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Old 06-28-2016, 04:59 PM   #16
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Sometimes I even have a bowel movement.
ME TOOO!!! Hahahahaa!!!
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Old 06-28-2016, 06:05 PM   #17
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NOOOOOOOOO!

There goes that IOP...
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Old 06-28-2016, 07:53 PM   #18
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The convenience of the hobby is lovely. I want a man to be around when I want him and go away when I don't. I don't want him constantly demanding my attention by texting or calling me when we are apart. I was like that before the hobby as well.

Plus, after being spoiled and put on a pedestal by clients I don't think I could put up with any disrespect, defiance, or thoughtlessness.
The best of all possible worlds!
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Old 06-28-2016, 09:12 PM   #19
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I don't date at this point in my life for many reasons. The last real world romance I attempted was much more trouble than it was worth. I love my independence and artistic lifestyle. I don't need a man turning down my music to watch a baseball game and I damn sure don't need to go to bed at 11 pm because he has to get up early. Nope...I prefer my men by appointment only.
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Old 06-28-2016, 10:52 PM   #20
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Do Providers Date? you got to laugh at that question.
Not only do providers date but believe it or not they are real live Women whos needs and lives are the same as any other woman. Lol
Lot of them are married or been married and still Hobby and that's why theres a hobby life and a RW life for most women in this business.
Yes there are troubles with dating or being married to a provider..There are not many men wanting there wife or GF out screwing around ( Pun intended )
and theres not a whole lot of men can get past that fact and usually its an open relationship much like that of a swingers...
Providers are special women that allow us hobbiest to share with them part of their lives and fufill our fantasies and thank god some of them do.
Yes most are paid for this and im not trying to glorify them just remember they are Human and have needs, feelings, and family to deal with on a daily basis.
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Old 06-28-2016, 11:27 PM   #21
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Old 06-28-2016, 11:28 PM   #22
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Beta males need loving too
Fucking nailed it!

Follow on question for the ladies:
If you did enter a serious relationship and your partner provided for your financial needs (and you trusted they would continue to do so), would you keep providing?

I can't help but wonder about the guy who can sleep at night knowing his girl needs to have sex w strangers to pay the bills. (Yes there is a double standard. I have sex w strangers but i can have standards. I wouldnt be paying if i didnt.)

Call me old fashioned but I would find a way to make more money so she didn't have to do that.
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Old 06-29-2016, 04:46 AM   #23
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Yeah, believe it or not there may be some men out there who are more than OK with having a GF or SO who is hot enough to have other men be willing to pay serious $$ to be with them; some of us may even be highly aroused by the thought of other men paying to have their way with the woman who they get to have their way with for free.

Some may want to hear about their ladies' experiences and be turned on by that, others may just look the other way because the $$ is good.

Everyone's different in this world, thank gawd.
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Old 06-29-2016, 06:11 AM   #24
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Problem with being the financial provider for a prostitute is she is still prostituting but just to you. You have to pay her so much money to be your partner and she will not give you sex whenever you want nor how you want, she will become a wife in the sex department but demand the dollars as a prostitute. She is not in it for better or for worse. Because when money gets tight, house needs major repair, a/c needs replacing her solution is suck on a few strangers and presto new a/c. She has to completely reform her thinking and understand no matter what happens providing is never the solution, then and only then will she be ready for a committed relationship. Both of you will wonder what the other is doing when apart, especially if she has been talking about the new entertain center she wants that is so expensive. And you being a hobbyist fucking strange women during work hours and did he really give up 4 different women a month?
If love is what you want, start looking in other places, it most often is not found here. A woman that has never prostituted herself out can be very appealing. A man that has never paid for sex can be just as appealing. Also people in this hobby tend to be very superficial, judgmental, etc. All those traits have to be dealt with as well. Dating a provider is and would be a disaster just as dating a hobbyist unless the relationship is not committed.
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Old 06-29-2016, 07:31 AM   #25
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Lots of good posts in response. I have been told by a provider that she has tried dating clients. They didn't work. No surprise there. I told her that it was jinxed from the start.
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Old 06-29-2016, 08:08 AM   #26
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Fucking nailed it!

Follow on question for the ladies:
If you did enter a serious relationship and your partner provided for your financial needs (and you trusted they would continue to do so), would you keep providing?

I can't help but wonder about the guy who can sleep at night knowing his girl needs to have sex w strangers to pay the bills. (Yes there is a double standard. I have sex w strangers but i can have standards. I wouldnt be paying if i didnt.)

Call me old fashioned but I would find a way to make more money so she didn't have to do that.
And what if she chose to do it because it gives her freedom, flexibility, and money to enjoy the things she wants to do? What if she doesn't want to be dependent upon someone else for her income and wants to earn it herself?

I know it's crazy, but it seems that there are some providers who might actually *gasp* enjoy the time they spend with some of their clients (and obviously, there are shitty clients as well, just like in any other service based industry). Getting paid a relatively high dollar / hr rate can't hurt either.
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Old 06-29-2016, 09:06 AM   #27
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Fucking nailed it!

Follow on question for the ladies:
If you did enter a serious relationship and your partner provided for your financial needs (and you trusted they would continue to do so), would you keep providing?

I can't help but wonder about the guy who can sleep at night knowing his girl needs to have sex w strangers to pay the bills. (Yes there is a double standard. I have sex w strangers but i can have standards. I wouldnt be paying if i didnt.)

Call me old fashioned but I would find a way to make more money so she didn't have to do that.
I am not old-fashioned. I am a modern woman who can provide for myself and I don't let any guy tell me what to do and what not to do and vice versa. I would not date a man for financial reasons. I would date a man for love and I would have my own house, bills, hobbies, activities,…and he would have his own house, bills, hobbies, activities…and sometimes we do things together. I would not want to spend 24/7 with him. If he has a problem with what I do, he doesn't have to date me. The same rule applies to me. I keep my personal life and this life separate like any other people with a 9-5 job. It is a job.
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Old 06-29-2016, 09:07 AM   #28
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And what if she chose to do it because it gives her freedom, flexibility, and money to enjoy the things she wants to do? What if she doesn't want to be dependent upon someone else for her income and wants to earn it herself?

I know it's crazy, but it seems that there are some providers who might actually *gasp* enjoy the time they spend with some of their clients (and obviously, there are shitty clients as well, just like in any other service based industry). Getting paid a relatively high dollar / hr rate can't hurt either.
THAT IS EXACTLY ME!!!
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Old 06-29-2016, 09:16 AM   #29
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I'd be ok with dating a provider. I don't plan on getting married anytime soon so I wouldn't marry one. But I'd be ok with dating one
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As far as dating a client? I will never. I keep my personal life and this life separately. Once I meet you in the hobby, you will never cross over. My select clientele must know boundaries, and if they try to cross these boundaries, we will just have to stop. And the same thing applies to me, I know my place and will never try to involve myself in your personal life. Having clear boundaries allow more relaxed and hot passionate time without worry. :-)
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