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Old 07-13-2024, 06:10 PM   #16
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Old 07-13-2024, 07:14 PM   #17
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The correct way to contact a lady according to providers?

Just send debit card number with pin exp date zip and code on back of card.

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Old 07-13-2024, 10:09 PM   #18
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some interesting replies. tho, it's not exactly clear what you are asking. (is english not your first language?)

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What is the correct way to contact a lady?
Title: Appointment request
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Hi, my name is X, age, ethnicity. I would like to see you for one hour. Can you arrange the time so we can meet? Thank you! I am available everyday after 8

I have messaged like this multiple ladies but none replies me. Could somebody tell me what's wrong?
==> "Can you arrange" - of course she can. now whether she wants to is another question. use an active voice verb phrase.
==> "available everyday after 8" - 8 a.m. or 8 p.m. - be specific.


are you asking what is the correct medium to use to contact a lady?
if so, then whatever she lists in her ads, profile, website, etc.
if none given, then pvtMsg on site(s) where she advertises, then text or email (if she lists a ph# or email addr). if she replies back, then continue to communicate w/ that channel.

are you asking what info helps in your first contact with a lady?
if so, then again, whatever she asks for/lists in screening/appt requests.
if she doesnt list it anywhere, a "real" name and website username, age, (optional) general info about how long you've been participating in this sub-culture, and best way for her to contact you for more info.

are you asking best manner/phrasing to use when asking if you can meet her?
if so, something like this...
"Hi, my name is X aka Y on website, i'm age. I would like to meet you for one hour, hopefully on <<insertPreferredDateAndOrTime s>> or on <<insertPossibleDaysAndOrTimes >>.
you can contact me via <<insertBestChannelForHerToCon tactYou>> for any additional info you require.
Thanks for your time - hope we can meet!"


reading thru some barely visible lines, if you are asking multiple providers and not getting any responses, either something is spooking them or it's just coincidence.

good luck in your search for some delites.
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Old 07-14-2024, 11:43 AM   #19
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OP first start by reading her ad or web site and get in all the info you can about the provider off the ad or web site / rates and screeing info / her working hr's / Dates she on tour or day to day hr's
Then contact her by her Preferred Method ie. Text/ email/ a phone call.
Make sure you Introduce yourself right away By Name Age Race/ Hi XYZ( provider) My name is XYZ my handle on oh2 eccie p411 (XYZ) . Saw you ad on XYZ.
I like to book apt on this date at this Time if you are available?

Here are my Refes Info XYZ XYZ / make sure you send refes name number email or web site , so the provider has a easy and fast way to get you screened right away and then you can move on to making appt.

Or she may want Personal info or a deposit and if you are Uncomfortable with her screeing then move on to a provider who you are okay with her screening.

Last thing we want to do is go back and forth with 50 text or emails
"So put all your info in the first contack preferred method"
Keep it simple on both ends.
What not to do or say
Don't say hey babe are you available, how much and what's on your Menu right out the gate be a "Polite Gentleman"



Just maybe you asking are you available at 8 or after is just one reason you may not getting a provider to respond !
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Old 07-15-2024, 04:53 PM   #20
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The correct way to contact a lady according to providers?

Just send debit card number with pin exp date zip and code on back of card.

sounds about right
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Old 07-15-2024, 08:22 PM   #21
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message me, i got u xoxo
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Old 07-20-2024, 04:19 PM   #22
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message me, i got u xoxo
That's how it's done! All other BS out the window
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Old 07-20-2024, 10:15 PM   #23
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That's how it's done! All other BS out the window

welcome back! Stick around this time
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Old 07-21-2024, 11:30 AM   #24
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I plan to buy you never know what can happen with the poor moderation around here
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TEXT IN ALL CAPS (THIS IS IMPORTANT)!!!!!!


"IS THIS HAWK TUAH? 'SSUP? U AVAIL?"
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Old 07-29-2024, 02:39 PM   #26
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Title: Appointment request
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Hi, my name is X, age, ethnicity. I would like to see you for one hour. Can you arrange the time so we can meet? Thank you! I am available everyday after 8


I have messaged like this multiple ladies but none replies me. Could somebody tell me what's wrong?
I like it when I get an introduction….. hi my handle is this, age, ethnicity, what sites are you verified on …..etc etc. the more info in the intro will determine how and if I respond. If it’s just “are you available today” with nothing else…..I typically won’t respond.
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Old 07-29-2024, 02:56 PM   #27
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If you're that desperate to see a particular provider and she's not responding, offer to pay her more than her normal rates.

If you provided a service, and every time you advertised that service you got more requests than you'd be able to fulfill, you'd have to pick and choose somehow. Offering more money is an easy way to get yourself to the top of the list.
I happen to disagree with this! Anyone that brings up money is a red flag in my opinion. Even just wanting to double check rates. Unless they have strong references I will usually drop off the convo at any mention of money.
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Old 07-29-2024, 03:08 PM   #28
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The one thing that’s missing is a mention of references..
If you have references I’d mention that you do have references, just ask. If you do not, I’d say that you’re open to alternative screening.
Usually when someone writes and makes no mention of references, I’ll write back and ask if he has one to share and he’ll write back that he doesn’t and I’ll write back my alternative screening option and 9 times out of 10 they never follow up.
This happens every day. I can see where some ladies just stop fussing with people who don’t offer references immediately.
On your race being a factor, I am sorry if anyone is discriminating against you due to that.
That’s not cool at all but maybe write something else like you’re a professional ,a business man ..well groomed etc
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Old 07-29-2024, 03:27 PM   #29
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I believe the non response from the tricks is because they're being asked for personal information or asking for $ deposits? they look for easier less hassle options at that point and go visit them
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Old 07-31-2024, 02:41 AM   #30
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Try Adult Search Asian Escorts. Usually receive a text message within 5minutes if no one answers the call.
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