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Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds
No disrespect J353. I was merely comparing an act that could be construed as "dirty" vs. Seeing someone who could be construed as "dirty". I've seen a TS and Don and Naomi see me as "tainted". You've stuck your tongue up a womans bum and some may think "I don't want to kiss him, his tongue has been who knows where". Of course I'm sure your hygeine is impeccable. Just making parallels on the taboo. I myself have an interest in DATO. Never done it, just haven't had enough nerve to try.
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No disrespect taken.
Let's look at sexual acts, that can be construed as "dirty" or "filthy." In my case, my form of DATO (which is part of it. My fetish is ass play in general) is a little more extreme than your basic licking of the ass. Yes I have had individuals comment on my reviews and go as far as to PM me to tell me what a sick individual I am. In my own straightforward and direct manner, I usually tell them to go fuck themselves. If they don't like it, tough shit! Now that is other hobbyists that I am referring too.
Providers... Different story all together.
In the 9 years that I have been indulging my cravings in this lifestyle, there have been 2 cases where I ran into a couple ladies who weren't receptive to my lingual offerings.
The first was a spa girl who felt it tickled her so bad that she just couldn't handle it. She wasn't repulsed, she just couldn't handle the sensation.
The second was a very much sought after independent provider that made a comment that she wouldn't kiss me, period. I laughed in her face!!! We were at a social so we were actually face to face when this happened.
She shrugged me off and I dismissed her due to the fact that I had no interest in fucking her in the first place. No loss to me!
For the most part, as long as I don't try to stick my dick in their ass, they let me play with them. Like I said earlier...it feels good to them. They like it.
As far as cleanliness...yes...I am impeccably clean. Now, why would a lady who just let me eat her ass, let me DFK her about 2 seconds later? Because they are impeccably clean themselves and have no worries about it.
Some of these ladies cater to fetishes that would probably make me vomit. So DATO really isn't that extreme, IMHO.
Now....
Why would there be individuals on this board who feel that YOU are dirty?
It isn't the sex act, it's who you chose to perform it with. There are many people whether they are in this hobby or civilians, who feel that homosexuality is an unnatural act that there is no excuse for. They were raised their entire lives believing that individuals who will lay down with members of the same sex are sick perverts who should be given no quarter...and they will not give an inch.
What I find astonishing, is women who consider themselves bi-sexual, are applauded for it by the same individuals who are willing to burn a man at the stake for the same damn thing. To me, these people are the epitome of hypocrite.
In my opinion, bi-sexuals are the most liberated out of all of us. They say " sex is sex, why discriminate?" So true...for them.
It is also my opinion that men who salivate over a TS aren't necessarily "gay" due to the fact that they may find that having sex with another masculine figure is repulsive...but...they have a fascination with the male penis. What is the best of both worlds?... a TS. A woman in figure who just happens to be sporting a dick for them to play with. It really isn't anything other than that.
Ok, I've rambled enough...but that is my opinion and beliefs whether anyone chooses to agree or not.
