Provider Orgasms - how important are they?

[Valentine Michael]

I'm constantly amazed at how many guys are under the delusion that an escort having sex with multiple guys a day, for multiple days a week with guys they have no emotional connection with and often usually no physical attraction are having multiple O's with them. I always think they likely have self worth issues if their need to believe is so great.

[Bobave]

Originally Posted by Valentine Michael

I'm constantly amazed at how many guys are under the delusion that an escort having sex with multiple guys a day, for multiple days a week with guys they have no emotional connection with and often usually no physical attraction are having multiple O's with them. I always think they likely have self worth issues if their need to believe is so great.

+1

[TheBizzer]

Originally Posted by Valentine Michael

I'm constantly amazed at how many guys are under the delusion that an escort having sex with multiple guys a day, for multiple days a week with guys they have no emotional connection with and often usually no physical attraction are having multiple O's with them. I always think they likely have self worth issues if their need to believe is so great.

+1000

[warlock]

Damn! I've been going about it all wrong, all this time. Who would have thought?

Didn't know I was supposed to have the "wham bam thank you mam" mentality in the pursuit of hobbying.

Shit, if that's the case, then I should out running the "track" looking for SW's, or trolling BP.

Apparently I don't know shit about whether or not a woman is having an orgasm either. I guess if she's a squirter and does so, then that's no indication that she's having an orgasm or faking it. If she's so sensitive after an orgasm that she asks you to stop for a moment to collect herself, that must be a sure sign she's faking it.

B.S. .... Generally, when you initially see a provider, its simply about a business transaction, and busting a nut. On the other hand, a quality experience for both parties will keep him coming back for more. If things 'click' and she develops into something akin to an ATF, her having an orgasm doesn't have any bearing whatsoever? It may not happen all the time, but if she truly does, then that enhances the experience for her, which in turn enhances it for you. Or how about this scenario? Guy sees provider 'A' who is friends with provider 'B'. Guy eventually sees provider 'B'. Prior to seeing provider 'B', the guy discovers that provider 'A' has told provider 'B' that the guy is really good at DATY and recommends provider 'B' experience his talents. Would it not be motivation for the guy to give provider 'B' an 'O' and thus be important to him to do so? Ummm...YES!You don't think the ladies talk among themselves? Maybe not in a public forum, but they do talk, and give recommendations. They can exchange all sorts of information, you'd be naive to think they wouldn't tell one another if they guy made her cum or not.

I'm constantly amazed at how many guys are under the delusion that an escort having sex with multiple guys a day, for multiple days a week with guys they have no emotional connection with and often usually no physical attraction are having multiple O's with them. I always think they likely have self worth issues if their need to believe is so great.

According to that, a high volume provider is incapable of having an orgasm much less multiple orgasms? Guess you're seeing the wrong providers then. Try a low volume provider whom you connect with, who is not just in it to make a buck.

[guest071811-3]

squirting can be done without an orgasm.. i mean in theory most believe its stimulating the female prostate that causes this..and while intense..no proof orgasms follow..

being sensitive..easy to fake...

remember 99% of this world is "illusion" the other 1 percent is real..thats the part where the girl takes the money

just giving ya'll a hard time..it should be all about having fun..fuck the orgasms

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by warlock

Damn! I've been going about it all wrong, all this time. Who would have thought?

Didn't know I was supposed to have the "wham bam thank you mam" mentality in the pursuit of hobbying.

Shit, if that's the case, then I should out running the "track" looking for SW's, or trolling BP.

Apparently I don't know shit about whether or not a woman is having an orgasm either. I guess if she's a squirter and does so, then that's no indication that she's having an orgasm or faking it. If she's so sensitive after an orgasm that she asks you to stop for a moment to collect herself, that must be a sure sign she's faking it.

B.S. .... Generally, when you initially see a provider, its simply about a business transaction, and busting a nut. On the other hand, a quality experience for both parties will keep him coming back for more. If things 'click' and she develops into something akin to an ATF, her having an orgasm doesn't have any bearing whatsoever? It may not happen all the time, but if she truly does, then that enhances the experience for her, which in turn enhances it for you. ...

According to that, a high volume provider is incapable of having an orgasm much less multiple orgasms? Guess you're seeing the wrong providers then. Try a low volume provider whom you connect with, who is not just in it to make a buck.

to the next to the last paragraph, that is most definitely a high probability.
and i know of some encounters where the man and the woman have fit in that high probability. multiple orgasms?? maybe not in a row, but during an hr or two.

come on people, expand your consciousness to realize that there ARE possibilities of encounters other than what has been generalized here. and that the probabilities of those possibilities actually occuring are better than 50/50%.

we are all different and we all experience and like different things.

just cos one person hasnt experienced intense fun w/ another does NOT imply and one should NOT infer that it cannot happen with others.

Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

...removed ideas about ways to not have orgasms...

just giving ya'll a hard time..it should be all about having fun..fuck the orgasms

fun can and often does include orgasms.
that also doesnt mean that all fun activities will or have to include orgasms.

LAGNAF!!! and maybe something more.



[btw, what's the female equivalent of "bust a nut"??]

[warlock]

[btw, what's the female equivalent of "bust a nut"??]

Had a provider use it to describe her need to get off, so in that case it was not gender specific.

[Braveheart]

Seems like this topic is of interest but it would help if some other ladies stepped forward to comment. Come on now...pleeeeez...

Interesting thing is that I got two emails from ladies I haven't seen in a while (both are GREAT) asking me to come over and give them an "O" ... isn't this board terrific.

DeAnna has contributed a lot here. Thanks!!! : )

Speaking from a guy perspective, there are many activities that I like that sometimes do result in the nice lady having an orgasm. Then, on a different day with the same lady, it does not happen from doing the same thing. I do have to say that relaxing and just having fun is sound advice from DeAnna. But, as pmdelites seems to comment, if a mutual activity helps a lady cross the finish line it is even a more enjoyable experience...and that's exactly why some of us can sometimes become a little obsessed with it!

Maybe this is where the old saying originated about people who "want to have their cake and eat it, too."

[MaxiMilyen]

OK....from a mature and low volume provider's perspective, who actually provides the GFE , let me state that each experience is different. Do I expect it to be a gent's goal to provide The Big O for me? no. Do I want the Big O? ummm....hell yeah I do!! I agree that it feels good to play and it's fun, but of course if someone "riles me up", I'd like a happy ending too if and when possible, please. Isn't that usually the goal for both parties?

I understand this is my "job" (and yes, I have a hard time calling it that most of the time), but I actually like sex and the minute it ceases to be a mutual experience, I'm out! I can give up the hobby, but I will never willingly giving up mutually satisfying sexual experiences. So, if you're in it to win it then so am I. Is that really a bad thing? Not for me it ain't. You want the GFE? You got it!

[TheBizzer]

Braveheart,

The catch 22 about asking the ladies is that since it is obviously important to many guys, it doesn't make great business sense for a girl to come out and say she fakes it most of the time. Getting an honest answer on this topic could prove to be difficult.

[npita]

To the gentlemen -

how important is it for you to know (and feel) the experience of helping the lady have an orgasm as part of your visit?

It was about as important as with any other woman. Which is to say that if she wanted an orgasm and what I'm doing wasn't going to do it, then I was open to following instructions.

[rex4998]

the ladies aren't stepping forward because they don't want to rain on the parade that is in every review...

"I gave her 5 O's in 15 minutes"

[pmdelites]

i was told long ago, if you have to ask them if they orgasmed, then you probably weren't doing the right things away. [kinda like npita said; and similar to "if you have to ask the cost, you probably cant afford it]

if, after all was said and done, i were to ask/say anything, it would be "did you have fun?" or "i hope you enjoyed my visit." now, i might not get a completely truthful answer if that were the 1st or 2nd meeting, but how she responded during the activities and afterwards will essentially answer my question.

recently, i must be doing the right things, cos in five recent 1st encounters with five different women, w/out my asking or prompting or requesting it, each said to me "you're fun" [or words to that effect]. i thanked them [and later at home moved them from my gcho to my gvha list]. the other nite two women i've visited for a while said "that's because you are fun, pm." warmed the cockles if my heart :^)


for info on cockles...
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-a-cockle.htm

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by rex4998

the ladies aren't stepping forward because they don't want to rain on the parade that is in every review...

"I gave her 5 O's in 15 minutes"

great answer!!!



in my case, they arent stepping forward cos they're still recovering from my last encounter with them

[ItalianaPrincess]

I have an orgasm everytime I see an envelope with my name on it... ah hah!

JUST KIDDING!!!

The more turned on you are, the closer I am to having an the big "O" as well.




XOXO,
Italiana Princess