what would you do?

[leslie@nn]

I love these responses... I travel a lot and certain places I won't go because certain people I know love there.... And everyone has a dirty little secret... Lol I won't provide in those places for sure. I have thought out many different scenerios lol

[Old-T]

I have never had that happen, but I have had similar happen in reverse.

I had traveled to a Midwest city for a multi-day work meeting. The night I arrived I met a lady at my hotel. The next morning I went to the meeting location and she was sitting on the other side of the conference table. We both stumbled a little in the introductions, and that first day was quite awkward for me, and seemed to be for her as well.

Fortunately they had no working dinner planned, and on the afternoon break I approached her and said I thought we should have dinner together and talk. She was anxious to do so. Over dinner we cleared the air and made it clear that neither of us had any intention of revealing any secrets. The rest of the week was a lot less stressful than the first day had been.

The project lasted about a year and we were at multiple work meetings over that time—and kept it all work. When the project was over I did set up another session on my last trip there, and that too went well, though it was definitely a different feeling—screening was certainly not an issue at that point!

That experience made me think about your question even before you asked it. For me, I think if it happened I would suggest we turn the date into dinner only and pass on any other activities. I would certainly not tell anyone else, that is not my place in any of this.

[leslie@nn]

When I used to dance, I ran into all sorts if people. The two most memorable were professors at my college. One I met at the club and we did dances. Class started the next day and guess who my teacher was!!! I am the kind of student that sits front and center too.. he was very siprised when he stood up to introduce himself... But we never said anything and j never saw him at that club again. Another time, I went up to a table and introduced myself. It turns out that he was a very prominent figure on the admissions program for the graduate programs for my degree... So I politely said I would like to keep school and work separate... He then had someone tip me on stage later. I still see him at the gym at school and its less awkward now as the years have passed.

[Carolina Girl Holly]

I could be wrong, maybe he lied, but he surely recognized you from the pics, but was screening done to avoid such an incident? I had a former client, when I was an ad exec, contact me, always thought he was hot, I outed him who I was before we met and he still met me and it was great. I didn't know if he did it out of guilt, but when he contacted me again when we were both in a different city, I knew it wasn't. So like is always being said on ECCIE, SCREEN, SCREEN, SCREEN!!

[mlovinn]

I would probably smile and blush and invite them in to talk if they want, or let them know they are free to leave no questions asked!

[Angel Ryder]

I would probably look through the peephole and pretend to not be there. I don't think I could ever get over the shame and embarrassment that would come after opening the door. No thanks. I'd just avoid it.

[Grace Preston]

There is a fantastic thread in the archives somewhere about a guy who ended up scheduling an appointment with who ended up being his ex spouse.

[JAY DOG II]

A few years ago I met a provider in Chicago and when I walked into the room we both realized that we recognized each other as old friends from the neighborhood we grew up in. She asked me if I was cool with that and I said yes I was. I also told here how I always dreamed of doing her when we were in high school together about 10 years ago.

She proceeded to take my clothes off and then she sat on my lap and gave me the best GFE kiss I have ever had. She started with oral skills class and then did some squats to end our session. We talked about what we have been up to and how our parents were doing etc. -

I saw her probably 6 more times after that. Each time better than the last as far as performance goes. In the end I think we both had some regrets because I think we would have loved to date each other but the way we met made that impossible for either one of us. In the end it was some of the best sex I ever had but it left me a bit empty when I think of the possibilities if I met her away from the trade.