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Originally Posted by sixxbach
Staying on topic....
I have one fav of mine who is out of the country at the moment. I would take her for some drinks or dinner.......
sixx
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If she is the kind of lady that will let you take her out for drinks and dinner without charging you for the time then by all means do it.
I take ladies I pay out all the time but I never spend a penny to have someone sit across a table from me.
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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe
WTF Whispers?
Seriously, some may really want to know.
Just because you don't, doesn't mean you have to bash the whole thing.
So, don't buy a lady anything. No one expects you to.
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Some are missing my point.
For a service you are paying $200-$300 an hour for, if all you are getting are the services and time advertised and known to be provided, IMO the idea of tipping them or buying them gifts is ludicrous and a sign of hobbying for all the wrong reasons. IMO guys that do this are looking for relationships, girl friends, etc in the wrong place. They have no idea how to have a normal relationship with a woman....
Now........If it's a lady that charges $200-$300 an hour but will go out to dinner and drinks with you before going back to her place only expects the same $200-$300 and is not charging to be at dinner with you then by all means feel free to tip or buy her a little something.....
Gifts for Providers and ladies encouraging it leads to emotional attachments which at times leads to problems for some ladies....
You Thank him... and the next time you see him wear it and he starts to feel special... Then your in a session and he drops by knocking on your door with a new gift to "surprise" you..... Now your pissed and accusing him of stalking you for an activity you openly encouraged.
The only gifts that should be occurring are are ones providers give on special occasions to special clients.....It's a fucking business.... clients don't show appreciation to a businesses at this level of expense other than by referrals and repeat business..... at this level businesses tend to show appreciation to their clients....
It's a fucking business ladies... You are not spreading your legs for a bottle of perfume.... If the guy bringing it does not have the price of admission the candy, flowers and gift basket from bath and body works.... isn't getting him laid is it?
Valentines day is about Love and Romance.... something NOT being provided for $300 an hour....
It's an illusion.....
That being said..... Guys.....IF your relationship with one of these ladies involves her having lunches or dinners with you off the clock..... If she spends more hours regularly with you for her normal hourly fare... if she converses with you outside of the time it takes to schedule a session..... Then by all means feel free to buy her a little gift or tip her.....
Does that explain my position on gifts or tips any better Maxeen?