What does UTR mean?

[GingerB]

Amen....Honey Rose.
I've encountered such ... just the same.

Being UTR as a provider and UTR as a client....can certainly have its challenges.

What it takes to get to the "trust level" can be tricky.
Everyone is cautious....some more so than others.
THIS IS WHY.....when we find someone we trust and are comfortable with...we tend to stick with that ONE.

I have a gentleman recently not able to give me references because he is NEW at the hobby. He also does not want to join any screening websites so that I can feel comfortable about seeing him.
He lives out of the country.......and his company website is "under maintenance" right now.
I have no clue as to who TRULY this guy is.

Do I dare ??

GingerB

[caddyman]

Originally Posted by TheGiftedOne

Historically, UTR meant a lady did not run ads, did not allow reviews and relied upon a group of guys via word of mouth. Never under any circumstances did she allow any pics to be posted, allow reviews, nor did she have a webpage, showcase, etc. The pics with the face blurred were not even an option under the classic rules a true UTR gal. A true UTR gal follows this path for concern with being "discovered" by her hubby, ex-hubby, boyfriend, or family member.

The definition has been stretched significantly in the past year or so as many gals think UTR means no face pics or phone number posted. That is "not" UTR by any means. If you have pics even with the face blurred you risk someone recognizing you, so no benefit by calling yourself UTR. You think a current or even former SO will not recognize your boobs or backside? Really....

Very accurate assessment. I would only add real world career issues to the list of concerns some UTR providers have.

[Skin2Win]

Otc.....off the chart....

[GoAheadMkMyDay]

And you bumped a nearly 6-year old thread for ... ?
AFAIK, OTC in out context means Off The Clock or Outside The Club.