Guys: What grabs your attention?

[boardman]

Originally Posted by Cameron Houston

1. What is it you look for in a headline? Something flirty always gets my attention. I like to know she enjoys what she does.

2. What in the ladys post, is the deciding factor in you booking & keeping an appointment? There is rarely anything in a single post. It's more like posts over a period of time

3. What do you prefer/enjoy seeing in the pictures a lady posts? Prefer face and body. I need to at least see some body photos but they can be clothed. It's more about showing off the personality.

4. What is the #1 thing that will turn you off about a lady? Coming across like she doesn't enjoy what she does, bitches and complains about the same things over and over. I can and have overlooked some physical characteristics that we maybe not the most attractive. I can't overlook an attitude that says a provider hates what she does or has a disdain for men in general.

Just somethings I've been curious about.. I like to know what turns you on..

Xoxo,

Cameron

My 2 cents FWIW

[boardman]

Originally Posted by ZantannaParella

Thanks. I'm not a super model. I'm more country , laid back , beer drinking, sports lovin , and fun milf next door. So no need to show pics of me overly dressed up. There is a wide variety of chicks on here. It's always best to show what you see is what you get! No reason to lie just cuz your on the net! It takes all kinds of kinds and there's something for everyone. My age, weight and pics are all on point. I'm comfortable in my own skin as everyone should be. Own it , live it and just enjoy. I know I'm not eveyones cup of tea so why bother trying. I ain't gonna change me just to please others.

I didn't read the entire thread when I responded initially but you nailed it ZP. You are who you are and you come across well on the board. Some providers struggle with that.
You're real about who you are and you own it AND you're flirty when you can be. That kind of confidence is sexy AF to me.
You also are able to get your point across on certain topics that can be volatile in coed without being volatile yourself but you don't take any shit.

It's been nice to see you posting as much as you have.

[ZantannaParella]

Originally Posted by boardman

I didn't read the entire thread when I responded initially but you nailed it ZP. You are who you are and you come across well on the board. Some providers struggle with that.
You're real about who you are and you own it AND you're flirty when you can be. That kind of confidence is sexy AF to me.
You also are able to get your point across on certain topics that can be volatile in coed without being volatile yourself but you don't take any shit.

It's been nice to see you posting as much as you have.

Thanks. Life is so much happier and easier when you accept who you are and love yourself just as u r. No reason to try to please everyone cuz that is just not possible. People are gonna like you. Some people won't. Who cares. Just do u and don't worry about the haters cuz at the end of the day they are not paying your bills. Raising your kids. Or have any part in your life. Get a hand full of great friends you can trust. Be there for your family. And make it a point to help others when you can.
Control what you can. Accept what you can't.
Mind your own biscuits and life will be gravy.

But yea. Don't take him shit from others. Lol.

[Alyssa71]

^ good post.

[Slitlikr]

Originally Posted by ZantannaParella

Thanks. I'm not a super model. I'm more country , laid back , beer drinking, sports lovin , and fun milf next door. So no need to show pics of me overly dressed up. There is a wide variety of chicks on here. It's always best to show what you see is what you get! No reason to lie just cuz your on the net! It takes all kinds of kinds and there's something for everyone. My age, weight and pics are all on point. I'm comfortable in my own skin as everyone should be. Own it , live it and just enjoy. I know I'm not eveyones cup of tea so why bother trying. I ain't gonna change me just to please others.

Your pics don't do you justice!
Those green eyes are sexy af.
Not to mention that narra little azzzz!

Your personality & intelligence also make you my atf!
Not to mention your honesty and idgaf attitude lol.
Go Astros!



Back to topic
Real and recent pics and a gfe menu are a must.

[HoustonAstros]

recent pics with face , rates and allowed activities. Keep it short and sweet, don't have time to read one full page ads.

[Cendell M]

Originally Posted by ZantannaParella

Thanks. I'm not a super model. I'm more country , laid back , beer drinking, sports lovin , and fun milf next door. So no need to show pics of me overly dressed up. There is a wide variety of chicks on here. It's always best to show what you see is what you get! No reason to lie just cuz your on the net! It takes all kinds of kinds and there's something for everyone. My age, weight and pics are all on point. I'm comfortable in my own skin as everyone should be. Own it , live it and just enjoy. I know I'm not eveyones cup of tea so why bother trying. I ain't gonna change me just to please others.

You're an awesome lady, great post! 🙏

[ZantannaParella]

Originally Posted by Cendell M

You're an awesome lady, great post! 🙏

Thanks girl. I keep it real and expect the same in return. Others-wise it’s a hard pass.

[Cameron Houston]

Well, i took all into consideration & snapped a few pics last night. Guys can be harsh @ times on their opinions of our looks: too skinny, too much of a gut, too thick, shes fat, face issues, bad angles.. So, therefore- i use to be damn near scared to post anything but perfect pics. Im embracing my curves, thick thighs & everything else, lol.. Like someone else mentioned: u can't please everyone! Thank y'all for the replies & staying on topic!

[dmode]

Originally Posted by Curved65

Do not use Snapchat filters. I lose interest when I read "let me make you feel like the king you are!"

Snapchat filters are the duckface selfies of 2019. Women like them and men laugh at them. Know your audience. Also stop using the word "upscale". Providers with incalls on Bissy advertise "upscale". That word means absolutely dick.

What do we look for? Clear pictures, rates up front, menu possibly, location and good contact info. It's not super complicated. If pics and reviews are good then you're solid, ladies. Get good pics and good reviews.

[Guest083119]

Originally Posted by Fizley

Nascobar nailed it.

I will add take some photos holding the Houston paper. Racy photos get my attention! I would include a photo in lingerie, professional dressed, and another photo in club wear. You don't have to show your face in the photos, but I should have a good idea what you look before I hit the door.

FWIW, most of the younger ladies complain that they don't even know where to buy a newspaper, LOL. It comes into play when a certain verification site wants them to take that type of pic.

[ZantannaParella]

I like fun spontaneous pics. In your natural element. Real yet sexy and fun. Well if I was a dude or even a girl looking for someone to join in with me and a man

[Cendell M]

Originally Posted by Cameron Houston

Well, i took all into consideration & snapped a few pics last night. Guys can be harsh @ times on their opinions of our looks: too skinny, too much of a gut, too thick, shes fat, face issues, bad angles.. So, therefore- i use to be damn near scared to post anything but perfect pics. Im embracing my curves, thick thighs & everything else, lol.. Like someone else mentioned: u can't please everyone! Thank y'all for the replies & staying on topic!

Amen girlfriend, I got the i gained weight look old blah blah when i came back. For me i take it as a compliment it means im healthy and changing the things about me that were out of my character.

That being said I embrace the good and the negative I'm happy with my accomplishments

Great thread!

Let me add i did alot of ignorant things, embarrassing things and lost everything to realize i better get it together. Life mistakes im grateful for, now let's all get naked and FUCK LOL ����

[shinepro]

The reason you are having issues is your lack of great service. You look great, just your service is abysmal from what I hear. Improve that and watch your income soar. Shine da great has a few patnas da great could introduce you to who would gladly help you with dat. Just pm me. Tooodlez!

[Nameisdalton]

Here is what turns me off:



- Old pictures
- No pictures
- Pictures with with another guys schlong in your mouth/ face covered in spooge
- Gyno pictures
- 10 pictures of a closeup of your ass cheek, or anything else that is of no use
- flip phone blurry/dark pics
- "PM me for rates/menu"