Too Sexy for the RW??

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by Natalie

How exciting! Like losing your virginity all over again.

Now there's a wonderful way of looking at the situation.

[Guest112113-3]

Nicole

I going to be straight forward on this and no disrespect in any matter, I used to tell several of my close guy friends that if they never have been fucked by a true escort then they never have been fucked. Thou I am quite sure you have awesome skills, like so many of the ladies in the game do, but I have been fortunate, I guess, to have found several young ladies not in game having exceptional skills that you would think only a lady in the game would have.

At first that amazed me, then I figured out that some got it and some don't, no matter if they are in the game or not....just naturals. So with that knowledge in mind, I would not find it that unusual really if I met you in the Real World and not having any information on your past history, the first thing that would come to mind is, "Hot Damn this woman has it and loves sex".

I think what I would be concerned about is the feeling of true Passion....the type that you can't put aside and just say it business...

The one thing I really want to say is "Good Luck" and I am sure you will find all the happiness that you deserve.

[hesitantly]

Nicole, I haven't been active in the hobby, so I would be considered a RW "pedestrian". This board will prove insufficient for the lessons you need. Please contact me for my address (it's just 100 miles south of you) and I will donate my time for your education. It will be difficult for you, but I am patient, and you will need to do me until you get it right! Please don't go off to Europe unprepared. ;-)

[oden]

Just be yourself and great for him. There are girls out there that invent stuff for fun that you have never thought of. Sex is one of the purest forms of fantasy and imagination that we have and the biggest problem with providers is a lack of spontaneity and a dependence on the rote everyday methods that "work" for most.

How lucky if you find a man that surprises you with something that is new in your experience and thrills the hell out of you. Will you wonder about him if he shows a penchant for setting you off because it is the most important thing that he thinks about? Hopefully his passion will be the trick that can't be faked or duplicated. Hope that works out both ways!

[oden]

I agree about the acronyms, most people don't use them unless they are under a certain age and grew up texting or are on the boards.

[mietk]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I've always dated pretty conservative men and I don't see that changing when I leave the business. They are so fun to corrupt.

I must be missing something? How does conservative equate to boring?

[MrGiz]

Nicole... I have lusted for you from afar for a long, long time! I have simply been cursed with no travel to your area in ages.

I am quite certain you are quite a prize in this world.... and more than certain that you will be an even greater prize for the lucky men who enter your RW!!

Your natural charm and grace will take care of everything.... I am quite sure! Don't worry about a thing.... simply enjoy!

Happy Trails,

Giz

[Schrödinger's cat]

Nicole,

I am very new to this world and like several have stated already – I wish that I would have run across your shores many years ago. Though I would echo – funny I thought someone said this earlier in the thread - it might be better to bump into you in the real world someday.

As many have already said – just be yourself on that first, second, third and more dates. You will have many.

Having said that and meaning no offense – “be yourself”…well, I’ve wondered this from time to time. Not just from the providers point of view (i.e., does the non-client [if I may use that term] wonder about your skillful arts in the bedroom or any room?) or on the flip side – us gentleman – (do our lovers notice any changes in us after we’ve been with a wonderful woman?).

For what it is worth, I think change is more noticeable – meaning just that – a change from some baseline is cause for attention. You will be coming in fresh – in all circumstances. I would like to think that people can handle the past of an individual – knowingly or unknowingly.


Personally I prefer to date someone who is more in the “know” when it comes to sex. It makes me more comfortable if they can put a condom on with one hand tied behind their backs. Speaking only for myself – the novelty of sex, intimacy – never gets old or tired – but the awkwardness of it does.

I’ve heard women talk about the hand of maturity when it comes to men. I think that is also true of men.

Here’s to your great success in the real world of dating. Not to mention you profession career. Cheers!

Best of luck!

Cheers,
Schrödinger's cat

[Rudyard K]

Originally Posted by mietk

I must be missing something? How does conservative equate to boring?

I'd say you are missing a lot. But it probably starts back a third grade comprehension class.

I don't see anywhere that she said, implied or even alluded to "boring". At worst, if one was trying to turn her comments on its ear (which it would appear you have tried), you could say that she has certainly implied that conservatives are "uncorrupted". But I don't now how anyone makes the jump to boring.

[tylorblake]

Originally Posted by Rudyard K

Actually, I think ATL is pretty spot on here. I mean you're old enough to where we're not bust'n cherrys here. I think the time between meet and greet (so to speak) is the more telling feature of the dance. Take your time...make the boy work a bit...let him earn it...but once earned I'd say let him know he won a hell of a prize.

Pretty damn good advice!
One might say "Word"!.....make the boy work a bit, I think we forget that concept living in this world.

[xperiment]

Originally Posted by Nicole Preston

Another point in the Dallas coed was how to apply the "raincoat". Let's face it, I can do it with one hand and blindfolded, so do I need to fumble around and pretend I haven't done it a million times? LOL, sorry for being so crass, but really 10 years...come on!

Well maybe I do need to book a session just to see that.

[pornodave69]

I have to agree with Rudyard's statement " Take your time...make the boy work a bit...let him earn it...but once earned I'd say let him know he won a hell of a prize." I don't think your "skills" BCD will be much of a tip off about your soon to be recent past, but how fast you jump in the sack might be. You're used to having sex with strangers within minutes of them entering the room. Do that on a first date and he'll certainly enjoy himself, but you might not hear from him again. At best it will be a short lived relationship. But, wait too long and he's out the door.

I'd have to think that with the ever increasing popularity of porn, girls making out with each other in bars, flashing their boobs at each other and not wearing underwear, the level of sexual prowess by many women is not a major surprise to many guys. I'd think that most guys want a little minx in the bed. We just don't want her jumping in straight from someone else's bed. That, I think, is the difference in the real world.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by mietk

conservative equate to boring

If that's the hat you wear, I say wear it proudly!

[Spaulding Smails]

Nicole, I would go for it and be yourself. No guy expects a virgin these days. And, every guy wants a naughty girl in the bedroom. EVERY guy. Don't hold back. I would be shocked if you found a guy who was intimidated or turned off by your prowess. More likely, they will fall in love after the first date.

[nevergaveitathought]

Originally Posted by trojanman

Nicole, I would go for it and be yourself. No guy expects a virgin these days. And, every guy wants a naughty girl in the bedroom. EVERY guy. Don't hold back. I would be shocked if you found a guy who was intimidated or turned off by your prowess. More likely, they will fall in love after the first date.

i agree...why do you think john edwards fell for Rielle Hunter...because she was nice and smart? no..she was sensual and open and sexual and naughty and giving and most every man wants that desperately from a woman