Sad to see such negativity

[zeejoe]

The obvious question is.....

How much information does he have on girls he IS interested in?

[dunrexx]

Originally Posted by Luxie

Does anyone else find that incredibly creepy?

I'd be worried if someone didn't find that creepy.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by Luxie

Does anyone else find that incredibly creepy?

Originally Posted by zeejoe

How much information does he have on girls he IS interested in?

Originally Posted by dunrexx

I'd be worried if someone didn't find that creepy.

Pretty much just reinforces what I've always thought of the poster...

[Luxie]

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[BobsAlias]

Just good record keeping. I don't have any similar spreadsheets for providers. But I do for restaurants, comparing cell phone plans, etc.

[AlbusMilitis]

I wonder what Ay's folder looks like.

[super_delfin00]

Its just his personal Don Vito List. Instead of a list of BBFS providers, it's a list of sketchy providers locally.

[dunrexx]

Isn't that what this site is for? Hop on here, check to see if a giyou l is verified/ reviewed, check rates, check services and make a call from there? Plus, a spreadsheet for a restaurant or cell phone sent vice usually doesn't involve detailed personal information about illicit activities.

[Fsn57]

Is JR's list any more creepy than a provider keeping a record of blacklisted clients, a DNS list? His record keeping may be a little more organized than the creepy DNS lists providers keep.

[Guest013121]

I know a lot of gentlemen that keep spreadsheets like this. Some are far more detailed than JRs. I have always been very meticulous when it comes to keeping notes on guys AND ladies in the hobby too. My notes keep me safe so I assume it’s the same for the guys. I imagine most guys have a roster too. Lol. I don’t see the creepiness in it. We all have little black books so to speak.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Luxie

Does anyone else find that incredibly creepy?

What is creepy is the pimps hanging around, the girls robbing guys. That means be careful and do your homework. Everyday, and lady, should keep notes. Do you remember who you have seen and how the meeting went?

For the woman; was the guy a creep or a gentleman? We are all sure that many of the ladies can not remember every guy they have met. That is creepy. Are they going to make the same mistake twice?

Add to the creep factor: girls change their phone numbers, and their names on a regular basis. When a guy finds that numbers and ID have changed, it should be an automatic "no see".

There are a lot of ladies who think this is a game where they can make up the rules as they go along. There is all kind of lies and total nonsense that some of the ladies sprue forth from their mouths as the chronic degenerative disorder from which the word is taken.

Which gives rise to the question, can we totally trust someone we do not know.

An aside:

Some women try to make up the rules
They don't tell us what the rules are,
If guys ever figure out what the rules are
Those women change the rules on their own
and they don't tell the guys what the new rules are.

That is creepy, but guys have learned to live with it.

More than half of the people in the world are women. There are so many really nice ladies that I guy could never meet all of them. There is no need great enough for a guy to ever tolerate women who are not nice.

Guys - Just walk away.
The truth is; we have more hookers to avoid than ones we should see: sometimes the truth sucks.

When a guy finds a lady that is special. He can see her again on a regular basis. There is a problem here. The list is special ladies who have retired and moved on is very long.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by zeejoe

The obvious question is.....

How much information does he have on girls he IS interested in?

The special woman I keep for myself. I am selfish.

[SweetSuzanna]

How about this: stick with well known, well reviewed providers here in KC?
I think some guys enjoy a risky challenge, and it may backfire

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

How about this: stick with well known, well reviewed providers here in KC?
I think some guys enjoy a risky challenge, and it may backfire

"well known, well reviewed providers here in KC?"

Most retire. At my age, and with family commitments dating and developing another partner is not attractive. Been there, done that.

All the guys would like to have a nice visit with a pleasant lady. They are not seeking a risky challenge: that is not enjoyable.

The whole point of the discussion is that it takes a lot of work to avoid the risk. All the guys should feel very comfortable about a lady before the first call is made.

Suzanna, it is good to be in the upper 10% of the women. Count yourself among the elite.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Luxie

Does anyone else find that incredibly creepy?

Keeping a list of rejects is bad enough IMO but publishing the list on an open forum is...well I just have to consider the source. In different places over time I've seen lists of favorites but I can't ever recall a list of rejects. Twisted.