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Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 08:54 PM

doesnt mean i gotta like it!

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Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy

you know, i just need to realize this is the way things are and they wont ever change. again dissappointing to me. the hobby is what it is, once we cross into this "realm" anything and everything should be expected and accepted

K2S0 · 04-21-2011, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy

you know, i just need to realize this is the way things are and they wont ever change. again dissappointing to me. the hobby is what it is, once we cross into this "realm" anything and everything should be expected and accepted

i'll agree with anything and everything being expected... but i dont agree that it should be accepted...
tolerated to the extent that you know it exists but if it isnt something you are comfortable with or
inclined to do, there is no reason to accept it...

Your body, your time, your money, your choice...

how you come to that decision, whether from information from this board or others, or "radar", or any
method that gives you the feeling to not deal with anything or anyone... it's your choice

Guest052912 · 04-21-2011, 09:05 PM

Im not saying your weak because you care about what people say about you. I am saying that in this biz you have to expect the judgement, the jerks and the shit talking. What Im saying is you can not let the words of some online persona get to you. I take the I dont give a shit way of thinking. It works for me. You have to do what works for you. Its obvious it bothers you, you created a thread about it. Im just saying you cant let little things like name calling affect you this much.

Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 09:07 PM

point made and understood

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Originally Posted by deevad

i'll agree with anything and everything being expected... but i dont agree that it should be accepted...
tolerated to the extent that you know it exists but if it isnt something you are comfortable with or
inclined to do, there is no reason to accept it...

Your body, your time, your money, your choice...

how you come to that decision, whether from information from this board or others, or "radar", or any
method that gives you the feeling to not deal with anything or anyone... it's your choice

Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 09:09 PM

i shall work on it then lol

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Originally Posted by Audrina Monroe

Im not saying your weak because you care about what people say about you. I am saying that in this biz you have to expect the judgement, the jerks and the shit talking. What Im saying is you can not let the words of some online persona get to you. I take the I dont give a shit way of thinking. It works for me. You have to do what works for you. Its obvious it bothers you, you created a thread about it. Im just saying you cant let little things like name calling affect you this much.

Waitt · 04-21-2011, 09:18 PM

I think Hooker is the word.

Fast Gunn · 04-21-2011, 09:20 PM

If you are really and truly deep down this sweet in your soul, Mandy, then be grateful that this wicked world has not contaminated your tender soul.

People do not start being mean and nasty, they become that way because that is how the people around them are and believe that is how things are done.

There are clumps of evil and nasty people all over the world and if you hang around there long enough you will slowly become like they are.

Fortunately there are also oasis of sanity scattered around this dysfunctional world and that is where I choose to drink my water.

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Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy

see and this is where im lost, either im obviovious to the ladies locker room talk or its never caught my attention, i have never seen a point in talkin negatively about people, what is the benifite? nothing other then your being negative. i will give people chances and i wont go off biased desitions but it still dissappoints me to hear certain things.

Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 09:20 PM

so why do we have to expect that type of conduct in this hobby? i know itll never change, and yes it bothers me a lil but i only have a heart, not saying anyone else doesnt but its like for example.... your at a mall and your wearing a cute toob top dress and someone comes up to you and asks oh my how many months are you, your like what! lol you shrug it off but in the back of your mind you'll always remember what that person said. whether it was rellivant or not.

Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 09:22 PM

i just realized i have the wrong acess and have never viewed the ladies powder room so i am oblivious to what they say, not sure i care to know either!

Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 09:24 PM

can i get a ticket to where you are! lol

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Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

If you are really and truly deep down this sweet in your soul, Mandy, then be grateful that this wicked world has not contaminated your tender soul.

People do not start being mean and nasty, they become that way because that is how the people around them are and believe that is how things are done.

There are clumps of evil and nasty people all over the world and if you hang around there long enough you will slowly become like they are.

Fortunately there are also oasis of sanity scattered around this dysfunctional world and that is where I choose to drink my water.

Out_of_Bounds · 04-21-2011, 09:46 PM

Powder room is overrated honey. They just post alerts on guys posing as Mods.

Trust me when I say I apply the terms "hooker", "whore", "prostitute" it holds the same weight to me as the term "john" or "whoremonger". Society sees us all the same.

Out_of_Bounds · 04-21-2011, 09:50 PM

Besides, I like sluts. Otherwise I'd go find me a nice church goin' schoolmarm.

SoHouNeedsGFE · 04-21-2011, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Mandy

can i get a ticket to where you are! lol

I wonder though, if the context makes the difference in using those words? Yes, you'll find some who use them in a derogatory manner, but might they also be used in a different context, in that they could also be used to express extreme praise, one who held in highest esteem and on a pedestal?

Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 09:53 PM

could you give me an example on what that would read like?

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Originally Posted by SoHouNeedsGFE

I wonder though, if the context makes the difference in using those words? Yes, you'll find some who use them in a derogatory manner, but might they also be used in a different context, in that they could also be used to express extreme praise, one who held in highest esteem and on a pedestal?

Guest061011-4 · 04-21-2011, 09:55 PM

i have a feeling you may be right, idk if want access to there, i see no benefit to reading w.e. is being posted. unless someone shows me otherwise

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Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

Powder room is overrated honey. They just post alerts on guys posing as Mods.

Trust me when I say I apply the terms "hooker", "whore", "prostitute" it holds the same weight to me as the term "john" or "whoremonger". Society sees us all the same.