Chicago K9 being a leak that cannot be trusted seems like an incestous individual and should be banned from this community

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by kSoze

Disrespectful name calling, Is that is the best you can do? Did you ever consider that sometimes people post to get a rise out of you and the homies? Its kind of funny to see all of you blow up and scramble around trying to come up with something intelligent to say back.

There is zero evidence to support your delusions and or assumptions. I am sick of your hatred. sick of your idiocy, if you don't like the guy; fine that's your right, but educate yourself and come up with a better, more tactful argument. The problem with all this crap is, spreading that kind of hate will bring on more senseless, unnecessary hate.

isn't it wonderful that noone gives a fuck about what you are sick of?

as to spreading ANYTHING... You seem intent on keeping controversy alive whenever you can get any attention....

You are a sad little man..... You come across as lonely and without value anywhere else but here....

It's good that we are far more tolerant than you are.....

[ozmosys]

It's funny how those who point fingers tend to come off as not altogether trustworthy themselves. They scream from the highest mountain, "That person is a snitch." And in effect, they are snitching on someone else for being a snitch.

Maybe overcompensating for their own failures, which haven't come to light. Oh, I can tell this person, because they are trustworthy, and maybe they are.

But no one has a good enough memory to be a successful liar, or to successfully keep secrets 100% of the time. So eventually the truth comes out.

Why does there even have to be a super-secret locker room? As if anything in the locker room stays in the locker room. It's a joke. Why not call it the "gossip room". That would be more accurate.

And what's wrong with radical honesty? Well, it's not tactful for one thing, and people's feelings get hurt. But that's mostly because we're living in a bubble of tact and politeness. In a world of radical honesty, our skins might be thicker.

And I don't mean to imply that I'm never hypocritical. We all do these things. But if we are brave enough to submit our lives to a little honest introspection, then we can be mindful of it. Okay, I'm doing that again. Is this really the way that I want to live my life?

[ozmosys]

BTW, thanks kSoze and SeX PisToL. I thought that I was going to get butchered, and I'm still holding my breath just a little bit. But maybe I'm not the only one who's weary of all the negativity.

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by ozmosys

Cave Man Lawyer sez: I'm just a cave man who was frozen by a glacier 100,000 years ago, and was recently discovered and thawed out. Your modern ways frighten and confuse me. I don't know what was leaked or not leaked, or what is acceptable or not in this twisted line of reasoning about innocent comments made about someone who may or may not be an actual daughter or friend of said daughter.

But there's one thing I do know. All events described on this forum are completely fictional, and shared for entertainment purposes only. They should not be confused with reality. If you want something held in confidence, you'd probably better not share it on a public board, which anyone can get access to, without any kind of identity verification.

So I can only assume that any expressed desire to banish or humiliate another member, or to stitch a scarlet letter upon their clothing, or to burn them at the stake for witchcraft ... all of these desires must also be fictional and imaginary.

Why not instead put everyone on trial for sharing opinions and ideas that are at best only mildly entertaining? Aren't we all guilty of this at some time or another?

Therefore, ladies and gentlemen of the jury, I submit to you that the defendant be found guilty of the high crime and misdemeanor ... of being human.

Such a crime can only be punished by the highest penalty known in our justice system ... toleration.

I think it's pretty safe to say that many here have daughters. Yes, he could very well be making things up. I can agree on that. However, even the most tolerant person has to wonder about someone who would make the comments that this ChicagoK9 made.

It's pretty obvious that he likes the attention. The heat on him would die down if he didn't draw attention to himself. One shouldn't feel bad for him since he is responsible especially with his disturbing comments. I have seen enough things in my life to know he could very well be serious and truthful with his comments regarding his daughter.

sixx

[ozmosys]

A daughter is just one step removed from the mother, who apparently kindled some kind of desire, or else there wouldn't be a daughter.

I don't think that it's that weird to notice that members of your own family are sexually attractive. Maybe a little too Freudian for modern points of view.

But especially in an anonymous online forum, where the boundaries between ourselves and who we pretend to be tend to get a little blurry sometimes. This is a new thing. This is not the PTA, where it would be totally creepy, for obvious reasons.

Put yourself in his place. Maybe he shared a little too much, and he may feel a little sheepish. Especially after all of this shitstorm that has ensued.

Cut him a little slack. That's the civilized thing to do.

[knotty man]

the difference is,
i didnt watch my wife be born
i didnt wipe her nose when she was a sick child or a heartbroken teenager
i didnt stay up nights wating for her to come home from her 1st date
and i didnt swell with pride as i gave her away to the next man i prayed that would loves her nearly as much as i do

[ozmosys]

All wonderful things, knotty man. And in all those years, you never noticed that she was a sexually attractive woman, especially to that man that you gave her away to?

I don't think that the person in question expressed any actual desire for his daughter. I think he was just being honest about her physical attributes. Is that a crime?

[ozmosys]

So will these guys still be there in the long run? It's a crap shoot.

But when we were young, we were just like them. Sexuality was a key factor, and love was also a component. That's the tight rope walk that everyone has to balance upon.

You have to let go of them and let them live their own lives. Don't feel guilty about your own observations, or make anyone else feel guilty about theirs.

Every father goes through this. You are not the first.

[Codybeast]

When yet ANOTHER new member pops up out of the clear blue with NO board posting history or reviews and aggressively jumps right into the thick of it defending the WK's and board violators it makes you wonder. This does seem to be a growing trend.

This particular posting style reminds me of a certain controversial high profile provider who seems to have vanished in the past few weeks. Of course it could be "You know who" yet again. No I don't mean the dumb one.

ECCIE is turning into a game show called "Stump the Board" or "Who's that Poster" or should I say Poser?

[ozmosys]

Aggressive or defensive? Make up your mind. Neither provider nor poser, this poster has only ever had one handle since ASPD days. Not a bad guess, except of course that you are completely wrong.

This whole guilt-by-association mind game courtesy of the paranoia committee reminds me of the speed limit enforcers on I-35. You know, the ones who park in the passing lane driving exactly the speed limit, even though there are signs all around saying "Slower traffic keep right".

[guest020313]

There is a reason we have mods! Ijs
some of you must have nothing better to do then talk s*** about someone you don't even know!
Granted I talk s*** to but I know what I'm talking about and have the fact before I speak!
This comment was not specifically directed at anyone in particular!

[The Rover]

Defensive for sure , count the post & double post .

[ozmosys]

So now the unofficial mod wannabe's are making new rules. No double posts. Why have we never seen that rule in writing? Could it be a figment of someone's fertile imagination?

[The Rover]

Nobody said its a rule !
It just makes you look obsessive and crazy . IJS .
But hey if that's what you want to put out there , have at it !
Job well done .

[sixxbach]

Originally Posted by Absolutely

There is a reason we have mods! Ijs
some of you must have nothing better to do then talk s*** about someone you don't even know!
Granted I talk s*** to but I know what I'm talking about and have the fact before I speak!
This comment was not specifically directed at anyone in particular!

Well the facts are: he did share ML info and he posted rather disturbing comments about his own daughter.

I have to ask you Abs, as a woman and mother, did you find the comments disturbing?

sixx