Over night dinner date or 2 hours

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by naughtynatale

Ya'll make it sound as if all these rates are set in stone and cannot vary in any fashion. For me it all depends. Some gentlemen just want an escort as in a Barbie doll to spend time when others want BCD and even others want D: all the above. So what is the deal lately with what is paid for? Just wondering. I personally probably do business a bit different than others but that is why we have the phrase Variety is the Spice of Life. lol Why does it have to be black or white. I like a lil gray area myself

I was thinking the exact same thing Natale...It all depends & is never black & white.

as far as what "I" prefer....id say 2hrs if their fun Not a fan of overnights as they would get no sleep

[AllisonofHouston]

Overnights can be fun, usually its goes something like this, he shows up we have a little BCD time, then we go to dinner, maybe dancing and drinks if he wants to, then back to my place, have a shower to freshen up then multi bcd play, then sleep if we are tired, and if he is feeling frisky then by all means please wake me up, Im not gonna turn away more play time, then we wake up in the morning more bcd time, then another shower and hes on his way, thats why my rate for overnite is what it is, I would never dream charging for sleep time..thats just me though..

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I was thinking the exact same thing Natale...It all depends & is never black & white.

as far as what "I" prefer....id say 2hrs if their fun Not a fan of overnights as they would get no sleep

Why would you not be a fan of overnights because they wouldn't get any sleep. That wouldn't bother me.... lol

[Sweet N Little]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Why would you not be a fan of overnights because they wouldn't get any sleep. That wouldn't bother me.... lol

ahh you say that...then it's "I'm tired"-"i need some rest " all night ...lol
whats the point of having a guy in my bed if all he is going to do is sleep? LOL
I'd let you have a nap , thats it LOL

[whitechocolate]

I feel you should only be paying for BCD time and not extra for dinner. For overnights, I think the provider should get a bit extra for non-BCD time and it should all be negotiable.

[Eccie Addict]

Now now the op asked what we preferred so let's not start a rate war here lol...

SNL ask around, I don't think I'd have a problem keeping up with you

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by pickupkid

Which do you prefer Over night, dinner date or 2 hours?
I don't like to pay a provider for eating or for sleeping..so I would choose 2 hours of bcd.

The second part of yourinquiry includes your perception why monetarily an overnight is not preferred for you.....based on no justification to pay for eating out and or pay a premium to watch her sleep. That leads me to believe that rates to some degree affect your decision.....otherwise you would have just left the first part of the question.

Let's not be so closed minded to assume that rates wouldn't be a factor for guys deciding between two hours and an overnight.

But if I had to decide......not based on rates.....id pick the two hour is less risky compatibility wise.

[TheHorseTrainer]

I love the longer sessions, mix it all up. My rates reflect this though. I realize we're socializing and catching a nap so its not outrageous.

[Carrie Hillcrest]

Originally Posted by pickupkid

Which do you prefer Over night, dinner date or 2 hours?

D. All of the above.

[whitechocolate]

I would take the overnight, dinner date second and 2hr is my third choice.

[pickupkid]

Gimme if I was a rich....I would never pay to watch someone sleep ...its not about the money

[rrabbit6926]

Originally Posted by AllisonofHouston

Overnights can be fun, usually its goes something like this, he shows up we have a little BCD time, then we go to dinner, maybe dancing and drinks if he wants to, then back to my place, have a shower to freshen up then multi bcd play, then sleep if we are tired, and if he is feeling frisky then by all means please wake me up, Im not gonna turn away more play time, then we wake up in the morning more bcd time, then another shower and hes on his way, thats why my rate for overnite is what it is, I would never dream charging for sleep time..thats just me though..

Wow that sounds awsome Allison. Most of my overnights don't have that much BCD. I guess I'm too much a gentleman to wake up my partner for more play time after she is sleeping. Morning playtime is a must for a overnight for me. That is very humble of you to not charge for sleep time but most do, just part of the biz I guess.