someone told me "we" don't like to be called hookers...

[royamcr]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

I've always been told there's a difference between a hooker/whore & an escort/provider. When you call a woman a hooker/whore, you're basically calling her low budget & classless. When you call a woman an escort/provider, you have more respect for her & she carries herself well, she's "upscale". But that's just my opinion. If you want to sum it up in one category, yes, we are all hookers lol.

[timmystool]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

I've always been told there's a difference between a hooker/whore & an escort/provider. When you call a woman a hooker/whore, you're basically calling her low budget & classless. When you call a woman an escort/provider, you have more respect for her & she carries herself well, she's "upscale". But that's just my opinion. If you want to sum it up in one category, yes, we are all hookers lol.

I axed a provider if she did bbbcim, you know where a dude cums in her mouth...(spit/swallow wasnt a concern) and she got mad(from what I can tell via texting)
"I'm not some cheap WHORE who has to let a guy cum in HER MOUTH"

-yes, I was greatly confused..
so I can fuck you in the ass/vagina and pay you for the privilege, but I can't cum in your mouth cause then you are a cheap whore?
wanna explain that to me?

whore/escort/hooker/provider....rose by any other name would suck my dick, right?

oh, I asked one gal if she was GFE and she said "what do you wanna know"
I said do you do bbbjcim.?
thats not what GFE means?
what the fuck does it mean then? will you paint my house?

I swear, some ladies like to do as little as possible,...well, that's everyone though.....thats why I like hookers/providers...

[Kat VonDee]

Originally Posted by timmystool

I axed a provider if she did bbbcim, you know where a dude cums in her mouth...(spit/swallow wasnt a concern) and she got mad(from what I can tell via texting)
"I'm not some cheap WHORE who has to let a guy cum in HER MOUTH"

-yes, I was greatly confused..
so I can fuck you in the ass/vagina and pay you for the privilege, but I can't cum in your mouth cause then you are a cheap whore?
wanna explain that to me?

whore/escort/hooker/provider....rose by any other name would suck my dick, right?

oh, I asked one gal if she was GFE and she said "what do you wanna know"
I said do you do bbbjcim.?
thats not what GFE means?
what the fuck does it mean then? will you paint my house?

I swear, some ladies like to do as little as possible,...well, that's everyone though.....thats why I like hookers/providers...

You "axed" a provider? I truly hope you meant "asked". Everyone has a different belief on what a GFE provider is. From what I've learned, GFE providers offer DFK & BBBJ, & treat you more like an actual human being than a source of income walking through the door. Greek & CIM are just upcharges/extras. If a woman doesn't have it on her menu, it probably means she doesn't enjoy doing it. Even more so, I get a little irritated when a man asks me if I offer certain things, when clearly I have over 90 reviews telling you what I do & don't offer. But I won't be an asshole to the man, I will simply tell him to read my reviews on menu options.

Most providers I know who let a guy cum in their mouth or take it up the butt charge more than I do. Kudos to you, because I don't enjoy cum in my mouth or things up my butt. I wouldn't call them "some cheap whore". They just have a higher tolerance than I do lol. To each their own.

[timmystool]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

You "axed" a provider? I truly hope you meant "asked". Everyone has a different belief on what a GFE provider is. From what I've learned, GFE providers offer DFK & BBBJ, & treat you more like an actual human being than a source of income walking through the door. Greek & CIM are just upcharges/extras. If a woman doesn't have it on her menu, it probably means she doesn't enjoy doing it. Even more so, I get a little irritated when a man asks me if I offer certain things, when clearly I have over 90 reviews telling you what I do & don't offer. But I won't be an asshole to the man, I will simply tell him to read my reviews on menu options.

Most providers I know who let a guy cum in their mouth or take it up the butt charge more than I do. Kudos to you, because I don't enjoy cum in my mouth or things up my butt. I wouldn't call them "some cheap whore". They just have a higher tolerance than I do lol. To each their own.

yes, "asked"

exactly good points,
GFE means different things for guys, and reviews arent always accurate, so why not tell a guy when he asks you what you will do, instead of wasting everyones time by saying, "read my reviews"
some providers, have a clear menu, saves time asking, etc.

any provider who does whatever she does DOES NOT DESERVE to be put down with name calling/etc
I dont call anyone names and do my best to be nice to everyone cause that is how I was raised and it is the right way to be.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

I've always been told there's a difference between a hooker/whore & an escort/provider.

Then they lied to you...

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

When you call a woman a hooker/whore, you're basically calling her low budget & classless. When you call a woman an escort/provider, you have more respect for her & she carries herself well, she's "upscale".

That type of opinion is what leads to discrimination in the world...you're all the exact same...from street walker to HDH...you're all hookers, and we're all tricks. As a famous hooker once said, "that's just geography."

[terry88]

LOL years ago like '92 I was working the graveyard shift at the gas station downtown at 10 and locust. This guy always came in with ripped up money and asked for the scotch tape. He would tape the money back together and then ask me to swap it out for unripped bills. I would. Finally I asked anther guy what the deal was he said oh thats just "jim" he is a hooker. I was like WTF are you serious. COme to find out they used the term hooker for him because he used to go to the different parking lots and use a coat hanger to hook the money out of the pay slots. I always thought it was funny.

[seductrix4u]

I said LADIES in this hobby don't like to be called hookers. And then there are the rest who do.

[Wakeup]

So if you don't care what other people call you, you're not a lady?

How about...LADIES in this hobby don't like to be called courtesans. And then there are the rest who do.

You're so caught up in using labels to try and determine your own self worth compared to others...it's vaguely pathetic. Understandable, for older, obese hookers who want to think of themselves as something other than what they are, but still pathetic...

The more surprising part is that seeing how pathetic it is for you to try and determine your own self worth using labels, it's even worse seeing you try and determine the worth of other people using other labels...

You're a hooker...

[Savannah Moon]

How did I Know??
LOL

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

So if you don't care what other people call you, you're not a lady?

How about...LADIES in this hobby don't like to be called courtesans. And then there are the rest who do.

You're so caught up in using labels to try and determine your own self worth compared to others...it's vaguely pathetic. Understandable, for older, obese hookers who want to think of themselves as something other than what they are, but still pathetic...

The more surprising part is that seeing how pathetic it is for you to try and determine your own self worth using labels, it's even worse seeing you try and determine the worth of other people using other labels...

You're a hooker...

Uh...do I know you? Because you sure seem to be personally attacking me for no reason.

As a woman, and a lady, I made a statement that ladies don't like being called hookers. I guess I should have simply said, "This lady doesn't like being called a hooker."

And then you still would have called me all the other unnecessary names you called me. I'm entitled to stand up for myself on this board. You don't have to like it.

For someone who wants to talk about putting labels on someone, you just labeled ME a hooker. Label yourself. Worry about yourself. If you want to be called a hooker, great. I don't. Why do you care?

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

Uh...do I know you? Because you sure seem to be personally attacking me for no reason.

Like you did other hookers on this board by saying they weren't ladies if they didn't mind being called a hooker? Honey, you'll know when I'm attacking you...this is just me dropping truth on you...

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

I guess I should have simply said, "This lady doesn't like being called a hooker."

Yep...that's what you should have said...but you didn't...hence this thread...

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

For someone who wants to talk about putting labels on someone, you just labeled ME a hooker.

Yes, I called you that word...to prove the point that you think that word is negative...and hence you think it's a label that hurts people. It's exactly the opposite. It's just a word. The only person who gives power to the words they get called, is the person hearing the word. Unfortunately, the people who are most offended by being called certain words, are the ones most likely to try and belittle others with labels...as we see with you...

A word is just a word...until someone tries to use that word to say they're worth less than someone else...like you did...

It's really too bad...oh well...

P.S.-You don't have to know me...you posted on the internet...pull your granny panties up babe, not everyone on the interwebs is going to think you're actually better than other women Ike you think you are...

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

Like you did other hookers on this board by saying they weren't ladies if they didn't mind being called a hooker? Honey, you'll know when I'm attacking you...this is just me dropping truth on you...



Yep...that's what you should have said...but you didn't...hence this thread...



Yes, I called you that word...to prove the point that you think that word is negative...and hence you think it's a label that hurts people. It's exactly the opposite. It's just a word. The only person who gives power to the words they get called, is the person hearing the word. Unfortunately, the people who are most offended by being called certain words, are the ones most likely to try and belittle others with labels...as we see with you...

A word is just a word...until someone tries to use that word to say they're worth less than someone else...like you did...

It's really too bad...oh well...

P.S.-You don't have to know me...you posted on the internet...pull your granny panties up babe, not everyone on the interwebs is going to think you're actually better than other women Ike you think you are...

I asked a moderator to not call me a hooker. Unless I'm mistaken, the term PROVIDER was created for a reason. It would be nice if it were used as it should be.

I don't label anyone. I spoke up for myself. I thought I spoke up for the other ladies as well. I realize I was wrong. You all like to be called hookers. My bad. I won't try to defend you all again.

But not, I didn't label anyone and you aren't going to try to paint me into a corner with your double speak.

Now, report and iggy. Useful tools.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

I asked a moderator to not call me a hooker. Unless I'm mistaken, the term PROVIDER was created for a reason. It would be nice if it were used as it should be.

More evidence that you are so caught up in labels that you have no perspective of who you are outside of what you call yourself, what you try to make other people call you, and what you call other people...

The term "provider" was created for a reason? What reason is that? How should it be used?

[Dkayz]

Yes, words are words... But there is still the use of words in a derogatory sense and how others perceive them.

Just be polite to people. I could call some people in here shitbags or cunts, but those are just words right? You can choose to be offended by them or not, but it doesn't mean I should go out calling people that just because I can.

Wakeup, stop being a dick.

[Davidian1980]

Originally Posted by Dkayz

Yes, words are words... But there is still the use of words in a derogatory sense and how others perceive them.

Just be polite to people. I could call some people in here shitbags or cunts, but those are just words right? You can choose to be offended by them or not, but it doesn't mean I should go out calling people that just because I can.

Wakeup, stop being a dick.

+100000. Well fucking said.