Why keep asking?

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by 1anchor

The question posed the OP was why? These are attempts to address the why. You can say no means no until you are blue in the face but that doesn’t answer the why these guys don’t get it.

but why ask why? that's a feeling of entitlement. if she says "no", that's it.. no.. when you ask "why did you say no?", you are over-stepping common decency. if she gives a guy an answer, as she just stated she did, telling each guy a specific reason why she denied them, they come back with a response that her answer doesn't satisfy them.. and they hassle her.. that is Fuckstickery beyond credulity.

[corona]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

but why ask why? that's a feeling of entitlement. if she says "no", that's it.. no.. when you ask "why did you say no?", you are over-stepping common decency...

RIGHT THERE is the crux of the issue. Too many self indulgent assholes who think just because they have money for pay4play means they can dictate every single part about the transaction. These fucking guys need a kick in the dick with a steel toe boot.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

At least I’m honest about it instead of waisting time.

Casey

I like honesty, no matter if it's bad news for me

[1anchor]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

but why ask why? that's a feeling of entitlement. if she says "no", that's it.. no.. when you ask "why did you say no?", you are over-stepping common decency. if she gives a guy an answer, as she just stated she did, telling each guy a specific reason why she denied them, they come back with a response that her answer doesn't satisfy them.. and they hassle her.. that is Fuckstickery beyond credulity.

No she was asking why don’t they get it.

[grean]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

So I have had several gentlemen contact me for an appt and for different reasons I have decided they aren’t my cup of tea. What I don’t get is them continuing to contact me to get an appt.

It’s like they forgot I told them I wasn’t interested in seeing them. Why hound me when there are so many providers out there they can see? Do they think if they wait a few weeks I will change my mind?

What’s the deal? No means no.

Casey

No means no until you say yes because you need to pay rent.

That's why they keep circling back around.

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by 1anchor

No she was asking why don’t they get it.

yes, and they don't get it, because they are entitled, stalkerish Fucksticks.

Originally Posted by grean

No means no until you say yes because you need to pay rent.

That's why they keep circling back around.

c'mon grean.. really? this comment is almost as bad as that Broncos-Cowboys prediction

that's like saying "I didn't rape her, because while she said 'no' over and over, she finally said 'yes', after I beat the shit out of her".. you are assuming her "no" is fleeting and fluid, giving these Jackasses a pass for berating and hounding her. you guys are making Hobbyists look very bad.

[casey_carlin]

Well lucky for me I have a husband �� maybe why that’s it aggravates me. The hobby doesn’t pay my mortgage. It’s for more extravagant things and my stash. I would hope 20 years in the hobby I wouldn’t be living appointment to appointment. I know I am in the minority and this used to be my sole incom, but the guy were way different then.

Casey

[grean]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

c'mon grean.. really? this comment is almost as bad as that Broncos-Cowboys prediction

that's like saying "I didn't rape her, because while she said 'no' over and over, she finally said 'yes', after I beat the shit out of her".. you are assuming her "no" is fleeting and fluid, giving these Jackasses a pass for berating and hounding her. you guys are making Hobbyists look very bad.

Cmon...the boys only lost because denver scored more points.

When you frame what I said like it's tantamount to rape, obviously it sounds bad.

Its more like the highschool nerd who keeps asking the cheerleader out to prom even though she has said no everytime in the past. The jock who she was going with decided to go with someone else last minute. The nerd asked one last time and ended up taking her to prom.

When we are told no, we both go down the road. However, you absolutely know that a lot of girl's "no" on this board are very fleeting especially at the end of the month.

[casey_carlin]

The QV I get coming back around because sure I may already be at the incall and say wth. The others it’s just not happening. I will say I watch too much a Crime TV and last thing I wanna do is not come home because someone slipped through that doesn’t respect boundaries.

Casey

[Chung Tran]

and for these Stalker guys, what about personal dignity? a Hooker tells you "no, I don't want your money, don't want to see you".. and you keep after her? maybe you feel disrespected, or you think you are such a Prize that you are misunderstood, and a bit of hounding will get you through the door"?

for God's sake, move on.

[DallasBella]

Likewise....

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by MW76

Are you talking no AA policy? As long as the men are clean, sober, and pay their bill you shouldn't have an issue seeing them. Remember, this is a business first and foremost. It's personal choice when posting on match and eharminy. It's discrimination when advertising in the business world. We have enough discrimination in the world without providers engaging in it too.

Here you go with your same bull shit today PAWB!!!! Casey or no woman’s has to see anybody that they not interested in. I’m a black man and if she didn’t see black men that’s her choice, she is not a damn restaurant, so therefore it’s not discrimination lil boy. Like Casey said No means No. A woman has the right to change her mind even if a guy got to her incall and she said no thank you. Your ass have to leave period it’s her body and she can fuck and suck who the hell she want. The hobby is her business but not her body, so no man can show up and say I’m clean, I’m respectful, I have my donation, so you have to sleep with me lmfao, bull shit she does. Take your ass someone else with that crap.

[Jules Jaguar]

Good question. I have had guys that I have told no actually try to trick me into seeing them using other handles, websites, phone numbers ect. No means no simple as that! It’s really rapey and creepy.

The rest of them will just follow you around trolling you on here and writing bitter comments on your reviews because they are butthurt.

Just because we are providers and they have money does not mean we have to see them. Whatever our reasons are, really aren’t anyone’s business either. Just move on to another lady

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

At least I’m honest about it instead of waisting time.

Casey

And honesty is the new gospel Casey, but if I was you I wouldn’t explain myself anymore, you said No and so it’s over. Don’t waist your time giving any more explanation as if you had to, because you most certainly don’t. Enjoy your day and weekend Casey hobby safe boo.

[Kickrocks]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

The QV I get coming back around because sure I may already be at the incall and say wth. The others it’s just not happening. I will say I watch too much a Crime TV and last thing I wanna do is not come home because someone slipped through that doesn’t respect boundaries.

Casey

Your husband isn't much of one if his wife is turning tricks. You should divorce him. Nice treAD btw.