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London Rayne · 12-05-2011, 10:36 AM

You're actually a perfect sleeper! You don't wake up, roll over, kick, or get up on me to where I can't breathe! Problem is, you don't find these things out until AFTER.

shorty · 12-05-2011, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

You're actually a perfect sleeper! You don't wake up, roll over, kick, or get up on me to where I can't breathe! Problem is, you don't find these things out until AFTER.

You must have put something in my drink!

London Rayne · 12-05-2011, 10:47 AM

Well..yah.

That's one way to get alone time bwahahaha!

WTF · 12-05-2011, 10:58 AM

Anybody that needs to caca for two hours needs some alone time!

am-a-pleaser · 12-05-2011, 12:37 PM

I've taken a 3-day trip before. Strictly for fun and frolic. She and I spent 24-7 together doing site seeing, meals, entertainment, sleep, etc. With her, we were more open about personal body functions, and it worked out.

More recently, a lady and I took a 4-day trip together. We spent a lot of time together, but she also had a lot of alone time while I was in meetings all day. I would get up at 5:30 getting ready for my meetings that started at 7:00. She would get up around 10:00, I think.

While I was in meetings, she took care of her more private bodily functions. I also took care of mine away from her. What's interesting, we never had to talk about it. During her alone time, she went to the indoor pool, whirlpool, exercise room while I was away. Since the meetings were in the Hotel, I did return to the room a couple of times to make sure she was not bored. She took care of herself each day while I was out. She knew up-front that my meetings were all day, so not to expect my company 24-7.

Thank goodness she can take care of herself. I assume most providers can take care of themselves. That's what their doing in business, right?

In the evenings we had our time together. Dinner, entertainment, etc.

We had a good balance of time apart and time together. Bedtime we both slept. I don't have gross habits. I also sleep fairly still all night.

In Vegas, I like some alone, too. Even when I go to a Casino with someone, I like to drift off and do my own thing.

Personal note to London. I enjoy overnights and the ladies invite me back for more overnights. Maybe I'm doing something right.

Just let him know you need some alone time. If he's on eccie, send him a link to this thread.

One thing did catch me off-guard a little. When I returned to the room at the end of the day, she greeted me with a very warm embrace. She really did miss me and appreciated the alone time she got.

Jamais, you actually sound like a perfect travel partner. Generally, I approach a multi-day trip as one with a "friend with benefits" trip. There are times for gfe, times as friends, times apart.

Yes, I want her on my arm at times, but not all the time we're out. As for my trip, the lady and I had never met before. We exchanged one or two pm's. Then a ten minute phone call and the deal was set. I checked her reviews, she checked my references. We live in different cities, met at her place, and proceeded to the city of our destination.

I think she would go with me again. I also believe she will recommend me to other ladies for a trip or an overnight (unless she gets a little jealous).

London Rayne · 12-05-2011, 12:40 PM

Your second date scenario is the only one that would appeal to me..the first sounds like something I would do with a BF and not for money. Yes, can take care of myself without a man around lol. It's pretty obvious.

WTF...if you need 2 hours for that, see a freaking doctor lol. Why do men like decide "I think I will poop now" and spend 30 min. in the bathroom? Girls are not at all that way. We can be done in 3 min. including a courtesy flush with wipe and wash lol.

catnipdipper · 12-05-2011, 01:43 PM

If the client has a brain........................h e will appreciate a break also. I know I would as I like to be alone.

Naomi4u · 12-05-2011, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by catnipdipper

If the client has a brain........................h e will appreciate a break also. I know I would as I like to be alone.

Some are too clingy. Sigh....

lisa.lisa0302 · 12-05-2011, 02:31 PM

I don't know many man who wants to be around a woman for 3 days non-stop. im sure he wants some man time alone himself.

Now, I would not say to a client, "I need a break". I would assume, he would already be thinking that, because he need a break himself. Plus, he would love the fact that you are going out and maybe shopping for two for toys and such. Things to make the trip more spicier.

Guest120615-3 · 12-05-2011, 02:34 PM

I hopefully have a trip planned next month with a provider under similar circumstances. It would be draining to spend that much time with anyone without a break.

Just tell the guy you need some alone time to fart, he'll understand.

am-a-pleaser · 12-05-2011, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by London Rayne

Your second date scenario is the only one that would appeal to me..the first sounds like something I would do with a BF and not for money. Yes, can take care of myself without a man around lol. It's pretty obvious.

WTF...if you need 2 hours for that, see a freaking doctor lol. Why do men like decide "I think I will poop now" and spend 30 min. in the bathroom? Girls are not at all that way. We can be done in 3 min. including a courtesy flush with wipe and wash lol.

Well LR, I can be your BF for 3 days. I wouldn't charge anything

Actually, we were both in the mood for that kind of a trip, so it worked well.

RE: poop -- Some men can finish a little faster. Wipe well. And Wash the damn thing. I want to stay clean and fresh. Some of us make sure we lift the seat before tinkle and wipe up any stray sprinkle. I even close the lid when I'm finished.

woodyboyd · 12-05-2011, 02:49 PM

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In 3 or 4 days imagine how awkward that would be for BOTH of you. I don't want to see some stranger taking a dump and I sure as hell don't want to smell it. Sorry to be so crude, but it's true.

That is NOT the issue that was brought up; it is INCREDIBLY crude, and you are not sorry or you wouldn't have posted it. Everything about your statements then is untrue in one way or another. The real issue then is why you are being off point and making untrue statements and to me, it is obvious.

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Men are freaking gross in their sleep most of the time...just sayin.

What a sexist, crude, and offensive statement.

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Sleeping next to some person you don't know is more trying than being awake!!

You poor thing.

We are so blessed to have a woman like you tell us men what assholes we are.

Naomi4u · 12-05-2011, 03:07 PM

Interesting statements here. Interesting... that's all.

shorty · 12-05-2011, 03:15 PM

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Interesting statements here. Interesting... that's all.

Need some

, Za!

Tiffani Jameson · 12-05-2011, 03:18 PM

Honestly darling, this is a no-brainer.

Even if it's a couple of hours a day to work, read a book, talk to family, NO gent expects you to be on him 24/7. If he does, there's something wrong with him. I have yet to have a trip where a client doesn't need to check in at home, work, or even just take a minute to check emails.

This time for me is usually in the morning, after the romp, before breakfast. We get on laptops, get on the phone in separate rooms, get on the treadmill, and once it's over we can get back to each other.

If it's a business thing for him, then you should have plenty of time for that. If not, request an hour in between in the morning to do your rituals.

To be GFE is to be human. I would never suggest going more than 12 hours with someone you can't be yourself with or muster some reason to enjoy them without faking.