach out first, especially by text. That's just a no-no in my book.

However, if a lady travels, I dont see anything wrong with her sending an email/dm to someone that she's seen before to let them know she's coming to town. "Newsletters" might be a better option for this type of communication though.

Do you think it's bad if she contacts on eccie or OH2 first? I had a woman contact me first by PM on OH2 earlier this year or late 2023. Eventually, I met her and I did a review on her.

[Laura Lynn]

Unless I was responding to an ISO, I still wouldn't reach out first looking to make a connection. That's just me and how I do things.

The only time I think I've ever randomly messaged someone was to make a comment about a thread.