hon·es·ty/ˈänistē/ : fairness and straightforwardness of conduct; adherence to the facts.
I tend to ramble. Such is Zoey. On that note..
Honesty. The truth. Wow.. what a taboo topic in a community such as this. The "sex industry" (and sex in general) has been damned as evil, promiscuous, dirty, filthy and downright wrong. This sacred & ancient custom has become something of a "I can't.. shouldn't.. won't.. but I want to.. " kind of thing. Look, sexuality is a primal urge. Feed it - respectfully. Safely. With care for yourself and whoever else is involved. Not too much to ask? Or is it? Dear God, I love sex..
I am no longer a provider. I've spent an absurd amount of my 20-something life living in the depths of lies. While I understand that half-truths or straight up avoidance of fact is a part of this industry.. I feel that in particular cases.. some hints as to "what you're getting in to" (excuse pun) is necessary. Obviously no one should be "outed" - whatever your definition of that is. Mine is as follows: "If you can read a review/ROS/TER/ANYTHING! and it gives blatant pointers/descriptions of the MALE or FEMALE.. let me repeat myself.. MALE or FEMALE. They should be removed. I, myself, have several tattoos and piercings. Good for me. Guess what? I'm caucasian "wht" (as risquebb would have it.. ) 5'6" - 130lbs - blonde hair. Perhaps, if I like, I'll add in my description that I have piercings and tattoos - which I believe P411 allows for. Noting that I have a tattoo of the Pythagorean theorem or perhaps an extremely untasteful pair of cherries somewhere on my bod is outing me. (The cherries prrrobably wouldn't give me away much.. )
Anyhow, there's this awesome thing.. it's called.. SEXUAL CHEMISTRY. Do you really want to see an escort that is not in to YOU? A brief description of your race, age & weight isn't much to ask, I don't think. What if they prefer older guys? You're golden! Younger guys? Not so much. The same is true in reverse. What if that IS what they prefer? Perhaps (I'm about to get crude) you just see a wet pussy as a wet pussy but.. in the eyes of a female.. a dick isn't just a dick. The more I'm in to you the tighter I get.. the more I want to jump your bones.. the more I build it up in my mind what you might look like, feel like, taste like. The more I want to fuck the shit out of you. Mystery is not lost.. instead.. fantasy is born.
I understand we all have our separate lives. Our "reality" - our "real world." Discretion is KEY. Security and knowing that your latest escapade will be kept between the two of you is KEY. I've learned this from first hand experience. Your actions today will most definitely affect you tomorrow. How you choose to handle them is up to you.
On to the topic of Marco of m!nt - oh goodness. Here comes honesty, again. I'm not trying to lure you.. to get your business.. and the following will surely not get it. The year and a half I spent escorting as a 21 year old was brutal. Brutal. It's not your fault. It's no one's fault. Some would call it a "daddy issue" - maybe so. Whatever the case, I could never see a client without being completely inebriated.. drunk to the point of oblivion. I was tired of relying on my carrot-holding-mother for finances.. so.. I used the only I asset I thought I had at the time - my body. It got me by for awhile - but it certainly didn't land me anywhere friendly. The gents were (for the most part) friendly and respectful.. but there were many that weren't and I'd been happy to have known to avoid or at LEAST be cautioned of.
I sat at my computer, drunk and crying. Bleeding, even. I was a cutter. I had just left my husband and child at the age of 19. We had a thriving business. WTF was I going to do now? Craigslist to the rescue! I found the most awful of awful "pimps" you could ever find. I knew nothing about the business and would go to his house EVERY night and wait for a call to come in. This is all I knew. This is how I thought it was supposed to be. I was naive and completely ignorant to the "biz." Somehow, in the midst of it all, I received a wake up call. "THIS ISN'T RIGHT!" I then tried a few other agencies - all of which were similar to the previous ones. At a photo shoot one night.. I met a girl named Nikki. She said one of her regulars told her to check out m!nt. & so I did..
We both called Marco that night.. unfortunately he told us he was shutting down the service within a few months but would take us under his wing until then. My first thought was "UGH! I need help here! I have NO fucking idea what I'm doing." Marco slowly closed down the "doors" of m!nt and helped all the girls that he knew become independent. Sure, there were "drops" while the incall was available.. as there should be. Sure, he helped coordinate.. but never EVER EVER EVER was he disrespectful, poking or prodding for information in regards to me or the client. He trusted our judgement and asked that we relay this feedback in a safe & secure way.
His main concern was (and IS - as I understand it) to keep US safe and to keep YOU safe. Let me emphasize.. SAFE and SECURE.
Here's some more honesty to dash at ya: I've been living in Hawai'i and all over Asia for the past year. Marco and I have been in light touch over this period of time. I will NEVER say a bad word about him. EVER. Shit happens. Get over it. He makes dick moves. He says dick things, based upon his better judgement. He's definitely not perfect. Goodness gracious, who is? If I were to ever go back to an agency - I'd call him in a heartbeat. Thing is - after a meeting over coffee - he's not in the biz anymore and is going in other directions. As am I
This could have been much more articulate but.. alas.. my rambling fingers couldn't help themselves.
To say I haven't talked to Marco before this post would be a lie. I talked to Marco. I got the scoop. I READ ALL the threads.. over and over and over and.. over! Marco/risquebb.com is not out to get you or expose you.. just out to make the entire experience more pleasant & safe for everyone. The "biz" has been dead to him for quite awhile.. he's lent way too many helping hands, in my opinion. Overextended himself, if I may. If you, the client or provider, are unhappy with the information that is displayed on risquebb.com - I'm sure that he'll remove it. SAFETY SAFETY SAFETY! For fuck's sake..
That's a whole 'nother story in and of it itself.
All this being said; in my insanity, my break downs, my awful (AWFUL) experiences with "pimps" - Marco has NEVER let me down. He's not a pimp. He's a valued friend and confidant who does his best to bring integrity to the business. We all slip up now and then. That's what being human is all about. Learning from mistakes.. growing and all that other esoteric bullshit. Marco of m!nt saved me from a mother fucking travesty. He helped me in ways that I could probably never properly express (as of yet). To dog him would be like dogging the entire industry and/or a great friend. It's a bittersweet symphony - and Marco is definitely much more on the sweet side of things.
In summary: I'm happy to have met Marco, worked with him, befriended him and realized that this is all for PLEASURE & *not* for unnecessary drama. Enjoy your life. Enjoy & respect the women you come in to contact with and please understand that a sneak peek in to who you are isn't the end of the world.. in fact it's the stage for a mounting fantasy..
Much love to you all!
Zoey
BTW! This is a photo of me on one of my latest travels - Florence, Italy. I'm not hiding anymore BUT please understand I completely and totally respect *your* privacy. Au revoir!
Here's me in Italy..
