Obviously to much porn causes numbness...

[Guest071514-1]

Originally Posted by MOTOXMAN

Well put BA.
So I have a porn addiction....... I see you.........
This ain't gonna turn out well is it ???
Lmao !!!

Oh your fine, I watch more porn than you! And you don't see me nearly enough:/

[Guest071514-1]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Like Amy, I think I prefer vanilla with "sprinkles" but I don't think there is necessarily a progression from porn to prostitutes to hanging off the chandelier at an orgy. Many of the fellows who visit me have had little or no exposure to porn, and sure, while they, er, come for satisfaction, it may not be solely SEXUAL satisfaction. Companionship and a non-judgmental, sympathetic woman (who, admittedly, can suck like a Hoover) are important to some gentlemen. It's a form of total therapy, mind and body. They may never take a step beyond seeing a single provider.

I agree, 99% just want to relax and get what they aren't getting at home or anywhere for that matter. Completely normal guys looking for a release!

But I also agree porn is the least of this guys problems! And the sexual addiction can build up over a matter of years. I have seen guys jerking their own meet so hard and nothing! So hard I know nothing I do is gonna surpass that!

[MOTOXMAN]

Originally Posted by Trey

The guy is a peter puffer, let him be. He needed an excuse to see dudes in a dress and he went with to much internet porn. I dig porn, probably see some porn everyday. Never wanted to suck a dick because of it.

Exactly !!!
And making excuses for it.
Gay/Bi still = Gay
No matter how you try to spin it.

[fishingtwo]

Watching porn does not make you gay or want a dick up your ass. The guy is not dealing with a full dick I mean deck. Maybe both of them.

[Bellaluna]

Originally Posted by bustyamy

There is different levels of sex addiction. First it's porn, then prostitutes, then that gets boring then gang bangs, then off the deep end of stupidity. Brown showers, homosexuality, (things I can't mention here) etc. It goes on and on till it's out of control. A ordinary woman can't get them off, she isn't nearly enough! Usually when they fall into another realm they can care less about protection because they are to far gone! Reason I don't see bisexual men, I like a vanilla guy with a wild streak or a little curiosity, that's all I'll get into!

Bustyamy, you nailed it on the head. I think my young colleague has drifted into the darkside is because he is way over stimulated. I don't think he is gay, but was curious.

[Bellaluna]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Over-stimulation and lack of sensitivity can be major issues. Takes more and more to get to the top of the stairs, so to speak, and tends to go, er, hand in hand with habitually rough masturbation. It becomes difficult for a woman either manually, orally, or vaginally to duplicate the "grip" and "speed" that a fellow has become used to without becoming completely exhausted herself. (Heck, I have to take a break from my vibrator every so often, sometimes even during an hour-long "voyeur" session. If you are in tune with your body, you'll know when to back off, breath, relax, and restart.) Too too much of anything spoils you and makes you less appreciative, so step back occasionally.

As I understand at least one aspect of Tantra, the focus goes inward, not outward. (No blinking screens, as Bella said.) Some techniques, I believe, involve raising and lowering the level of stimulation (something I alluded to above), bringing someone to the peak until they almost teeter over, then pulling them back, building up again, back down, up and up finally to a blast-off orgasm. It can be VERY intense. I know Tantra has been used to help those with TOO much sensitivity resulting in premature ejaculation problems, so I'm sure it could be advantageous for those who have lost sensitivity.

However, I think this guy's numbness is caused by a lot more than porn.

Poking a finger up a guys ass is not a cure at all..... I like what you have to say Fancy and this has been the case with clients I have had in the past as well.. I personally feel helping the young man get in touch with his senses, so I have suggested he look into Tantra to help balance himself.