How the fuck did we get to this point?

[doug_dfw]

Originally Posted by Ashi

+1
Sadly enough, trolling and other personality issues that lead this online verbal attacks and frustration venting wave, will drive the average member away. This is why some of us left Rubmaps and moved to eccie, and now we see the same trend.... In a just few months I see more and more of this BS aired. It is like reality tv shows... The really bad ones ...

Any suggestion how to bring back some positive and entertaining online behaviors?

Flagging trolled posts by users, will only amplify the off topic posts. The problem posters have more time and motivation to respond incessantly than you have, plus the language skills to put you down.

I suggest to give the mods more freedom to just remove trolled posts and suspend posting permissions for this stuff if they want to keep the site from becoming really boring. ( my 1.5 cents...)

You don't practise the First Amendment like those who lead that ideology.

[doug_dfw]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

Because there are some people in this world that get a kick out of hurting others. In a weird way it makes them feel good and boost their self pride. Its sad but that's how it is.

Wow from your fingers; old saying- takes one to know one. How many times banned for being an angel?

[doug_dfw]

How did we get to this point asks the OP. Our nation's culture has been undergoing a major transition from patriotic, God believing, law abiding, family orientated, self providing gentile to the unpatriotic, God defying, lawless, whatever you might be, welfare sucker activist lead by those, Leaders and all, who have moved against the grain since the 60's. Hippies, doppies, gangies, you know who; if you don't; then wth .

Simple, my dear Watson.

[cookie man]

It's inevitable to get to this point. It's just the nature of the internet beast. Jerks love the internet. I am reminded of a quote from the great philosopher Dalton in Roadhouse...

"If somebody gets in your face and calls you a cocksucker, I want you to be nice. Ask him to walk. Be nice. If he won't walk, walk him. But be nice. If you can't walk him, one of the others will help you, and you'll both be nice. I want you to remember that it's a job. It's nothing personal."

Mods just have to be nice, till it's time not to be nice.

[Kendall4U]

We are to this point because some of the supposed adults on this site have the mentality of teenagers. I seriously wonder how many of the people that post so much drama, negativity and bs fare in their RW. I would be willing to bet they are miserable individuals. Sad state of affairs. Truly.

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by doug_dfw

How did we get to this point asks the OP. Our nation's culture has been undergoing a major transition from patriotic, God believing, law abiding, family orientated, self providing gentile to the unpatriotic, God defying, lawless, whatever you might be, welfare sucker activist lead by those, Leaders and all, who have moved against the grain since the 60's. Hippies, doppies, gangies, you know who; if you don't; then wth .

Simple, my dear Watson.

Wrong.

Somebody just found a keyboard and went into some redundant diatribe about hippies, atheists, and people who get on welfare.

The keyboard is the problem.

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by doug_dfw

Wow from your fingers; old saying- takes one to know one. How many times banned for being an angel?

How many times you been at the bar today doing shots? Just hope you don't show up to another appt with blood shot eyes and try to take advantage of another woman like you did me at our appt.

[glade55]

those damn trolls....

[melannie_star]

Originally Posted by Tara Evans

How many times you been at the bar today doing shots? Just hope you don't show up to another appt with blood shot eyes and try to take advantage of another woman like you did me at our appt.

No Worries, he wont. .. He is the sweetest man I have had the pleasure of meeting and have known for quite some time now. Never have I met him under those circumstances and will always be a dear friend to me. Sorry.. but I do have to correct you on that statement." Taking advantage" can be misused in any translation and is an even bigger accusation. So normally I don't get involved, but I only feel it is right to speak up on that matter.

[Tara Evans]

Sorry maybe he was nice to you but sure as hell wasn't to me. Please go look at all of his posts. Tell me that more than half of them are insulting me or putting me down in some way of form? NOw if you think that's far then your not right either. He was mean to me and still is. This was 2 more than 2 yrs ago and he still won't let it go or leave me alone on the board.

[melannie_star]

I have read the post and will make sure to give him a good spanking when I see him..
I am not on either end here and never have asked or gotten involved because it is not my business. Just the thought of him ever taking advantage of anyone made me laugh.. lol. He would not hurt a fly.
I don't want to know any of the past and agree that after 2 years.. that something must have went terribly wrong between the two of you. Sorry to the both of you.. Dougie.. Get ready for your spanking..
Tara.. no hard feelings.

[Tara Evans]

Yes please spank him really hard for me. Maybe tie him up and gag him a little too.
And none taken sweetie

[sirliamscross]

Well, I'm not your classic definition of patriotic, I'm an atheist, I'm on this site (law abiding?), etc.

I still manage to be civil in my interactions. Here and elsewhere.

It's simple, but not for the reasons you list. People think that, for some reason, they have a right to be a dick any time they want to. Maybe.

But I know that if I try hard enough to see where the other person is coming from... If I actually listen to what they are saying instead of just waiting for them to stop talking (or typing) so I can start speaking again... I find that if I am patient I can usually find some common ground. And maybe even respect their position.

Just because we disagree anout something doesn't mean I should call you out and try to make you look bad. And (specifically here on this site) just because our personalities don't click doesn't mean I should try to belitte you every time you dare to post something.

This place is awesome. The wonderful ladies here provide something amazing. Something that is worthwhile and exciting and desired by all the gentemen here. At (usually) a small fraction of what that same thing would cost us in terms of time and money.

Why troll? Because you can. Obviously. But you shouldn't. When you feel the need to get personal and make a negative comment about someone... JUST STOP. And not every petty jab needs to be answered with a return punch.

I really like this site. I just wish we could me more civil.

I yield my soapbox.

Originally Posted by doug_dfw

How did we get to this point asks the OP. Our nation's culture has been undergoing a major transition from patriotic, God believing, law abiding, family orientated, self providing gentile to the unpatriotic, God defying, lawless, whatever you might be, welfare sucker activist lead by those, Leaders and all, who have moved against the grain since the 60's. Hippies, doppies, gangies, you know who; if you don't; then wth .

Simple, my dear Watson.

[Ashi]

+1000. Nicely said, Sir L. Objectivity is not cool anymore!

[Alyssa Marie]

Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

The keyboard is the problem.

YES, HI!

the men who instigate and belittle on these boards would never do such a thing if there was an actual identity attached to them.

as for how did eccie get to this? eccie dallas is nothing compared to eccie austin and they have both had these issues for quite some time now. this is nothing new.