Turning into BP

[ICU 812]

Must be the class of 2016 entering the work force.

[TsSelenalopez]

Well you know these guys don't care about quality services like they used to they just want a young hole to fuck for cheAp.. And will right her a stellar review..smh

[2dogs]

I typically come, come again, and then GO!

[lisa.lisa0302]

Might as call this place

Bpccie

No shade to ladies who post on bp. I post there.

You can post on backpage all you want. You CANT HERE. Once a week, per section.

It's RULES here.....

I remembered when ladies would post pics in their ads here....now...just a boring one liner..."see showcase"..yet they got pussy and ass SHOTS all over backpage.

Yea...bpccie should be the new name.

[Fancylady]

Originally Posted by Addison Nash

I have been here for a bit and lately , like the last few days, all the new ads seem to resemble a certain site. Maybe, I have seen them wrong, but I don't recall in recent history phone numbers being blasted everywhere. And most are not even verified.

Weird... Happy Saturday !

Be happy all level hookers get to promote their business on all websites.How's business?It's risky for websites promoting illegal business.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

The agenda is rather simple to discover. Some women may feel small because they do this for a living. Some people may and do put others down to attempt to make themselves feel better. So, if ladies trash BP girls it is usually to make themselves feel better about having sex for money. Have you ever run into the whore that says she is not a whore, she is a courtesan or an escort. That tries to make them feel better about being a woman so desperate for money she has to fuck for it. Problen is making fun of others never really fixes our own feelings, just sort of pushes it down. The fix is to stop having sex for money and for me would be to stop paying for sexual attention. There is no difference between BP and Eccie. It is all fucking for cash, no one way is better than the other. I have seen all types BP, strippers, Eccie, top reviewed all the same thing. Less than the best sex I ever had and poorer for it. Does anyone here understand the terms Denial and Addiction?

You might wanna take a break. It's just a suggestion, not a hateful retort. Hon, unless you can read minds or if this is the kind of thought process you would have as an individual female who provides, there is no way you could know why any lady behaves as she might or even why. Also, let me assure you that not everyone who decided to provide was desperate or broke, and not all gents naturally progressed to hobbying due to porn or sex addiction. The reasons for choosing this as a profession are so many and varied, none of us could imagine them all, and the same goes for the gents.


If you have guilt or shame for seeing providers, that's an individual decision to feel that way, and you can change that feeling any time you like. Since you have not chosen something that feels better, I can only assume you enjoy wallowing in this feeling, or you don't have control of your feelings and haven't a clue how to change them. It's no wonder you state as you do.


I normally don't do things that feel "bad", except respond to The Bull, but I have hope for him....LOL. It always puzzles me when folks keep jumping on that hamster wheel which always leads to the same destination, and then they can't figure out how or why that happened. Really? It's not just you, and I don't know if that's what has occurred at all with you, but it's usually the exact reason gents state things as you do.


Change it up and Do anything different, and maybe you'll feel better, if not, Do something else different, etc.... Soon, you'll figure out that magic formula that works for you and you alone.


OP, either those ladies are using a service to post their ads, take their calls, and schedule their dates, or they have a single minded pimp, who posts all his ladies ads this way. I've posted on BP before, at the height of hostility on this board, but as much BS as we endure on this site, please know those ladies are paying their dues. I feel like a spoiled princess here and compared to that madhouse. So. Kuddos to those ladies!!! Unless of course they are pimped, then it's just kinda sad.

[Wanna bone]

Nothing wrong with BP, I've advertised there,,was surprised at the response,,I see/think if you attempt to vett/verify every guy from a BP connection then you are a snobbish person, lazy lion (text only, no texts, email only, email only with 50 recent references, phone calls only text will be ignored, serious text, text before calling, newbie friendly if you have references, no newbies allowed, serious newbies only,
),,,holy shit,,and then you post an alert on a dude who's acting suspicious,,,,what the fuck are you talking about---

You are dismissing 75% of the market, and your most likely getting some hostility back from that process, but then the (I'm Holier-than-thou) mind set that the hostility you have exposed is a result from the screening gods that have been blessed upon you.

But it's probably just maybe some dudes are passing thru, here for work for a week, truckers, storm relief workers,,a lone guy wanting to branch out from their normal area, 200 miles is a branch) ,just spit balling here but say a town has 75000 men, a 1000 of them buy sex---of that 1000 I would theories that maybe 75 of them know about eccie, and maybe 200 of them do some googling--but,,,maybe the whole 1000 of them know about BP

My only point, and take that with a beer, but lighten up on BP or get a real job, a god damn Gazelle laying down in front of a Lion is not realistic.

Unless your covered up with business, your fortunate, other hookers have to use intelligence,,,,I just love meeting the intelligent ones.

That's my thing---but I do understand your response/non-response to my post---this is not revelent to your question, right? It is the definition of your post,,,chew on that!!

[Wanna bone]

Maxi, your post are long and off topic---but they are interesting---Us dudes kinda deserve more pornographic pictures of you--tits and ass, plus extras--can you help us out???

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Wanna bone

Maxi, your post are long and off topic---but they are interesting---Us dudes kinda deserve more pornographic pictures of you--tits and ass, plus extras--can you help us out???

WB ,


My posts can be long, and as with most discussions, there is more than a single layer, cut and dried, or black n white answer. Eccie should do away with Discussion forums if they don't want folks....discussing. LOL. Since socials are out, and I'm a social butterfly,...this is the best the community can do for someone like me. I'm wordy, even if sexy. Strange combo, I know.


No one "deserves" any part of me, nor do I owe the masses, but nice try. I'm easy, but I ain't quite that easy. I deserve a gold star for my patience, willingness to participate, and never allowing anyone to dictate who I am. Not sure if you"ve noticed, but some folks here aren't overly friendly. LOL

[Boudin3112]

Psychology is real, studies are real, knowing the pains of our decisions is enlightening. People in society do not decide to go against the norm unless a contingent situation arises. While not all people do things for the same reason we all have similar emotions and feelings. Most but not all cry at sad moments in movies, death of a loved one. Most celebrate at birth of new child, feelings of euphoria, etc. As humans we do have similarities even in the heart and brain. It is well known that most women in this field of work do so out of desperation so many that is nearly all. Men seek out whore to fulfill something missing and not just a nut. Thinking we are the one true exception to the rule can be denial and be dangerous to us. Not saying that is the case just a possibility. Thinking I seek out whore to just be momentarily pleased can be dangerous and cause strife later for me as I do not find what my brain is really seeking. Most women I have talked to say they do this temporarily because they would rather not be a whore. If no shame show pics of your face in advertising be proud of it and show the world who you are but instead nearly all women hide and we all have fake names here to help push down or ignore our inner shame. Maxi you are polite and nice in your posts and I like reading your writings. My opinion comes from wide variety of sources to include some very scholastic places. I have not looked at your showcase but did notice your avatar has no face in it. Nothing wrong with that and not suggesting you do anything different. Just an observation. Like I said I enjoy you discussions on here not being mean just truthful. I don't know of a single source that says fucking women for money is good and healthy for either side of the transaction. Don't know of a single source that says cigarette smoking is good and healthy either. And most smokers not all wish they never started. Same here most whores wish they could do something else and most men wish they were pussy magnets and did not have to pay.

[James1588]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

... My opinion comes from wide variety of sources to include some very scholastic places. ...

If you're going to make claims of that sort, cite your sources. This is the internet, you know. Links. Or, be old-school: author, title, publisher, year.

... I have not looked at your showcase ...

Ha!

... I don't know of a single source that says fucking women for money is good and healthy for either side of the transaction. ...

What -- you can get PAID to have sex with a woman??? What a deal! Where do I sign up? But, seriously, I don't know of a single source that says that doing engineering work for a large business organization, for money, is good and healthy for either side of the transaction, although I recently concluded an entire career of doing that. It paid my bills and bought my groceries, so that was good for me; and it got some technical work done for "the company," so that was good for them. Sounds a lot like when I pay a professional companion for her time and expertise: she makes her living, and I'm smiling as I depart.

... If no shame show pics of your face in advertising be proud of it and show the world who you are but instead nearly all women hide and we all have fake names here to help push down or ignore our inner shame. ...

Shame's not the only explanation. Maybe this world is substantially populated by those who think as you seem to, and the people in this demimonde don't want to be hassled and harassed by them. Some of these ladies may also have "straight" jobs, or may be preparing for more-mundane careers. Pretending that shame underlies all desire for privacy is an extremely dishonest substitute for a logical argument, although it's a favorite of apologists for tyranny in all places and times. ("If you're not doing anything wrong, why don't you want to let the nice policeman cavity-search you, hmmmmm?")

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

Psychology is real, studies are real, knowing the pains of our decisions is enlightening. People in society do not decide to go against the norm unless a contingent situation arises. While not all people do things for the same reason we all have similar emotions and feelings. Most but not all cry at sad moments in movies, death of a loved one. Most celebrate at birth of new child, feelings of euphoria, etc. As humans we do have similarities even in the heart and brain. It is well known that most women in this field of work do so out of desperation so many that is nearly all. Men seek out whore to fulfill something missing and not just a nut. Thinking we are the one true exception to the rule can be denial and be dangerous to us. Not saying that is the case just a possibility. Thinking I seek out whore to just be momentarily pleased can be dangerous and cause strife later for me as I do not find what my brain is really seeking. Most women I have talked to say they do this temporarily because they would rather not be a whore. If no shame show pics of your face in advertising be proud of it and show the world who you are but instead nearly all women hide and we all have fake names here to help push down or ignore our inner shame. Maxi you are polite and nice in your posts and I like reading your writings. My opinion comes from wide variety of sources to include some very scholastic places. I have not looked at your showcase but did notice your avatar has no face in it. Nothing wrong with that and not suggesting you do anything different. Just an observation. Like I said I enjoy you discussions on here not being mean just truthful. I don't know of a single source that says fucking women for money is good and healthy for either side of the transaction. Don't know of a single source that says cigarette smoking is good and healthy either. And most smokers not all wish they never started. Same here most whores wish they could do something else and most men wish they were pussy magnets and did not have to pay.

Thanks, I try. Much of what you state is true and some of it is not. Beliefs, imposed since our arrival at birth, is something we pass down from generation to generation. I don't believe most hide out of shame, at all. I believe it is out of respect for others they know and their beliefs.

I don't like lying, it's caused many problems in society and for individuals. However, it can also be used in protective situations, which is how many false beliefs came to pass in the first place. I don't lie in order not to add to the muck. I choose tactful truths when I am allowed to, but have the ability to roll in the muck when it is insisted I do so.

The truth is, I had a hard time reading what you wrote and trying to understand your message. So, I read it a couple of times in order to respond to what I did understand the first time.

Being a provider means we are in service to others who have a very intimate need. Intimacy is the taboo of all taboos. Parents get nervous talking to their kids about it. Kids are afraid to ask their parents. It's been judged as wrong, dirty and wrong to be attracted to someone other than your current mate. I could go on, but you get the gist.

Studies are conducted by people. People are biased. They have agendas they believe are righteous or they simply have greedy ones. People change the findings of studies all the time to suit their own agendas, as has been proven time and again. People studying people might even be a more confusing mess.

Look into the practices of the discovery, by whom, the experts involved throughout time and the treatments concerning female hysteria. If that doesn't speak volumes to you about what experts "know" and studies conclude, nothing I ever say, will. And hey, I won't judge you for that. You're a male, after all. LOL

How many times in your own life have you thought about what you believe and how you've noticed things don't appear as the belief states they should, but you held fast to your belief anyway, rather than try to figure out? Many times, I'm sure, because I did it a lot and I see everyone else doing it.

Do not assume that desperation is the key ingredient most use on their travels to becoming whore. I assure you, it's not. Look a little deeper and maybe you will discover otherwise. Read and believe the experts and you may come up with the same answer over and over again. LOL Crazy how that works out, but it's exactly like climbing on the hamster wheel and running until you just can't anymore. Only to discover, you didn't get anywhere, so your only choice is to believe what one "discovered" and exclaimed as true, and everyone else just spits it out as the, By Golly, truth. Ta Da....the belief is formed and people cling to their beliefs, no matter the consequences.

Might I suggest, that in your quest for the truth of any thing, maybe get off the wheel of believing what others want you to know is the truth. Don't believe what is they have discovered, and I'm sorry, but you have to equate in the fact that they could have an agenda for sharing this truth as they chose to, or maybe they didn't discover any kind of truth for themselves at all.

I didn't create this world, but like it or not, it's the one we live in. Again, I don't like to be lied to or given untrue information, therefore, if important enough and especially if it concerns large numbers of people, I look for myself and base my decisions to share what I "know" as being true on what I feel is the most truthful answer I am able to discover and what makes the most sense, common, scientific or otherwise.

What is true in the hobby? Men have a need for intimacy. You can call it sex, busting a nut, or whatever else you wanna call it. You caneven pretend the providers are not real humans if ya want, but intimate is personal and men are in need. Something or someone negates them being able to get that need fulfilled, even if it's their own, self.

Therefore, there is a market for any kind of woman who wishes to provide this type of service for men in need. Many women have discovered, one way or another, that they possess the ability to fulfill these intimate needs of men. And, they are able to make a living, by providing intimate services, as varied as they are, to those in need of intimate services. These facts about the hobby, are the only black and white unchanging information concerning this topic, that I have been able to discern as the believable truth.

It is not the provider or the hobbyist who should feel shame. For one thing, having a need that is being unmet is very common and seeking to fulfill that need is normal human behavior. For another thing, being that special kind of person who can provide and fulfill this longed for need, and it being considered a plus if she truly enjoys being able to provide this for those who need it, is kind of great.

It's the beliefs of how wrong it is to wish to feel or even have the need for intimacy, that are shameful. The majority of the population has the need for intimacy. And someone, an entity, and/or society fooled all these guilt ridden individuals into believing there is shame in seeking and/or providing it. Really? It hasn't always been this way ya know. So, figure out how this came about and you'll discover how ludicrous this self or inflicted shaming really is.

Hiding/pretending/or not revealing all, is necessary to protect ourselves and loved ones from all those idiots who believed when they were told, that it's shameful to need intimacy or feel anything. This ludicrous "belief" that so many cling to ferociously, continues to play a part in this whole dilemma. I hate that it does, but I'd never have been on board had I been around when it was first considered a "no no".

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

.yet they got pussy and ass SHOTS all over backpage.

Unfortunately, they won't likely be of the gal you'll actually see.
The deception on BP is comical.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by cowboy8055

Unfortunately, they won't likely be of the gal you'll actually see.
The deception on BP is comical.

Ditto from a provider's perspective. This is why I admire the ladies who brave that muck. ECCIE is no safe haven from the BS, but it's a relief from dealing with some seriously twisted yahoos out there. ijs

[Buying a *Way to Heaven]

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

People in society do not decide to go against the norm unless a contingent situation arises.

Bullshit.

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

most women in this field of work do so out of desperation so many that is nearly all.

It isn't that simple. A lot of women go into this kind of work, even though they hate it, because they can't keep a regular job. They are too lazy, stupid, or erratic. They also make lousy providers, who wants a woman who hates being touched? Buffalo Bill maybe. But there are also women who do it because it is more profitable and less demanding than the alternatives, or because they have a criminal record or bad habit and are thereby barred from most legal employment.
Unenthusiasm is the rule, though. Many women have told me that they are just "doing this" temporarily until something improves for them. Some may have been telling me what they thought I would want to hear, or defending themselves against an implicit judgment that was never made. But it is plain that most do not really enjoy the trade, whatever their ads may say.

How many women truly enjoy answering phones or refilling sodas? They, also, are paid to at least hide their frustration, emotional fatigue, and (sometimes) disgust. It's no big news that people generally get paid for doing things they don't really enjoy, including being friendly.

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

Men seek out whore to fulfill something missing and not just a nut.

Speak for yourself.

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

I don't know of a single source that says fucking women for money is good and healthy for either side of the transaction.

Really? There are about a billion studies saying that sex is healthy, and I don't know of any that rule out retail sex.

Originally Posted by Boudin3112

most men wish they were pussy magnets and did not have to pay.

I wished that when I was 30. Now I realize that money is the smallest price a man can pay for pussy. I don't want a woman up in my business all the time, or any of the time.
I don't disagree, mostly, with your specific claims, but nonetheless I live in the best of all possible worlds. You seem to be a little bitter about the fact that real life ain't Hollywood.