Nature of man......

[Eccie Addict]

Max I can understand that however it wasn't written that way and can easily be taken the way I percieved it.

Please I hope no one thinks I have a problem with Elisabeth because I don't. It was a statement she made and I thought it would be a good topic and it's something I've thought about before.

[john353]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Max I can understand that however it wasn't written that way and can easily be taken the way I percieved it.

Please I hope no one thinks I have a problem with Elisabeth because I don't. It was a statement she made and I thought it would be a good topic in which to start a thread and it's something I've thought about before.

There...fixed it for you. LOL

[Eccie Addict]

J353.... It's funny cause I almost put that very thing in there LMAO!!

[essence]

Interesting discussion, and it works both ways.

I certainly know that when aroused, I behave differently. I am trying to use a different word to 'more agressive' as that gives the wrong idea, but no man ever penetrated a woman without some degree of - dunno what to call it - dominance/joie de vivre/aggression/forcefulness/outgoingness/creativity/self confidence.

But the other way - I wish I could find a youtube clip of the comedian Al Murray - he does a wonderful sketch on the wretched tedium of having to spend hours masturbating your SO, and the alternative pleasures of a pint of nectar. Women can get quite demanding during sex, and a man who doesn't do his duty, either manually, orally, or penisally, however disinclined he might feel, can get some harsh words.

My gf, when I daty her, she steers my hand quite forcefully so my fingers can penetrate her while I suck her clit. Quite forcefully indeed. No complaints on my side. Quite the opposite.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Easy I know what you mean....

I had one tell me "I'm a dirty whore, call me a dirty whore!" lol. This was a well known provider here on Eccie. That was so weird for me as I don't talk to women that way. However I was still able to play the rest of our time but that caught me off guard.

I do agree that the hobby is not the only place this happens but providers are exposed to that type of behavior much more than a woman should be exposed to it.

you weren't supposed to tell our business like that but the look on your face was classic

[Eccie Addict]

Daphne was that one of those times my deaf ass didn't hear you tell me to call you that lol

The one I remember is retired......

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

twas a joke my dear

[Guest021824]

[Max-Max-Max]

You r a twisted man!

[proper]

sorry to derail the thread EA but had to comment on this. No way Easy and c-rock. you guys were lucky to get both. People of my origin on the other hand - we begged and begged but God was not that kind to us.

Now back to regularly scheduled program

EA - My rule is fairly simple - I will request things that i like and none of my request are of the kinky variety but I am a gentleman and always go with what the provider is comfortable with. If i feel a provider is short changing me I do not complain I just move on and find somebody better. Life is short so need to keep it simple. There are too many choices so there is no need to be rude and be hurtful.

Originally Posted by Easye

C-Rock I was in line with you on the day that those appendages were handed out so we got the brains instead. So i just have to use my charm and wit to swoon the ladies.

I always heard that you can catch more bees with honey than you can salt.

[Guest050715-1]

I do not think at all that is the nature of man to force himself upon a woman. I would also say that there is quite a bit of truth in Essence’s post. That act of penetration is in and of itself an intrusion – albeit a desired intrusion .

I have only ever had one man make me feel uncomfortable. I do think that if I’d have shown fear or weakness, it would not have turned out well for me.

Men, like women, want to be wanted and desired by their sex partner.

[blowpop]

I'm a man who very much enjoys "forcing" a woman to do things that she doesn't want to do... when she wants to be forced. There's a safe, sane way to explore these fantasies, and that is through BDSM play.

But in order for this scenario to work out to everyone's satisfaction, negotiation has to happen up front. Don't jump into this without talking first, folks.

[Jackie S]

How true, BlowPop. Considering how the law looks at rape, just about anything a man does to a woman without her consent could be breaking the law. "But judge, she's an escort" should hold the same weight as "but judge, she told me she was 18".

Communication is the key. If you wish to explore certain avenues, it does not hurt to simply ask the Lady. If she says she would rather not, you can enjoy what she does have to offer, or look for another Lady who will indulge you.

But, any time a person does something to another without their consent, (it does not neccessarilly have to be sexual), that person is wrong. Since Escorts are already on the fring with the authorities, they often have no recourse, except to out such a slob on sites such as this.

I believe that consenting adults should be able to do just about what ever they please. The key is "consenting".