Ladies: Do You Accept Unpaid Meet&Greets?

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

HIS hotel is too high class? Really? That infers you don't know how to dress and act in a four-star setting. That's just rude. Is this an Eccie member?

In addition, IMO, he is very presumptuous by expecting you to be his free eye-candy while he is in town on business.

If he wants to shop, let him read reviews and look at showcases. This isn't the dating game. Money is for companionship only. That includes a one on one meet & greet. The exception would be if YOU requested a M&G for screening purposes.

You did the right thing. This is my opinion.

Huck

He thought I would come dressed like a street walker.

No he's not a member here but is on P411.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by LNK

If you told him you charge by the hour and he indicated he understood that, you should have gone, told him you wanted your fee upfront, and if he balked, turn around and walk out. Or stay and make him buy you nice appetizers and expensive drinks. Would have only cost you a little gas and time at that point, and you might have gotten paid.

And if your phone would have bleeped with another appointment request, you could have said, "Sorry, got a paying customer to see!" with a dazzling smile, smooched his ear, and left.

The gas wasn't worth it. And the place he wanted to meet at didn't have that great a menu and only really served beer. Wouldn't have been a problem had he paid.

[Heavyiron999]

Originally Posted by MaryBeth

The gas wasn't worth it. And the place he wanted to meet at didn't have that great a menu and only really served beer. Wouldn't have been a problem had he paid.

He didn't pay, what a loser...

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Let me ask you this: how would you react to him saying you're not good enough to visit him at his hotel if this weren't pay for play? Would you still want to meet with him?

Like others have said, he had no respect for you or your time. And no one pays you to deal with disrespect. Learn to do what feels good as a woman, and you'll feel great about the decisions you make as a Companion.

He didn't call me a low class hooker. He was more afraid that I'd be stopped in the lobby for not being a guest.

That has happened before at another hotel and I was told the friend I was seeing would have to come down and get me.

[heinz5710]

I've had several M & G with ladies that I have seen before but there was always an agreement ahead of time on what the fee would be. Sometimes it was for less than the usual one hour fee. Most ladies if their schedule allows and the distance isn't too great will accomodate such meets. I don't recall the last time I did it with a lady I never had a session with. I don't do interviews of providers. Now SBs on the other hand are different. They aren't thinking in terms of 'time is money'. I ALWAYS pay for the lady. One time a lady asked me for a meet so that she could give me a card telling me what a great client I was and offering a discount. I discovered she did the same with ALL of her clients as it was holiday time and she needed money for gifts. I was a little offended with her choice of presentation. She should have said outright that she was offering a discount for the holiday instead of making me feel like I was some sort of special client and then converting me to an ATM machine. The ladies I choose to see aren't whores and I am not an ATM machine. I actually enjoy the company of the ladies I choose. Yes, time is money but it can be for the gentlemen also. An hour at dinner to me doesn't have the same value as an hour of intimacy where F____ me Harder is the main course. A good solution would be as suggested that the M& G and session to follow have one price tag. If agreable both can go home after dinner for a set price. As to the 'paying for companionship only' defense, try using that in court. Your honor, "We were only meeting for companionship but I was so enamored with him that I let him have me even though this was the first time we have ever met!" Oh, "He was so good looking I never found out his real name and I didn't give him mine either!" I think the finding is GUILTY. Sometimes I like to think of the gift as grocery money or for other bills. However, deep down inside I know that the companionship I receive will be intimate.

[Danielle Reid]

Usually if its a drink date or whatever (no FS involved) I offer a discount on the hourly price because they're still spending money on me. But this guy wanted a free interview at the price of a $6 drink.

[Sandy]

It is funny, I too was asked for a meet and greet..
I said yes lets meet somewhere and talk it over, he then said he wanted to come to my in-call location to do so..
Umm no thank you.. I am not going to let someone just come to my in-call without a confirmed date.
I said lets meet at a convent store or something, he wouldn't go for that.. so in other words we never met.

[Sandy]

Sounds right to me.. Her and I live in the same State..
I am thinking it was the same guy, who knows..

Originally Posted by jwj6o

you should have took the appointment it was money, and told the new client you can,t make it, it also sounds like he was setting you up, be careful and be safe, use your gut feeling on this next time.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by Miss Ivory

Sounds right to me.. Her and I live in the same State..
I am thinking it was the same guy, who knows..

He wanted to come to my actual house because I wasn't doing incall. I told him no that it was outcall only that's when he suggested the bar downtown. Probably was the same guy

[Guest030314-1]

Why would you cancel one date for another?

[Mary Ann]

It sounds like the guy was wanting some free attention. Both of you girls were right about wanting to meet him in public, and probably for the best that it wasn't followed through.

Middlefinger- I believe she didn't cancel a paid date, but rather turned it down when she thought the first gentleman might be legit.