1. Gain or lose too much weight.
2. Dramatic rate increase.
3. Session quality drop-off.
1. We all get bigger as we get older (and more comfortable). Small gains aren't a big deal. 30-40lbs from when I first met you?
Now, this can vary from girl to girl. It's more about form than the actual poundage, more or less. If you were a slim 115 a couple years ago, but now you've nicely thickened up to 150, and the only thing that grew were your ass and tits, ummmm
we still good (I saw a Midwest stripper do this...go from a beanpole with tits...to looking like JESSICA RABBIT.
If your midsection starts to...own your figure too much, ummm yeaaahhhh....gonna have to fire you there. Sorry.
Going the other way, I've seen girls lose weight, but...now you're just squishy with no muscle tone. You can fix this really by just exercising.
2. Rate increases. Everybody has their own numbers and define their own standards. If I can no longer afford you, then, I can't afford you.
3. I'm admittedly a bit shallow in the hobby. I want to see DOLLS. There are different levels on what a doll is. Some are way up there, and others are hot in their own right. Either way I need to be turned on by what I see and feel (back to that weight variance and 'squishy/muscle tone' thing).
I don't post this way to be an asshole. I do it as core reminder that your hotness is your commodity. If you start off as a strong arm QB, you can't be a noodle arm QB five years later and expect teams to want to keep you. You gotta keep that arm strong to stay on a big league level.
Hope this analogy works.
A lot of these notels come with [free] gyms and exercise rooms, pools, and are local to some good eating places. You can do squats and pelvic thrusts in your room in between visits and lull time (what do those thrusts improve, btw?).
Keep in mind not all of us make 2-3-400 bucks an hour, so spending 2-3-400 bucks an hour takes some planning, research, courage, and anticipation. Hell, we skip over other girls to see YOU. We see other ads. But I waaaaaant...HER.
Splurging is fun, when you feel good AFTER spending the money. When you feel bad afterwards, you start regretting certain choices, and in the future you try avoid those regrets. This applies in the hobby as well. Keep this in mind as you ignore our PM's, emails, text, etc.
As far as the encounters go, sometimes when a provider seems to go through the motions too many times in a row, that's when I feel like maybe I need to start seeking other options. I'm sure it may work both ways when you've seen a guy a bunch of times. Lord knows we get fatter and uglier, and our performance drops off, too (which means it takes us longer to finish).
One bad visit...ehh. Two bad visits in a row...uh oh. This feels like it's getting expensive. Three not so spectacular visits in a row....ummm.
So, a drift or all out split could be the best for both of us.
Thanks for reading.
